Did you ever wish you were an only child?

Philippines
March 5, 2009 5:34pm CST
Hi fellow mylotters. My daughter has a friend who has three siblings and she would always tell my daughter that she's so lucky for not having any and that she wished she was also an only child.She hates all her siblings because she feels neglected. Were there occasions when you wished not having any siblings too? Thanks in advance for your response.Happy mylottin!
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@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I have two sisters and we always have great time together. When we were younger we would always have some petty quarrels but never have I wished to be an only child.
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
Hi bubbletush. I'm happy that you enjoy having sisters.I do wish my daughter's friend gets to realize that having siblings could be fun as well. Thanks for sharing and happy lottin!
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I agree with you,Judy.There are some things that you wouldn't want to share with any one else other than your siblings.I'm glad that you get along well with yours. Happy lottin and thank you for sharing.
• China
6 Mar 09
Exactly, I have the same experience with you. I have a sister and a brother. When we were childern, sometimes, we quarreled just because of nonsense. But most of time, we feel so happy,because I have three siblings which makes me not feel alone. And now,we always help others. you know there always are some words that you can't or don't want to let your parents know. At this time, I will choose to tell my siblings. They will always try their best to help me.
• Canada
6 Mar 09
Never..we are 9 and am the eldest and we had wonderful times..if she feels neglected..she may have been even if she had been a only child. There is more than meets the eye..as you don't hate your siblings to that point. She may just want more attention than them..well won't get into that..too complicated..
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I agree with you,DancingRedFeather..she probably wants all the attention. And yes,it's complicated. Thanks for your response.Happy weekend!
• Canada
7 Mar 09
welcome and grt wkend too
• China
6 Mar 09
I hope I have siblings, because one is so alone! Maybe sometimes you maybe a little neglected, however, you will feel more attention from other ones not only the love of parents!
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
Hi lanyoublue. When my daughter was younger,she also wished to have one or two siblings but she has gotten used to being an only child now. Thanks for your response.Have a nice weekend.
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I also wished i was an only child cause i'd get lots of stuff!!! and being in the middle (we're three) it's like you're not noticed and being the GOOD SON isn't that easy either both of my brothers are spoiled...... one of them made my mother cry......
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
I can relate to your experience about not being noticed as I am also a middle child. I'm sorry to hear about your brother making your mom cry. But just look at it on the bright side, I'm sure you also have a lot of fun with your siblings. Thanks for your response.
@venchaul (541)
• China
6 Mar 09
A good topic for us! Thank you! I have one brother and two sisiters, and I am the elder brother. To tell the truth, it is wonderful to have silbings because there are so many things to share with us when parents can't help! But now I am so far from my brother and sisters. We can't see each other until December.Fortunately the net and phone can make us keep in touch and communicate heart-to-heart. I miss them so much!Wish them happy and make progress in study! Also Good luck to you!
• Philippines
10 Mar 09
Thank you,venchaul.I wish you happiness and hope you get to see them soon. Happy mylottin!Good luck to you too!
• China
6 Mar 09
I am the only child in my family,sometimes when i went home i feel lonely^ I hope i can have a sibing ,just one ,no more.
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
Hi shirley. I guess it could get lonely at times..but just look at the bright side,you've got friends and parents. Thanks for your response.Happy lotting!
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
hi elmolovesu! well, i guess i did wish that when i was younger, when i was a kid. i was 8.5 years old when i had my younger brother. or i mean, when my mother had my younger brother. lol anyway, we used to fight a lot while we were growing up, despite the age difference. i wanted so much to have a sister, but when he turned out to be a brother, things changed. but now, we are sooo close that i wouldn't exchange being an only child for my brother. i love him sooo much! when i was single and we were still living together in one house, i would buy him stuff. he would often come to me and if i can afford it, i would buy his favorite things that my parents could not afford to buy or would not buy for him. during his last year in college when his educational plan was cancelled because the company closed, i was the one who spent for his remaining year. anyway, i am glad that i have a brother. God has a purpose for him take care and God bless you! happy mylotting! :D
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
Hi spoiled311. You're brother is very lucky to have you for a sister.It's nice to know that you love and care for him so much. Much thanks and have a great weekend!
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
My little brother and I had a 10-year gap so I could say I experienced being an only child for a while. It's really nice to be one 'cause, you know, you're the center of attention of your parents and back then, they always give me what I want, toys, sweets and stuff. But, then 10 years after came my brother and I must admit, that I felt a little jealousy 'cause what was I'm thinking back then, I was only 10. Eventually, I had gotten over it and realized that it's fun to have a sibling 'cause you have someone to talk about childish stuff, get to argue things with like the TV's remote, toys which is fun actually and I enjoy the company. To answer your question, I don't wish to be just an only child. Our parents treated us equally so I've no problem with that.
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
Hi dutchess.It would surely be nice if all parents are like yours. Thanks.Happy mylottin!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I think that comes in all of us specially when we're younger and our parents couldn't really give us everything we want and we had to 'share' with our siblings. You know how kids are, we are actually selfish. On the other hand, our parents always see to it that they treat everyone fairly, much to the dismay of other siblings hoping to have something 'more'. Yes, I did have that type of mindset when I was younger. Well, sometimes I even get to wonder what it would be like if I was the only child. But, I also have thoughts of 'what if I had a sister?', I may not be an only child, but I'm an only daughter. I don't think she is neglected. I think the child just wants to be a princess, and she can't because everyone else wanted to be one. hehehe... Tell her that if she were alone, she'd have no one to boss around and she's have to do everything her mom and dad will say without question. Unlike when you're not alone (or have siblings) you could play as a team and have lots of fun!
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I agree with you,laydee.Being a kid and not getting everything she wants may have something to do with it. Thanks for sharing your view on this and have a great weekend.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
Hi... I grew up with three siblings, an elder sister, elder brother and a younger sister. And we had a very happy childhood. There were times we had sibling rivalries, our mini-wrestling match (this happened most of the time between me and younger sister), the usual bickerings, misunderstandings. But I will never ever change those years for a single wish that I was an only child. Sure, our growing up years were mixed with laughter, tears, disputes, and some very serious arguments that made us not speak to each for sometime. But just the same, I'm very, very blessed to have all three of them. We grew up very close,and we still are. Even when we have our own families, we still stick to each other like glue.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I have a brother and a sister. And I am the youngest. Whatever happens or whatever happened, I am still grateful that I had them in my life.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
5 Mar 09
I NEVER thought I wanted to be an only child.. I actually always felt sorry for them.. maybe cause I had a lot of fun and support from my siblings. But recently, I wondered what it would have been like... if I got ALL the attention from my parents... I wondered how it differs even from birth order. But I'm glad I'm not an only child.
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
Hi Lore. In my daughter's case,yes,she gets all the attention from me and her dad.But I'm still hopeful that she'll have one or two siblings soon. Thanks.Happy weekend.
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
6 Mar 09
No,i never wish that.Even when i was a little girl,i always wish my mother born a twin sister for me,then we have the same appearance ,and can wear same clothes,play together everyday and go to school everyday,that will be funny.^_^. Actually,i till now i also want myself have a twin sister.Although i have two elder sisters and one elder brother,and i like them,especially my two sisters,they treat me very well.I wish that one day when i'm married,i still want to have twins baby...Grrrrr...^_^
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
Having a twin sister would really be cute,Nancy.When I was a kid, there were times when I also wished I had one. Hope you get your wish of having twins in the future. Cheers!
@gzlgzl123 (224)
• China
17 Mar 09
Somethimes I often think if I were a child.With the society's development,everyone has different pressure from different fields.When I watch the child playing in the ground every time,I feel so happy.If he were me,that's so wonderful.
@leo321 (214)
• China
7 Mar 09
well,i have one brother and two sisters,and i am the third,i never have the mind that it's better if i were an only child,because we four got on well with each other all the while,and just because i have so many siblings,i have obtained so much happiness,i can't imagine that if i were an only child,it may be lonely and dull.
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 09
Nah, I just love the way things are!~ Thins would be less exciting if I was the only child plus who knows the amount of pressure that might arise? Hahaha
• United States
8 Mar 09
yeah but i kind of already was in a way because my brothers were 15 and 13 years older than me so the age difference made it feel as if i was
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I am the eldest of seven kids and I did once wished that I was an only child. I have a sister and five brothers and all were far younger than me. I am three years older than my sister. Our brother are ages 13, 10, 8, 6 and 5. I never really experienced to grew up with my parents because they worked in abroad for 15 years. Then when they get here in my country I had 3 brothers then another 2 followed. I have always been wishing that what if I am the only child? Maybe my parents had given me more attention than leaving me with my great grandparents who took care of me. Now that I am married I have found my true home. I am being taken care well by my husband and he never fails to make me happy by giving me his full attention whenever he arrives at home from work. I am really blessed because before I badly lack attention from my love ones. Now I have a happy family. My son is five months old and I am a full time wife and mom. I could say that I may not be an only child and may not have all the love I needed before but now I am far luckier than my brothers and sister. I promised to myself that my son will be loved the way that every child wants to be taken care of and loved. As of now I really don't have plans of having another baby. In my mind, I wish that he will grow as an only child but I will just expose him to other children to grow as a sociable person.
• United States
17 Mar 09
Sometimes I do.But if I was an only child, I would be alone and I wouldn't experience some things that I learned thanks to my sisters. Looking down at the comments, I used to wish I had a twin too. I still do, but I can't change that. And I don;t think I would change that.
• United States
6 Mar 09
no that would make life so boring