will u feel lonely if u stay alone for days?

China
March 23, 2009 1:44am CST
i thought i won't. i just arrived home few days ago, didn't go to work just enjoy my own time. at first day, i felt so free to do anything, so happy. but now it's the 4th days, i felt really terrible. because of the continuing rainnig weather, i can't go anywhere just stay alone home watching Tv OR surfing internet or cooking some food to eat. wt a terrible day! my friends are all working in company, i have no one to go outside ... i thought i love single life before , now things are not like my imagin.. hey , all mylot friends, will u feel lonely if u stay alone for days? thank you for sharing best wishes
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@dashawk (275)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Well, it really feel so good to be free. At first, you'll feel happy and contented by living alone, but as time goes by, you will notice, something is missing, you'll feel bored from time to time, you might get depressed by just living alone even in a few days.. You know, no one can live alone in this world, you will not survive without your friends and family, and other people, we need each other to survive together and help each other....
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@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
24 Mar 09
I fully agree with your last statement. Didn't God make Eve to keep Adam company? But being alone is better than being WITH someone you can't stand being around.
• China
27 Mar 09
yes. u r right. i have been stay at home alone for a week..wt a terrible week.. i never go outside...just stay home..watching tv..surfing online..or reading. it really killing me.. thank you for reply happy mylotting
@dashawk (275)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
yah, hehe... you know, silence can make you deaf than a loud noise...
• Taiwan
23 Mar 09
I won't feel lonely when i'm alone.I have many things to full my life.If the weather is good,i also go shopping or just have a walk by myself.Nowadays,with the rapid step of the world,we rarely have our own time to do anything we want to.So,why don't take a good use of our alone time?It's up to you to surf internet or sing songs or have deliciouse or even sleep to noon,haha ,so happy without feeling lonely:)
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@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
24 Mar 09
I agree. Life is so busy we should cherish the downtimes.
• China
27 Mar 09
i thought i would not feel so.. but once i got this chance..it really happens.. i went outside for shopping alone, eat alone, cooking alone.. not funny at all.. maybe at first few days.. hehe thank you for reply happy mylotting
@kedves (728)
23 Mar 09
I guess it depends on the type of person you are. Some people have to mix and interact with others and some people like myself can be alone and not worry as we are comfortable with our own company. Don't get me wrong I enjoy meeting people and chatting and dating but if I have to be alone then I am able to handle it quite easy. :)
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@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
24 Mar 09
I couldn't agree with you more. If I get terribly lonely I will go for a walk and will inevitably meet someone to chat on the corner with for a few minutes.
• China
27 Mar 09
yep, i think i understand this quiet well know.. it is hard to live in ur own world... thank you for reply happy mylotting
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Of course I will feel lonely if I will be alone for many days. Now that I am married I can't last a day without my husband and son with me. My husband is working and I am a stay at home mom and wife. I don't like to be lonely because they are my life so being alone feels like dying. I will not trade anything for my happiness so you can take away anything from me but not my husband and son. Besides no man is an island. Being along for maybe one to three days for single people is okay but they will definitely feel bored after that.
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• China
31 Mar 09
yes, if u are already get used to a family life.it would be much harder for u to stay alone.. thank you for reply have a good day
@Ygjack (25)
• China
23 Mar 09
I am always single and I like being single,when I can enjoy music myself,walk in my own pace.It is quite free and I can do a lot of things I want to do without thinking what others could think about it,I think I get accustomed to it. Once I read a passage about being single in a magazine,it says being single is a wonderful time instead of a transitional period in your life.And many people in relationships are even more unhappy than single people.A lot of people are not alone because they are afraid to be single,so they stay in relationships out of habit,out of fear. I am single to remain my individuals that be given when I came into this world.
• China
31 Mar 09
em..wt if u repeat all things everyday if u stay alone? will u feel happy either? thank you for reply happy mylotting
@b4uraj (6)
• India
23 Mar 09
Lonely life is good only when you want to rethink on your current ideas and the activities you experienced to make betterment.But to lead life we need people who love us and can entertain us. leading life is horrible Without people around us. Lonely life helps in practicising the ideas only.
• China
31 Mar 09
wt a smart remarks... thank you for reply best wishes
• Hong Kong
23 Mar 09
Not at all,i stay home almost everyday,and i work at home too.But I do feel a bit boring from time to time.
@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
24 Mar 09
I might feel lonely, but I would never be bored... books, television, computer, radio... and that's just the fun stuff. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, washing dishes... they keep me busy too but not in a fun way.
• China
31 Mar 09
maybe bcz i am ill ,.and none around me take care of me...so i feel a little boring thank you for reply happy mylottting
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
27 Mar 09
I cant stand being alone for days.I'll become impatient but I dont like going out on rainy days,either.I may watch soap operas.That really kills time.Luckily,it wouldnt happen to me cuz I have to go out to work.lol Good luck.
• China
31 Mar 09
ahan then i have to get a job.. to remove this bad situation thank you for reading best wishes
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Of course, i'd feel lonely.. you know, i'm not used to being alone for a long time.. if that happens, i'd break down and cry for sure.. in fact, it happened to me once when my hubby went to an out of town trip with his family.. They went to Boracay and I was left alone here in our studio type condominium.. He was gone for three days and there was no much to do here as i don't have a real job(due to my illness).. I just spent three days watching television, listening to my Ipod, surfing the internet, accomplishing online assignments among others.. I got bored, big time! yay! I don't want that to happen again!
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• China
27 Mar 09
oops.. i cried twice during these 10days..and not knowing why..just feel like pieces only wanna crying.. really tough days..and got sick all days.. i would not try this anymore.. really so terrible. hehe thank you for sharing best wishes
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
26 Mar 09
Yes I do start to feel lonely if I'm alone for days and I just generally find myself in a better mood when I'm around my friends and I just seem to be happier and have a much better time. I think that everyone should have some really close friends because friends really do help you not get depressed or down. Loneliness makes you feel like crap kind of like boredom so the more ways you can find to avoid those two emotions the better your life will probably be. At least that's the way I see it.
• China
31 Mar 09
i do have some close friends..but sometimes,i just wanna be left alone... while stay alone cause problems.. thank you for reading have a good day
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
I will not be lonely if i'll be alone for a few days. I love being alone but i don't like forever, 1 week maximum. I want to just meditate and do what i can't do when i have a company like eating foods and having the remote of the tv for myself. I can also have the liberty in experimenting dishes to enhance my knowledge in cooking since i love to eat.
• China
27 Mar 09
em..i think feel lonely just bcz i don't know wt to do.. if ppl knows wt gonan do...he might not get this feelings even if he stays alone for long time.. thank you for reply best wishes
@GoThere (110)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 09
It really depend on the condition. Sometimes it really fun to be alone, especially when there are something to accomplished alone. But when i have no plan and have no works or something to be accomplished, i will definitely feels lonely. I think all people will be lonely when they are left alone in several days with no work to do. It's all a natural thing because human basically is a social being, so we will need other people to share our feeling and happiness.
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• China
27 Mar 09
not sure. i am not belong to someone social life lover..but i thought i would be enjoy this life..truth was not... lol thank you for reply best wishes
• United States
23 Mar 09
If its for a couple of days, then that's just fine with me. I usually love to spend some alone time with myself. Since it gives me time to reflect and just relax. Consider it a bonding time with yourself, treat yourself to a nice movie or read a good book or pamper yourself. Youll feel relax after you do these things, so dont worry :)
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• China
27 Mar 09
yes, i feel so exicting at first few days..not it's my 10th day for being alone at home...i am tired of reading..tired of watching tv...seems like tired of doing anything but not knowing wt gonna do neither hehe thank you for reply best wishes
• China
23 Mar 09
A few months ago I went back from school,and I was happy to be at home alone at that time.At school hardly do I had my own space,then at home it was quiet,I can do whatever I want,watching TV,searching the Internet to midnight,sleeping until the afternoon,cooking something delicious.When I enjoy being alone so much that I even do not want to go outside. This last for nearly a week and I don't felt lonely at all. It was about in the third week that I felt like being with my friends.Just go out,I don't want to be alone at home any more.I want to talk to somebody,then I called my best friend to go shopping.Can you imagine to be alone for half a month?For I am not a lively girl.But being a alone for too long,I'll be crazy.I don't like the feel of lonely.
@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
24 Mar 09
Yeah, I think the reason I stay up so late is because that is my time alone. I can hardly wait until everyone goes to bed so I can be left to do what I want.
• China
31 Mar 09
wow..that;s so cool.i can stay alone for a week, no speak of half a month.. terrible to me.. thank you for reply best wishes
• United States
25 Mar 09
Heck no I sure would not every day at work I have 3 kids and my mom with me the only time I get to myself is when my Mom was in the hopsital for 3 weeks
• China
31 Mar 09
sorry to hear that but thanks anyway have a good day
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
25 Mar 09
yes i feel lonely.when i was single i thought single is the ebst option to make us happy but its wrong.but when i was alone i will go out and i will be home at evening but still lonely when we get up and nobody is there except ourself so dont forget to marry early and make lovely kids to makes us happy.
• China
31 Mar 09
hehe..since i dont have a family now. my bf really so good for accompanying me all time eheh thank you for reading best wishes
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
no, I won't feel lonely. I can have time for myself, to fix or have a general cleaning in the house or in my bedroom. I work 6 days a week, so if I will have my time to be alone, I will be very busy in the house so as not to be lonely. If ever I get tired, there's the phone to make chika with friends. One more important thing to me is the radio, I can do all things while listening to the radio, not on fm station or music but on DZMM radio patrol or news program.
• China
31 Mar 09
em..sounds a good idea.i am not sure if giving u the chance like me.. will u still hold on? haha thank you for reading best wishes
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
Hey there! Yes, I think I will feel lonely if I stay alone for days, specially in a situation like yours. With the rain you can't do much but stay in your home. Maybe you should try reading some books. It's a good past time when you're not doing anything to beat the boredom. What I do to not feel lonely is I play some music on my computer while working out. It's good practice to do. Have a nice day. Happy posting!!
• China
31 Mar 09
rainning day..really make every idea gone.. not feeling like to do anything.. hehe thank you for ur wonderful ideas have a good day
• China
25 Mar 09
Once I stayed at home all by myself for almost 10 months. That was a lot time. Everyday life was so monotonous and dull. I could't even go out of the door for dozens of days. I had to study at home and to get prepared for the college entrance examination. That phase of my life was the most decisive period of time for me.I will never forget it!
• China
31 Mar 09
OMG 10months........but if u got a good result then all these are worthy.. thank you for reading best wishes
@fasyahime (629)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 09
not,i prefer to stay alone because nobody disturb you,i can dance naked at home and nobody know....you can do anything that you can't do when you have somebody at home..huhu