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Is he telling you what will he be doing and where? In situation like that, it's very normal to get suspicious. But, of course, it's really boring to be in the house all day, trust me, really boring 'cause I'm working home-based and I'm bored as hell. Anyway, I really believe that one of the good approach is to talk and I mean, "the sit down, let's talk" approach, without one of you guys getting mad at each other. Stay calm and talk things through. Explain to him how you feel about him going every night and you could use a little understanding. Tell him how he would feel if it's you doing that. Tell him that you're not prohibiting him to go out but be sensitive enough to your feeling that every night is just overrated. Just take note that it's important to stay calm and control your temper 'cause if one of you gets mad during the conversation, it will just get worse. Good luck. Hope things will turn out well.

Talk - I know it's boring to stay at home esp. with very small children. You'll need som time with adults as well. But I would never leave the home every night. Does he have to stay in the house all day - isn't there things he could do during the days? I wouldn't spend time away from my family every night even if I'm at home all day. I would like to be with my partner as well.

Well fathers are really not designed to become housebands. By nature men are most likely be always on the move and working something out to their family. I guess that is what your hubby is experiencing. He may feel a little secluded being at home all the time. I think you two should have a one on one talk about it. Tell him that he has to lessen his going out to have the two of you the chance to bond also.

I think you should talk to him about it somehow.. maybe write a letter if he doesn't listen. Communication is always important and he may be stressed that he has to be at home all the time. I think it is important to make it clear what he wants and what you want. Good luck!