failure

Philippines
March 26, 2009 5:22am CST
how can i tell my parents that i failed on my subject without making them feel disappointed? I'm the youngest child in our family and i know how much they trust me.. but sometimes, I'm getting tired of it! can someone tell me their opinions? is someone out there that's experiencing or have been experienced what I'm into in right now? thanks for the reply in advance!
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7 responses
@MyzDy19 (919)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
Just make an intro girl..(lol) then make sure that their mood is in good condition then just tell them what happened and don't forget to say that you're still a regular student. Maybe they'll be disappointed but I'm sure they'll understand you. Whoooo....we have still 4 classcards to go! Aja..We can do this..Go..Go..Go
• Philippines
14 May 09
i haven't tell them until now!hehehe we (via,gero,theo)planned to tell it to our parents after we passed it next sem..hahahaha
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
27 Mar 09
I have been in the same situation as you. When I went to nursing school I failed my first clinical. I was very hard for me to tell my parents that I didn't pass, because they expected me to pass and I didn't want to disappoint them. But of course I had to tell them the truth and they took it quite well. I think that my parents where afraid that I would give up my studies now that I had failed, but that wasn't the case, and they were relieved to hear that I was going to try again.
• Philippines
14 May 09
oh.. i'm really scared.. another problem is,we have a qualification exam, if we fail,we should better to shift.. so i've also planned not to tell them until we had the quali results are made.
• India
26 Mar 09
hi dear,being a student it's painful wen you fail but it's equally true those who try they pass or fail,so don't panic be relaxed and say truth to your parents n try to convinced them that you can do it good next time and put your best effort next time.parents are only one creature in entire world who can understand or support you in adverse situations,so don't hide any thing from them.... Good luck n have a bright future
• Philippines
14 May 09
i wish that would be easy as that..huhuhu until now i did not tell my parents about it.. i've planned to tell about it after i already passed the same subject next sem..hehehehe
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
26 Mar 09
Schooling is absolutely necessary for your future, and at this time of age, the main focus is study. As long as you recognize the importance, it should not be a big issue if you fail one examination. Make good tiem to make up and you will be back to normal.
• Philippines
16 May 09
i hope it will be ok soon..
@Ritasmile (123)
• China
26 Mar 09
As a student,study is important.It is the basic of your future.Your parents will support you ,so tell them the truth.You still have chance to effort for them ,for yourself.Maybe your parents will feel disappointed this time just because they love you and want you to be an excellent person.I think you can.Just do it!^_^Best wishes.
• Philippines
14 May 09
me and my other classmates planned to tell to our parents about it after we passed the subject next sem.. do you think it's a good idea?
@med889 (5941)
26 Mar 09
Im the youngest at home too. And I learnt something " success comes from failure to failure without the lost of enthusiam"
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
thanks for some words of encouragement! but my parents will surely be disappointed, how can i tell them that it's okay to fail in a good way?
@lvjunjie (80)
• China
26 Mar 09
you don't need to worry about that .i think you partents may understand you .What matters most is you should bear in your mind ,you must learn to face the troubles .the man who can be distoried but never defeated .