Please help me-irritation by my hubby

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March 20, 2009 6:10pm CST
b]Hello everyone here Ji,[/b] I wish to share about "irritation" in daily life with my hubby. I do understand that [b]"Irritation or exacerbation, in biology and physiology, is a state of inflammation or painful reaction to allergy or cell-lining damage. A stimulus or agent which induces the state of irritation is an irritant. Irritants are typically thought of as chemical agents (for example phenol and capsaicin) but mechanical, thermal (heat) and radiative stimuli (for example ultraviolet light or ionising radiations) can also cause irritation."[/b]But he wants everything in order. Every place in the house should be neat and tidy. There should not be anything left-loose in bath-room by person coming out last. In case of darkness he wants to pull out candles/matches by feelings. All cloths should be hanged at proper places. There should not be any shortage of grocery items. All should be replenished as and when due. While in market, we must have lists to buy. TV watching should be limited. Is anyone here to share my way of living. But he is very much duty minded. he takes my care more than himself. Please share your experiences and adfvise me the way I should react to his "irritation'. May God bless You and have a great time.
4 responses
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Mar 09
My hubby was about teh same but it go to where I knew what to get done or do and did it before he asked or said anything . BUut then I had almost 43 years to do it. and he with me too. Got where we read each others minds lol soulmates for sure we were.
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• India
21 Mar 09
Hello my friend Lakota12 Ji, So nice of you for your encouragement, and falling on side of my hubby, I do understand that, it is all due to his Military life and wants everything to be obeyed under all circumstances. We have almost 40 yrs (would complete in coming December) of our married life. He says, "LIKE IT OR DO NOT LIKE IT, ONCE IT HAS BEEN DECIDED, LET'S DO IT AT ALL COST". Success always lies by doing something sincerely. May God bless You and have good day.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
21 Mar 09
minor irritations are bound to occur in life.it is better to tell the person who is causing you irritation ,otherwise irritation will build up and lead to anger and anger is not good for the mind as well as the body.
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• India
21 Mar 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, So nice of you for your encouragement, and falling on side of my hubby, I do understand that, it is all due to his Military life and wants everything to be obeyed under all circumstances. We have almost 40 yrs (would complete in coming December) of our married life. Now, we are habituated and enjoy with this kind of irritation. I understand his way of doing. He says, "LIKE IT OR DO NOT LIKE IT, ONCE IT HAS BEEN DECIDED, LET'S DO IT AT ALL COST". Success always lies by doing something sincerely. May God bless You and have good day.
@deedeehall (1143)
• United States
21 Mar 09
i would say consider your self luky. i live with my husband and three sons and my three 6 year olds do 10 times better then dad. i have to pick up his socks tell him to pick up his clothes off of the floor .and some days i have to tell him dont you think you should brush your teeth and shower. trust me you do not want to live like this . tell your husband thank you and consider your self lucky. god bless
• India
21 Mar 09
Hello my friend deedeehall Ji, So nice of you for your encouragement, and falling on side of my hubby, I do understand that, it is all due to his Military life and wants everything to be obeyed under all circumstances. We have almost 40 yrs (would complete in coming December) of our married life. He says, "LIKE IT OR DO NOT LIKE IT, ONCE IT HAS BEEN DECIDED, LET'S DO IT AT ALL COST". Success always lies by doing something sincerely. May God bless You and have good day.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
21 Mar 09
Hi, This stimulant of Ur Hubby is POSTIVE stimulant & the 'IRRTATION' results is also positive in Nature.I guess U r little indisciplined,'happy-go-lucky'type and Ur Hubby is Disciplned and calculative in Life.Thus,apparently it seems 'incompatibility', but if U think for longterm benefit of this Irritation will yield Good Relationship.Disciplined family is Happy family. My suggestion:- U adopt to His Principle,following Good Path will be Productive. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
• India
21 Mar 09
Hello my dear friend Lahiri Ji, So nice of you for your encouragement, and falling on side of my hubby, I do understand that, it is all due to his Military life and wants everything to be obeyed under all circumstances. We have almost 40 yrs (would complete in coming December) of our married life. He says, "LIKE IT OR DO NOT LIKE IT, ONCE IT HAS BEEN DECIDED, LET'S DO IT AT ALL COST". Success always lies by doing something sincerely. But how to adopt after 40 yrs. of living together. Now, we are habituated. May God bless You and have good day.