Would you tell the most secret truth that could break a relationship, for money?

I have not seen this reality show, however, I know about it. I will not reveal any such secret, if at all there is any, which can effect my relationship with my better half of family on a TV show or at a public platform. Sometimes the situation is such that secrets should be burried under the carpet. It is said that truth is bitter and revealing something is not less than speaking truth, therefore, it would be better to wrap the secret under a cover, when one is sure that other than he no one knows the secret. Keeping a relationship alive and kicking is more important that earning money. Money cannot get back a broken relationship. Have a great day!

Money certainly does not have the last say in my life. I have my own opinions on people coming on shows like this Mimpi. The first thing that would come to my mind is what people do for the sake of earning money. Sell thier souls, put thier entire family,relationships, everything at risk for the sake of this money. And the question is not whether they get the money or not at the end of it, the loss in the instance you have described is far greater than anything that money would ever buy. Will the money be able to buy back the all of the family and the relationships tht she let go in those few moments. We have our secrets, and at some point of time do reveal them to the ones we totally trust. I feel it is always better to open up and divulge then to have something discovered from other means and certainly not in public on television. It's sad though that today the world has become materialistic in so many ways, and people stoop to not only public disclosures but also do so many things for the sake of earning money. It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good, too, to check up once in a while and make sure that you haven't lost the things that money can't buy. ~George Horace Lorimer

There are 1001 ways to make money. Selling my soul would be the last thing I will do for money. Profit and loss is attributed to money. Not to our self esteem. Once lost it is lost forever.

NO NO NO. I am always honest with my man and I would never cheat on him so I would tell the truth, there aren't any secrets that would break us up. I mean when people go on shows like that I have to wonder if the "Truth" is made up to make good reality television.

First of all I think that contest is a no-win situation. You might win lots of money but in the end you may have lost the people who were always there for you. In the case of the girl I think she would have been forgiven if it wasn't announced on live TV. For me money can never replace a good relationship but lying won't preserve it either.

Money is either the best or the worst area of communication in our marriages." After years as a financial counselor and working with marriage counselors, I know that money and money fights are the #1 cause of divorce, not to mention the thing we fight about the most. So if you are married and have money fights, you are normal. But if this is a real problem area for you, there is also an opportunity to improve your relationship and maybe even reach agreement with your spouse. I'm not talking about agreement brought on by surrender, but rather by each person getting a vote, understanding the other's view, and finding common ground. Let's face it - if we can agree on the checkbook, there would be nothing left to fight about except who gets the remote! Men and Women are Different: When it comes to money, men tend to take more risks and don't save for emergencies. Men use money as a scorecard and can struggle with self-esteem when there are financial problems. Women tend to see money more as a security issue, so they will gravitate toward the rainy-day fund. Because of their need for security, ladies can have a level of fear - my wife, Sharon, calls it terror - when there are financial problems. Men and women are different in how they view money, and it is largely because they process problems and opportunities from different vantage points. On top of the fact that men and women are different, opposites attract. Chances are, if you're married, one of you is good at working numbers (the nerd) and the other one isn't good at working numbers (the free spirit). That isn't the real problem. The problem is when the nerd neglects the input of the free spirit or when the free spirit avoids participating in the financial dealings altogether.

I have watched similar events pan out on "The Moment of Truth" as it used to show on satellite TV here. I am constantly amazed and how much people are prepared to put themselves, their families and their partners through, just for the sake of some money! There is NO WAY I would do the same! No amount of money is worth the destruction of our family or marriage. Congratulations to the lady you mentioned. She now has 500,000 dollars and a completely ruined family dynamic. Was it even worth it??? The unfortunate side of things is that she more than likely thinks it WAS worth it and the very fact that she has half a million dollars means that all the people she hurt will stick to her like glue regardless! Pretty messed up if you ask me.

no, money is not that important for me. i can always work and have my hard earned money that i need to be able to go through in life. but, if the question that i will have to deal with is something similar that you have just mentioned, i can surely do it. i don't see any reason why i must shy away from telling the truth. after all, the lie detector test will reveal that i have lied in the process. so what good would it be denying the truth then? the truth will still come out anyway, no matter how much i try to cover for it. actually, i am excellent at keeping secrets. if i promise you that your secret is safe with me, you can count on it. but, when i will have to answer a question answerable with a yes or no with the lie detector test on, i believe this is now a totally different story.

Never, never, never!!! First of all, I would never go on such an asinine show and anyone who does deserves what they get.

i want to save relationship so if that's happen i wont exchange any good relationship for money alone..i don't want to take the risk..i better keep my mouth silence..

Well, yeah, money has a lot of say in our lives, we really can't live without money, but for it to break our beautiful relationship with our love ones, I don't think I would choose money... I still would prefer to continue to have a good relationship than have lots of money, but with miserable relationship...

But how do they know if she lied and said no, does that mean she can only get the money if she says yes?

Depends really cause if the relationship is about to break up anyways and nothing will can be done about it then yes. Also it depends on the money. But if I know the relationship is genuine and they deserve to be together then I will never ever do anything to break it. Never. I am not like that.

As they say "Money Is The Root Of All Evil". For some I believe that is true. I have nothing to hide. Nothing know one couldn't know about. I would not be able to tell something about a relationship, lets say of someone else. I think those games shows are disgusting. What some people will do for money. It sure didn't stay on the air long did it.

You know, it just goes to show that she valued money more than she valued her relationship, her family or her self respect. She has effectively betrayed her husband twice here. The first time by cheating on him and the second by confessing to him, on television, what she had done. And what for? Money? Um, there are things that are more important in life, like actually being able to be a good person so that you can be a good friend, wife, mother, daughter etc etc (we are talking about a women here, not trying to be sexist).

Hi mimpi! I think that there has to be somethings that we have to just keep to ourselves and something like that which could end up destryoing a relationship is certainly one of them! I guess it didn't mean anything to her in the first place or she wouldn't have cheated to begin with! So of course the money would be more important! But, to do this to someone and hurt them on national tv that is just plain disgusting! Why would you want the world to know what a horrible person you are? All that for money? I would never consider doing something so horrible! That woman is a terrible person and will be punished in other ways!

Money ruled everything including relationship. If the amount involved is big, most secret truth will have no where to hide, since people are greedy by nature especially when offer with 500,000 dollars, the magic of money triumph. Lol!

Money. Everybody wants it. How low some will go to get it, well... Those that want money so badly don't always stop to count the cost. How much is your soul worth? Or the love and respect of your family? I cannot fathom why anyone would go on a reality show let alone one that will inevitably hurt others and cause irrevocable damage. Oh! Yes, that's right! Money!

I've seen this show you're talking about and I loathe it. I can't believe these idiots throw away relationships on show after show just for some cash. It makes me sick. First of all, I think the show is to blame. They put you through the polygraph test and know which questions can ruin your life. Don't you think it's odd that they always ask the awful questions? Also, if I were an adultress, I wouldn't go on the show at all. If there was a chance my entire life could be ruined by a gameshow, I sure as heck wouldn't be a contestant!! Who in their right mind would?

The thing is, this is not a normal, reality-based situation. This is television. The woman was obviously asked about this affair prior to the taping (or at least prior to her husband and family bearing witness to her admittance), she was obviously aware that the concept of cheating would most likely be addressed, and she was obviously aware that she HAD, in fact, cheated, and in order to win this money would have to admit to it. She could have declined to answer, she could have lied and been called out for it, or she could have told the truth. All three situations would have ended in the public knowledge that she had, in fact, had an affair. She walked into it knowing what she would come out of it with; to some people, the money is worth more than the relationship. This woman was apparently one of those people.