Would you marry a Japanese ?
March 4, 2009 5:03am CST
Hello all. Recently I am always in a bad mood becuase of a friend.She married a japanese boy.Before marriage the boy treated her wery well.Later she went to Japen with the boy.She time by time finds many bad habbits of the boy.He looks down on woman.He drinks a lot.He has many women outside.She lives a hard life. Do you know about Japanese ? Is there anyone married to Japanese?Are they sll like the husband of my friend?
4 Mar 09
Well not to discriminate a person because he was Japanese. But my friend, it just so happen that your friend didn't know the person whom she married well. There are good and bad people in Japan, be where ever you are , what ever the race may be, we cannot generalize the fact that all Japanese men are like this. Just sad to hear that your friend now suffers. I wonder how long did your friend became friends with her Japanese hubby that she was not able to see the bad side of the man. Anyway as for my own preference, my preference ok, i don't have an eye for men who are not taller than me, this is just me. So i think i would not like to also be involve with a Japanese guy since most of them have a small, ahemmmm, i think you know what i mean . Sorry Japanese folks out here on Mylot. I am not picking on you, i am just stating my preference.Peace to all!
4 Mar 09
i don't think all japanese are like that (not that i know anyone married to a japanese) but you know, i kinda believe that the goodness of a person cannot be based on his race or nationality. there are good japanese and there are bad japanese. same with americans, brits, pretty much in all the countries in the world. I just think it's unfair that all japanese men should be labelled "*ssholes". LoL.. my kid's dad is a jerk and he's not japanese by the way. LoL!! Hope that helps! and i'm sorry to hear about your friend's situation. I hope she can do something about it and the guy changes his behavior. If not, then at least get away from that guy.
4 Mar 09
Hello, first of all i should say i'm a man, so maybe it's different for me. I don't guess japanise women drink a lot, have lot of bad habbits, looks down on men and so on. But i really don't know too much about japan so i can't answer. Anyway i guess is not a problem of the country, is a problem of the kind of man your friend got. About me, i'm from Italy and i've married a chinese girl. And she's a marvelous girl, about any aspect. I'm really happy i've got a so beautiful person in my life, and anyway i don't guess is coz she's chinese. Is just coz she's she.
• United States
4 Mar 09
I don't particularly like Japanese, I personally think their relationship things are all screwed up. MY uncle has a Japanese wife, my uncle is not happy at all during the whole time, she cheated on him and brought the kid back to Japan and left my uncle in Hong Kong.