What do you do to show your husband you love him out of the bedroom please?
By suzzy3
@suzzy3 (8341)
February 22, 2009 5:49pm CST
I try to have his dinner on time,get his clothes clean,keep the home clean ect.I also talk to him ,ask him what sort of day he has had.look after our son,try to be supportive in everything he does,tell him his decorating resembles the Cystine chapel and boost his moral.What are you tips for keeping a man loved and appreciated.
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@UK_Shree (3603)
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23 Feb 09
I'm not married but I am always reminding my boyfriend of how great I think he is, I always remember to show my appreciation for the things that he does for me and I make an effort to support him in personal situations and try to be there for him as much as I can
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
23 Feb 09
if he feels most loved in the bedroom, maybe hold his hand when you are out, put your arm aaround him when around friends and family, give him a massage after a long day.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
9 Mar 09
I do those things too, as well as trying to notice what he would want or need before he needs to ask, such as if he is outside working, I will bring him a cold drink, if he is getting into the shower, I will get him a towel, and cean clothes..A lot of people think he is spoiled, but, he deserves it with all he does for us! =)
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@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I think you've already answered your question in your discussion, I try to do all those things for my husband, everybody tells him he's spoiled, and he is. I think I wait on him hand and foot, but of course he does the same for me. Right now he's having some knee troubles and looking at knee replacement surgery in the near future, and I make sure he takes his pain medicine everyday, and make sure he's comfortable and gets to rest and relax when he gets home from work, and make sure he doesn't have to do anything, I told him if I could take the pain away I would, and he knows I would. I love him very much, and I make sure he knows he's appreciated.
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@suzzy3 (8341)
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23 Feb 09
I think it is lovely to hear about devoted couples that both really care about one another,sometimes all you hear about is divorce and unhappiness.we must be so lucky .But there is a saying you only get out what you put in,and if it works it is wonderful.I hope your husband knee is soon sorted out for him as that is really painful.My husband cannot beleave his luck with me as some of the wives do not even cook a meal in the evenings,and also some of the husbands spend their day of on the golf course,so it cuts both ways.Be happy in what you do.xxxx
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
23 Feb 09
sorry suzzy, i sure am not one to be giving you advice on men. i didn't do so well w/ the two i had so i gave up. let me ask u a question i mean no offense, does he do all that for you?
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@suzzy3 (8341)
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23 Feb 09
What a shame things did not work out for you I am so sorry to hear that.My husband brings me flowers and does all the gardening decorating,ect.He asks me how I feel and cooks dinner if i am tired,see what you mean though first husband was a waste of time,never did anything to make me happy.I will not let anyone take the mick out of me,but being so lucky with number two ,it is good and it will be for you one day just beleave that,love suzzy3xx.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
23 Feb 09
you are very sweet, thank you. i gave up on that years ago but i'm old. lol. i'm so glad u have a good one now, i know u deserve it after the first go around. good luck.

@strawberrychocodahi (4817)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
A loving wife does that to please his husband. I am happy to hear that you are so caring to your husband and you do show your love for him.
As for me, i am a wife too and to household chores, wash clothes, iron it, take care of everything here at home which includes cooking his favorite food. Aside from that i also boil water for him to take a bath since our water is cold, we don't have a heater. I also massage his back to make sure that his stressful day will be ease. I am happy since i do it because i wanted him to feel loved and cared for.
He also does the same thing for me like cook food, massage me and take care of me. I guess the added craziness i do at times is that i do vandal his notebook and draw funny stuffs into it and when he comes home, figure out about the drawing when he was at work, and he would be laughing and pinching me on my cheeks for my being knowwwty-naughty. We have to make our hubby smile and laugh too. 

@strawberrychocodahi (4817)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
yes, we do have our own unique way of showing our love to our spouse. Happy Mylotting!








