date a woman
By sunil_008
@sunil_008 (1269)
India
February 21, 2009 6:08pm CST
hi all, i have for sometime now this question is been spinning in my head.
would you date a rich ugly woman?
would you date a woman who is not so rich but pretty and she has a disabled kid to look after?
give some reason why?
i hope my question will find some of the nicest people around the community.
happy my lotting...
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4 responses
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
22 Feb 09
Hi sunil. We all have standerds when it comes to who we date. It is the process in which we chose our life partner. If the interest is there then it doesn't matter but to be true to yourself you have to ask "Is this something I can live with?" It is important to do that for both you and your potential mate. Dating can be fun but it is a way of selection and if these things are ok with you then that's great.
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
23 Feb 09
i think you are right. but i see all those who date each other do not stay together. some of them stay and some don't. but when you date someone then you must have seen some common interest or something like that which brought two persons together. but some really move away... thanks for sharing
@jolasu (49)
• United States
22 Feb 09
I agree with Barbie84. It would totally depend on personality and common interests. No matter how rich or good looking someone is, it wouldn't make up for them being really mean or rude to you or others. So I guess my answer would be yes to either scenario depending on personality and the things we had in common.
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
23 Feb 09
hi, i agree with you all. i think its about personal choice and common interest. without these two no two individuals can come closer...thanks for responding
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
The world is such a wonderful place and there are many opportunities for everyone. I would imagine that anyone who desired a rich, older woman would be able to find someone of that nature. Wanting to date a woman with a disabled kid could be something in the mind of some people. I am sure it is possible to find this. It is all a matter of desire, in my humble opinion. Cheers!!
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
22 Feb 09
thanks for sharing those wonderful thoughts...i really appreciate that...thanks for responding...
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
1 Mar 09
Sunil, ugly is in the eye of the beholder. Often you meet someone and they seem attractive at first and you get to know them but there is ugliness inside. It is the same when you meet someone you are not immediately physically attracted to but find to be a good person with a good spirit. Money should not be a factor in dating but if someone wants to date someone else they should at least have the money to go out. I am a woman who is not rich when it comes to having money but I will pay when I go out sometimes. One time a guy waited until we were already on a date to say we both had to pay because he didn't have enough money for both of us. Fortunately for him I had enough money with me. It would have been better for him to say it before hand instead of waiting until after the fact. I know other people who insist the man must pay always. Some people believe it is the person who asks to go out. As to dating people with kids, disabled or not, if you are not ready for the responsibility it's best not to. If you are looking for something real then take the time to get to know the mother first.
