confusing

China
February 24, 2009 10:25pm CST
hey my friends! Im a college student that will graduate .And now im practicing in my relative's company,the job fit in with my magor mainly.But i seemed like don't fit in with this job because i donot learn knowledge here ,therehave no power to make me to study .May be idon't like this familiar surrounding ,so ihave no strenth?i want to find a new job by myself but you know the condition this year is not good.i'm thinking this matter all the time .friends, can you give me your suggestion?
5 responses
• China
25 Feb 09
Do you think that you will be getting power to learn in the unfamiliar environment? You hasn't graduated. I think the most important thing right now is to enrich yourself with the diversified experiences...at least your working experiences...You're lucky that you can work in your relative's own company...Do you imagine if you don't have this chance, will you still be lucky enough to find your 1st job??? We will need to be adapted to the sociaty to be surviving especially the outer environment is soft. Be patient!!
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• China
25 Feb 09
yeah,im so luky i have a job .maybe im too self-conceit and impatient.
@tudors (1556)
• China
25 Feb 09
You feel you don't learn much not completely because you are in your relative's company but mainly because of yourself ! you are not using your precious time efficiently. There are so much to learn either from book or experience. i bet you are not busy at this company, so why not use this opportunity to enhance your knowledge and academci skills for a future better chance in bigger companies? for example, self-teaching a new skill which may prove useful in other field or industry? There may be the possibility that you might learn more in other companies and may be not.
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• China
25 Feb 09
Yeah you are right .im not busy in this company .i have nothing to do thismakes me worry ,i feel im wasting time here. thank you i know it's my problem ,i'll try hard to change myself .i need to know how to change my self
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
25 Feb 09
I think you should learn all that you can and try to find it where ever you are hired, before you look around for another. Ask all these questions and learn everything that you can from them and then you should quit after you learned all that you can. Good luck!
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@forslahiri (1042)
• India
25 Feb 09
Hi, You actually donot know 'what do you want','what's are ur priority, in life?' U have a job.Obstacles there are familiarity and no scope of continuing Ur studies--right?How do u anticipate that:-(1) U'll be getting a new job, of ur Liking?(2) There also this situation will not exist/arise? So,settle in Ur present job and by settling only U can search for an opportunity(where it is possible to study).Maybe by changing departments?Asking for flexi-job timing etc? =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@tudors (1556)
• China
26 Feb 09
thank you. This is the very first "best response" i've ever received from mylot, to be exact, from you, friend. i feel happy !