how to deal with my wife
By chimrani
@chimrani (1426)
India
February 28, 2009 10:21am CST
Friends,
iam married before two years and iam now working at my home and earning lively hood by google adsense and ptc,ptr sites.
my wife disturbs me when ever she gets time and i have to stop my work in the middle.when ever i do an important work she says bring this and bring that and i scold her and some time beat her
now i have no interest to talk her or to love her just because she distub me
please tell me how should i convience her ?
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4 responses
@shav9292 (928)
• India
28 Feb 09
it seems that your wife and you make a good couple.you should be glad that there is communication between you two.i know it is very irritating when people disturb you like that but in the family,sometimes that's how it goes.
And try not to get physical with your wife,not only because it is morally wrong but you might loose respect in your wife's eyes.
i know work is important and all,but think about it,at the end of the day you earn only to stay alive to live a secure life.so thinking about that spend time with her.
just sit down with here and ask her,or tell her what is in your mind.
if you don't speak to her and she doesn't too then your relationship will be in tension.
anyway friend,i know its late but i wish you a very happy married life.take care!! :)
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@shav9292 (928)
• India
28 Feb 09
Even though i am not married i kinda know that marriage is commitment and adjustment is a part of life.there are some sad times and tough times but what is most important is the bond between the two.one day years later you will look back and realize that..."oh i have come this far,its great!!!".
i am sure you two are meant for each other.
besides there is nothing a little love cant solve now is there.
Have a nice day friend.!!!!!:)
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@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
28 Feb 09
I certainly hope this is a joke and that you are not seriously telling us that you scold and beat your wife for disturbing you. If you this is not a joke and this is acually happening, I hope your wife leaves you very quickly. If you consider on line earnings to be more important than your wife, perhaps you deserve to live alone. I am sorry if I sound rude or cruel, but no man should ever put his hands on a woman in a violent nature.
@nishdan01 (3050)
• Singapore
3 Mar 09
Come on! You are telling that Indians do not divorce and every guy beats his wife. You are wrong.You are just telling it from from your persepective. I am Indian too and have seen several discussions on divorce in advise giving sites. Things were different years ago, but now things have changed.
@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
28 Feb 09
So are you saying in India that is acceptable to beat one's wife?
I work all day too, and I work at home, and my kids interupt me all day long, should I just beat them? Or next time I am working and my husband comes home early and wants some of my attention should I hit him with a chair?
Maybe there are culteral differences here, but I can't believe you think it is right to beat your wife for wanting a little attention from you.
Maybe you could take a half hour for lunch and have it with her and tell her that what ever she needs to discuss with you she can do it during that time frame. But during the rest of the day you can not be interupted unless it is an emergency.
@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Mar 09
I think it is wrong to scold and beat your wife. I think your wife loves you, so she wants to have a communication with you. I understand that your work is important. But I think it is also important to spend some time with your wife. If you are really busy at your work, then you have to be kind to tell her that you are busy at present and you will spend some time with her later. I think she will understand and leave you alone for a while.
I love China
@shiwangipeswani (613)
• India
6 Mar 09
hi again,
very bad ,very very bad,how can you be so inhuman yaar ,maana ki woh disturb karti hai,but that doesn't mean ki tum us par haath uthao,being a wife i can say that she loves you very much.i have an idea for you instead of trying to convince her just search for an office and go there and work from there from at least 9 to 6.just try this and tell me,if you will be at home all the time this problem will remain there.and hey i read about your girlfrnd also ,dioing an extramarital affair is the worse thing a man can do.sorry to interfere.
