It hurts to smile!

Canada
February 27, 2009 9:52am CST
It hurts SO much to smile, due to dry chapped and cracked lips. Seriously, it's getting to a point where I get mad at my coworkers for making me laugh, because my lip splits yet again, starts to bleed, and brings tears to my eyes. I've tried Vaseline, lotion, my tat wax (from when I got my first tattoo, I LOVE that stuff!) Drinking 3 bottles of water daily, doing everything at the same time as well! And nothing changes, I can only hope that Spring gets here quicker, because this dry cold weather is just murder on my lips! It gets to be -40 with the wind chill in the morning now, but it's finally starting to warm up. YAH! Has this happened to anyone else?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Nope not even wehn we lived in WS. and the wind chill was -40 my lips just don chap!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
27 Feb 09
your welcome!
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
Lucky Lady you! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
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@suzzy3 (8342)
27 Feb 09
Perhaps you should visit your doctors and it sounds very painful.x
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
Oh I'm sure it will go away with the helpful tips I've gotten so far! And if those don't work, THEN the doctor. Thanks for responding! Happy myLotting!
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@muru1950 (963)
• India
27 Feb 09
Hi candymarie It is really painful to know that it hurts to smile. The basic cause is dehydration.But you are already drinking sufficient water. You may try to keep your lips wet by some of the following tips. 1.Use a lip balm every time you feel dry.Keep it with you where ever you go. 2.You may apply a creamy lipstick on your lips. 3.You may apply some olive oil on your lips. If these tips don't work out,consult a doctor.You may be suffering from iron and some vitamin deficiency!You may be even allergic to some toothpaste!! Wish you a quick recovery. Happy mylotting.
• Canada
27 Feb 09
Oh goodness! I just had 7 cavities filled! My dentist would LOVE me tell him that I'm allergic to toothpaste as well! LOL. I tend to stay away from over-using the lipbalm, because my lips would then depend on it too much, at least that's my theory. And I take daily vitamins, my friends are shocked that I do that willingly when I'm 24! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
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• China
28 Feb 09
may be drink much water everyday is useful.
@Starwulf (43)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Not sure where you live, but if in the the great north, try some seal blubber. (kidding) When I talk to people with this problem it is sometimes due to eating too much of the wrong kinds of fat - meat, and not enough healthy fat - olive oil, to just name a couple. You may need to drink more water if you drink coffee or pop, big diuretics and don't eat enough vegetables. It's hard to tell just by a post like this. Remember, our cells are bags (cell wall) of oil holding water (center of cell and fluid surrounding them & blood). If the balance if off we form wrinkles faster, our skin ages faster, have more dry skin and our organs suffer too. Speak with a Naturopath or Ayurvedic practitioner, maybe they can help figure it out.
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
I live in Calgary, AB, Canada. Winter is JUST dwindling down, getting warmer, everyone is happy to see the sun today I tell you that! But in Calgary, there's not enough moisture in the air, which REALLY sucks, especially since I'm from Nova Scotia, an East Coast province, with LOTS of moisture. But uh....I might pass on the seal blubber *eck!* he he. Thanks for responding and happy mtLotting!
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@w3d4d3w4 (13)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 09
hhmmmm... i know it's problem for you. your can have fun her. example give your smile every time for her.
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@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
27 Feb 09
This use to happen to my husband all the time. He has carmex in his pocket all the time. Blistex is also a very soothing medication lip balm to use. It feels really good and heals fast. Sometimes when one uses lipsticks or chap sticks too much, our lips don't produce their natural oils, and they dry out faster. I find if I haven't used lipstick for a long time and then use it, that my lips start getting chapped. Try some other products on your lips, if all else fails ask your doctor or pharmacist.
• Canada
2 Mar 09
That is very true! especially with Blistex, well that was the brand they used as an example for the report. Overuse creates a dependability on the product. Tell your hubby I feel his pain! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
@marina321 (4556)
28 Feb 09
Make sure you the lip balm you use has vitamin E and put loads of vaseline! I do suffer the same problem from time to time to the point where it's hard to put lipstick on but lip balm often sorts it out, just keep putting it on till the problem goes away... Also try E45 (think they do a lip balm too now...), it's great for all skin conditions and lippies too
@marina321 (4556)
2 Mar 09
Not sure if they sell it in Canada, you could check at your pharmacists Here's the link.. http://www.e45.com/index.php
• Canada
2 Mar 09
Thanks! I never heard of E45 though, do they sell in Canada?
@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Try some Shea butter, you can get it from the health food store. This is what my Homeopathic Doctor told me to do and it worked for me.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Feb 09
yes but make sure you get the pure stuff. You don't want any additions to it. I sure hope it works for you as well as it does for me.
• Canada
27 Feb 09
SWEET! Thanks for the help! Happy myLotting!
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
Is that the body butter stuff?
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@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
Yeah. It happened to me. I think it was some sort of wind burn. I just used petroleum jelly then it was alright.
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
Thanks for responding as well as the tip! Happy myLotting!
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Try not to lick your lip and put the thickest vaseline on your lip sleep overnight, it helps very good!
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• Canada
2 Mar 09
Sounds like a plan stan! Thanks for responding! Happy myLotting!
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
1 Mar 09
Hi, This inflammatory condition is known as ANGULAR Chelutitis. Ur dietary intake is deprived of the following:-Iron,Vit B12,Vit B2. Pl include:-Meat/Poultry?fish(for Iron),milk,cheese,Yoghart(for B12) &egg,whole-grain food,leafy vegetable(for B2)- in Ur diet. Next season, U'll use less Vaseline & smile Better! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
• Canada
2 Mar 09
Hrm....I DO eat all of those! (except fish, can't eat fish, but I eat lots of chicken!) milk cheese, yogurt, yep. eggs, definately! I like breakfast for supper hehe, so that comes with the whole grain toast. Oh well, must be the weather now! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
@tudors (1556)
• China
27 Feb 09
hi, i may give you some advice on this coz i used to suffer this a lot, but it was years ago. My secret is to use lip balm at night, right before bed. I used Avon, cheap but workable, i'm not sure about other brands. insist doing this for a week, have a try.
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
That's a good idea! Thanks for the help, and thanks for responding! Happy myLotting!
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• United States
27 Feb 09
I have never had it that bad, I am sorry for your pain. I always lotion my lips when I lotion my hands. It tastes horrible so I don;t lick it off. Good luck to you.
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• Canada
27 Feb 09
Thanks! And yes, lotion does taste disgusting lol. Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
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• United States
28 Feb 09
you should buy some blistex, and you should exfoleate your lips. use some surgar, honey and green tea. i use that sometimes for my face and lips, you want the mix to look kind of like wet sand, put it all over your face and lips, try to to eat it, scrub very gentlly or else it's going to hurt.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
28 Feb 09
i can understand perfectly how you feel as i experienced it myself in the past... what i did is to drink more water and i use lip balm every night before i sleep... it helps a lot for me... -40 is really cold... it must be really freezing in the place where you live... take care and have a nice day...
• Canada
2 Mar 09
Oh yes indeed! But it's the windchill that makes it worse! Thankfully Spring is getting closer though, the birdies are out tweet-tweeting! YAH! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
27 Feb 09
It happens alot. I use Carmes. It works for me and my daughter. And she gets chapped all around her mouth as well. Sounds like you are having a rough go. I found an article. It may help, or you may just find it amusing: How to Make Natural Lip Balm a Treatment for Chapped Lips http://www.ehow.com/how_4716768_lip-balm-treatment-chapped-lips.html?ref=fuel&utm_source=yahoo&utm_medium=ssp&utm_campaign=yssp_art
• Canada
27 Feb 09
*gasp* YAH! I like making stuff!!! I found an awesome recipe for leg wax, but am not sure how affective it will be, so a little scared hehe. But thank you so much for this recipe, I'm very tempted to try this out! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
27 Feb 09
In the past my lips have gotten really, really dry, this year I have been fairly lucky, my lips only got mildly chapped, but my son's lips got really bad this year. So bad the skin around the lips got all swollen. We had to put vaseline on his lips and Neosporin on the skin around the lips. It worked after a couple of days and his lips got better, but for a while there they were bad.
• Canada
27 Feb 09
Aw! My little cousin had the same issue, and he couldn't stop licking his lips, it got so bad that entire area around his mouth by a good inch and half, was just red, and looked SORE. On top of the licking though, he would rub furiously at his skin, his mother and myself (when I was their nanny) would just be SHOCKED and why he kept doing that to himself, and would constantly remind him to keep his hands down and tongue in his mouth. SUCH a bad habit for him to stop! Difficult, but he did it, and we're proud of him! Thanks for the tip, the response, and happy myLotting!
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• Pakistan
28 Feb 09
Dear candy...it seems like it is an internal problem and has nothing to do with the weather most probably. I had this problem years ago and found a remedy for it. For a few nights you have to pour a few drops of Mustard oil in your belly button and cover it with fresh cotton. You just have to keep it doing till you feel your lips getting rich and soft right from insight.Meanwhile, keep using some Petroleum Jelly right before going to bed. Just apply a lot of it on the lips and massage the jelly well onto the lips until the 1st application tends to vanish...and then apply lots of the jelly to stay over night.
• Canada
2 Mar 09
....I'm going to say no to the mustard oil on my belly button. No offense lol. I will take the suggestion though for the jelly, you can have this one back though. *hands mustard oil/belly button back* Thanks for responding! and Happy myLotting!
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
LOL i thought you were gonna say "it hurts to smile when you're not happy". I use petroleum jelly (like vaseline) when i get very dry lips. But i heard petroleum jelly could be dangerous if consumed - i don't know, i haven't done research on that. I hope it's not true because nothing else works for me better than petroleum jelly on dry lips. godiva whitening lipgloss is my 2nd choice. but i have to apply it more often unlike p.jelly....
• Canada
2 Mar 09
Oh goodness! I didn't hear that about the jelly either! I know some models used to use it on their teeth so their lips wouldn't stick to their teeth. Hoped they stopped just in case. Hehe, yes, I gave my discussion that title to make people curious to come and read! Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!