Would you mind dating a....

Singapore
March 7, 2009 7:57am CST
younger guy? or an older woman? For me, i don't think i would want to date a younger guy. I already find guys my age to me rather childish and i do prefer guys older than me. But some guys, prefer older women. Because they say that younger girls tend to be sticky and not matured. What's your take?
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• Philippines
8 Mar 09
i agree with you.. i like older guys better..my husband is 8 years my senior and i really like his way of thinking.. but there are also younger guys that are mature enough to handle relationships... so it still depends on the person
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• Singapore
9 Mar 09
you're right. But how many are there out of say 10. Maybe 1 out of 10 is mature enough. BUt hey, i think 8 years is actually one of my ideal age gaps.
• India
8 Mar 09
Why not and i don`t think that younger girls are tend to be a bit stcky or immature i think today`s girls are quite smart enough to understand guys pretty well and their intentions.....
• Singapore
9 Mar 09
not all actually. i do have peers my age (gals) who sometimes i pity their guys. The way they act and stuff. It's a wonder how that guy can tolerate her.
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I would not want to date somebody younger than me. I just can't see myself being in a relationship with somebody younger, even if its only a year or two! I have always wanted to date an older guy but I always end up with somebody my age. Not that I'm complaining! I love borg! -cherry =)
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• Singapore
7 Mar 09
that's just gREAT!!
@jane188 (59)
• China
8 Mar 09
lol, recently, i have meet a guy who is one year younger than me . he sends text messenge to me frequently . which make me confused ,after i refused his requst of being his GF ,i felt sad somehow . and i dont know the reason , as i thought i always like the guy older than me
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@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
well, for a fact, for me, an older partner is always a turn on, for some reason I don't really know myself. ever since i can remember, well, i've known myself to have the tendency to get crushes on older guys. ALWAYS older, not the same age, definitely not younger, but not WAYYY to old for me (i'd consider anyone who's 10 yrs++ my senior to be way too old for me.)
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• Singapore
7 Mar 09
yea, i'm just like you. but i think that i'm acceptable to 12 years senior. because i've seen a couple that is 12 years difference. and even after so many years of marriage, they are still as loving and all. i do know that has nothing to do with age, but *shrugs* no harm in wanting the same right... *grinz*
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
for me, age isn't a big deal..it's the personality that does..some younger guy are matured enough to handle things and there are some older guys who acts so childish for their age..
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• Singapore
7 Mar 09
that's true too...
• India
8 Mar 09
Thas is true with the mature lady we feel more comfortable rather than younger one
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@apples99 (6556)
• United States
8 Mar 09
I think I wouldn't mind dating someone slightly younger then me like maybe 28 or 29, but not younger then that I dont think theres anything wrong with a 2 or 3 year age gap, but I dont think a 10 or 20 year age gap would work out.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
8 Mar 09
I dated a younger man once, now I am married to him!! So, being with a younger man does not bother me at all. We are very happy together. He is quite mature and responsible, inlie many men that I have known that were my age or older. I honestly feel that it has more to do with a person's maturity level than their actual age in numbers. I found my Mr. Right, and he is almost 8 years younger than me!!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
8 Mar 09
It would be depending on what we have in common and how the attracon factor was. I would probably be uncomfortable with a huge age difference younger or older.
• Malaysia
8 Mar 09
hello... i agree with you and i will not date a younger guy..i date someones older than than me but not too old i mean. i have my boyfriend and he is two years older than me i dont think he is matured as i feel like we were at the same age...
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• India
8 Mar 09
I like it when the woman takes the control of the relationship.....Dating an older woman than me is the basic idea. Woman older than you are more understanding and caring. Girls my age are not just that experienced in like relationship thing. They don't know what to do what or what to speak. Whatever they know is the thing they have learned from television. I simply hate it when the girl doesn't has a clue what she is saying.......And yes younger girls are sticky and not matured.. So i prefer an older woman than my age. Someone cooler and sophisticated....smoeone in control
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• United States
8 Mar 09
I don't really think age matters that much. It is more the personalily that matters, and how a guy treats me. In the past I have guys that were atleast 2 years older than me, but the guy I am engaged to be married to is almost 2 years younger than me.
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
8 Mar 09
I don't really mind if the guy is just 2-3 years younger than me. A younger schoolfollow dated me when I was in college. When I had a summer job before, a guy, 3 years younger than me, dated me as well. It depends on their personalities if you want a matured person, it doesn't really age matter. Happy MyLotting~
@seabeauty (1480)
• United States
7 Mar 09
As an older woman myself, I would prefer someone my own age or older. I don't feel I have anything in common with a younger man.
@maximax8 (31055)
• United Kingdom
7 Mar 09
I am female and I have dated two younger guys, one two years younger than me and another four years younger than me. In my thirties that sort of age gap is fine. I have dated older guys and the oldest was 11 years older than me. I think compatibility matters far more than age.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
7 Mar 09
Dear friend, I would date and if find that we both go well and comfortable with our relationship and we like or love to have each others company and enjoy each other being together I personally do give much importance to age as long we go well each other. Age has its part when it comes a legal part most as those in our age allowed to marry after 18 yrs for girls and 21 for boys. Moreover I hope if they tend any dislike the dating may not go further long even if it is in the matter of age.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
7 Mar 09
I have been hung up on this age thing for so long but life is the best teacher one can have and life as taught me that it is not the age that is the most important but how mature the other person is and how compatible you are. I have never seen myself dating anyone more than five to six years older than myself and never gave younger guys a thought. I have turned down a few interest based on these grounds. Now however I find that I am more willing to consider guys a bit more older and guys who are maybe two years younger.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
7 Mar 09
Either way really you'll know when you find the right person. I think that we should try and find someone that's basically us in a way. A partner that shares somewhat of the same interests and that you just love being around. If you and your partner doesn't share some kind of interests or something like that then there will probably be a lot of fighting and a bunch of crap that I think all couples should try and avoid at all costs because it's really all just wasted breath and wasted time.
@preppy (28)
• United Arab Emirates
7 Mar 09
For me its not wise to date younger guys... younger guys have outlooks or way of thinking which are very different from older guys. Sometimes when you having a conversation or discussion with them you can easily notice the immaturity on how they interact with you. younger guys are more lacks in thiers answers while older guys are more careful same also with decission making. Younger guys tend to play while older guys looks serious relationships.