i hope i am not pregnant..........

@riyasam (16556)
India
March 28, 2009 10:23am CST
we have decided that two is enough but as there caan be accidents,i am doing pregnancy test tomorrow.(to be on the safer side)but i dont feel anything(a woman has intuition about such things)except for cravings for black forest cake(maybe because it is someones birthday)not those articial canned ones but the real ones with choclate icing and cherry on top.i have rummaged my kitchen cabinets but i didnt find anything even close to the cake family.has this ever happened to you??
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
20 Apr 09
lol...I've had these 'non'intuition' pregnancies a couple of times before....and my intuition was proved ight every single time. Cravings I have everytime...it doesn't matter if I am pregnant or not...hmm...I don't remember having any cravings during pregnancy! So, cravings= not pregnant for me. I see this discussion was started 4 weeks ago....so, what's the result? Are you or aren't you?
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Oct 09
lol..husband isn't lucky...I am!! He wouldn't indulge my cravings in the middle of the night!
@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Oct 09
how lucky your husband is,i remember dragging him to have an ice cream at one in the night!by the way,this time it was a false warning!
• United States
19 Apr 09
I did get pregnant with our oldest child on accident. We do not regret having her she and her brother are joys of our lives.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
19 Apr 09
actually,our daughter was also notplanned but not at all unwanted since we did plan on having a baby in the later months(slightly early)
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
28 Mar 09
I thought our last conversation just a couple of minutes ago confirmed that you were NOT!! Now, what did you do in between??!! Right now I just have the same craving, does that mean.....OMG!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Mar 09
mimpi darling,that was my wish.(shudders thinking of last pregnancy)hope that it is just a craving.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Mar 09
i am trying to cross my fingers,mimpi but then my fingers keep on touching that black forest.(the temptation is too much for me!!!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
28 Mar 09
..yums...for you - i love cakes.
Keep your fingers crossed... And should I send some Black forest?
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
28 Mar 09
What've YOU been up to then Mable??? Well if you DON'T wish to be pregnant, then I hope it is just a desire for cake, pure and simple! If you DO feel OK about being pregnant, then I hope this will be the first of many similar cravings and there's never a shortage of sweets! And you can buy Black Forest Cake in a can???
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Mar 09
(james dont tell me saturday is off for you)!!little wonder you are finishing up what little is remaining of my poor head!!!as for the black forest ,i will have to wait till tomorrow when the shops open.and didnt you there are big cans which can accomadate a black forest cake!!we always send it abroad to our cousins and if i am not wrong we get choclate icings in a can(now dont confuse me)
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
28 Mar 09
I've seen icing in a can, but never an entire Black Forest Cake! And yes, Saturday's off for me dear friend, so buckle up! lol.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Mar 09
sorry,its not in a can ,but in a box(what difference does it make,i think the purpose is same)(thanks for deflating my ego)
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Certainly have many cravings each day, but it could not be that I am pregnant!Ha!ha!ha! Not at this point of my life! But you, you must be pregnant my dear and by now I would like to congratulate you!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
salonga,i definetly donot want a child now,i am taking the needed precautions(except a miracle,then we have no say).it would lead to a lot of complications,as my health is also not proper now.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
if positive,i have no choice but to accept it as a gift from god but this time i have been let away as the test came out negative.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Oh yes dear,yes I understand! You have health problem which could give complications! Sighhh!!!! But if positive + what now?
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Mar 09
if you would use the underarm for it you dont get pregnant hahaha just kidding dear.well when i had late monthly visit i did not worry since i have a husband but i just said to myself maybe its another adjustment of getting old.seriously try to check then post discussions that you are pregnant coz i will follow hehehe.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Mar 09
underam???i will heed to your advice next time.now,i am not pregnant.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Mar 09
my blood group is rh-ve.in that there are lot of complications if i decide to have a third child.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
29 Mar 09
but why do you afraid of getting pregnant?you have husband.realy not easy life to have many kids.good descesion my friend so netx time use under arm ok?hahaha just kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
28 Mar 09
I allways have weird cravings for food, not for strange foods but at odd times. For example I once had a craving for potatoes and beans in the early morning or something like that. I am still in college and I have no intention of having children for a long time to come or not even at all. I wish you the best of luck with the pregnancy test, I hope that you can be happy with whatever result you may get .
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
29 Mar 09
I am so happy for you, that's great!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Mar 09
its negative and i couldnt be more than happy.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Mar 09
I always get sweet cravings, especially around that time of the month. I was only pregnant once and I knew the night I got pregnant. Good luck tomorrow and let us know how it went.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Mar 09
thanks.i am not pregnant
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
29 Mar 09
well that is good it will certainly the weight off your shoulders.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
28 Mar 09
I was pregnant twice. The first time, I had cravings but the second time, I did not and that was because my baby miscarried. I did not have to look for anything to make because well at the time I was a teenager. But I sure wished that the second baby (I was married then) had survived. If you are pregnant, I would advise you to keep it. Sometimes later on, people will regret that they limited their families. If you got an abortion, you would regret it later on. Usually what happens is that the case that two can live more cheaply then one, and four can live more cheaply then three, etc. does ring true. People who make predictions do not understand that when buying things you save on quantity. They think that if you are buying milk at $2 a quart for a quart size, it stays that way when you buy a gallon, but it often goes down, for example.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Mar 09
thanks for the soundful(hope it is a word) advice,i wouldnt think about aborting my baby,i was just wondering
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 Mar 09
You're welcome. I think that you are sort of afraid, and you should not listen to all those stories that it costs $ ----- to raise a child, that you have to give up your life. The trouble with those stories is they fail to forget that we all live life one day at a time. It just does not come and grab us all at once. And if you are pregnant and the child is born, you will probably wondered why you decided to just stop at two.
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
30 Mar 09
I guess i am too ignorant or innocent in these matters. Craving for black forest.. does that mean you are expecting.. hmm.. Women have areally a gr8 intution. By the way, even if its true, thats a gr8 news. Where's the party ! My share of cake.. So you are going on family planning kya? Not at all willing to have the 3rd one. I feel its good, not to have the 3rd one. So just keep ur fingers crossed rather then eating the cake..ha ha
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
hi vipul,long time no see!!hope you are fine!!by the way i did the test and found out that i am not pregnant and i did have the cake too.
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• India
30 Mar 09
I know. I had been very less active on mylot. Actually i did start working on other sites as well and then got busy with work and all. But anyways, its good to hear from you. I am fine. how r u? And u had the cake alone.. Thats not fair.. i want to have a cake too..
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Mar 09
i have cravings for things but i absolutely know i'm not pregnant. that would be a miracle in more ways than one. lol. let me know what the tests turns out to be. good luck.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
i had doubts,so i went for the test and it turned out to be negative.thankgoodness for that,i cannot afford one right now,physically,mentally as well as monetarily.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Mar 09
i'm glad for you. take care.
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• United States
29 Mar 09
i get cravings all the time and have never been pregnant (well there was an iffy on one time but if i had been i miscarried so early i might as well hadnt been) i have had the pregnancy scare a few times before and its hell!! one time i was on medication that raised my prolactin levels so i stopped having periods and had all the symptoms but wasnt.. i thought i was losing my mind!! 3 months late!! the time i think i may have been for real i wouldnt have even been but a month a long so its hard to even figure on that one.. anyways kids arent in my plan and i have done everything to keep it that way but jeeze its still scary especially since i would be one of those people that would be a freak of nature and some how still get pregnant no matter what lol..
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Mar 09
i do get yout point.it is quite paradoxical how some women when they donot want kids get pregnant by accident and some who are desperate to be preganant,cant ever seem to get pregnant!thats life!!
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• United States
29 Mar 09
i know i feel so bad for a few people i know that would kill to get pregnant and been paying for top doctors but no luck.. and with my luck im fertile myrtle lol.. really makes you wonder why life is like that
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@camomom (7535)
• United States
30 Mar 09
I hope you got the results that you hoped for.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
31 Mar 09
i am not pregnant.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I'm glad you got the result you wanted.
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• India
5 Apr 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, Congretulations. I think, cat is out of the bag and some good information to share with us here. May God bless you and have a great time.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
6 Apr 09
thanks friend but i am not pregnant.it was a false alarm.
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• India
11 Apr 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, But rumours come true one day. It might be false alarm, but something may be in pipe line. May God bless you and have a great time.
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• Canada
6 Oct 09
If i was pregnant every time I craved something, I'd be pregnant all the time. LOL In reality, I've never been pregnant, and I hope i never am. Kids are not in my husband's and my plans, and we have taken the proper actions to ensure that he will never get me pregnant.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
28 Oct 09
i am talking about the old time fables which will say i am truely pregnant but somehow old wives saying didnnt prove right in my case and i am very glad and now i am taking the necessary precautions.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
30 Mar 09
I think it may be simple cravings. But If there is something, it can be anything else.. just go for test and all the best.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
it was just a craving ,the test is negative.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Mar 09
No worry, you're doing service to humankind. So proceed with the good news. Yeah, I do always have cravings for something different at odd times, those that sink in my teeth. at the thought of it, I am salivating now. I do like those black forest cakes with that thick fresh cream. I am thinking of baking it now.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
(just you wait,my time will also come)i am not proficient when it comes to baking,so i had to buy one.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
30 Mar 09
I could eat black forest cake any time day or night, YUMMY. I hope everything comes out the way you want it to be.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Mar 09
me too maybe this was just a ploy to make my hubby buy me some black forest cake!!!
@messageme (2821)
• United States
14 Apr 09
Have you tried using birth control. That way there will be no accidents? Or one of you getting fixed. Other times I have had cravings for something is when my body is lacking it. Sometimes I will crave steak, I was told my body is low on iron then. lately I have been trying to lose weight so I haven't been eating any sweets, well I have been craving them really bad. I think my body is saying I need sugar. There are many reasons for cravings. But to be sure you are not pregnant then you should be using birth controls. Good Luck!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Apr 09
we do take the needed precautions but nothing in this world is foolproof,so just had a suspicion,thankfully ,it was a false alarm.
• United States
29 Mar 09
I think people can just crave food. I have had times I just craved something and wasn't satisfied till I had it. Also if your body is not getting enough of a vitamin or food it will crave a food that has it. I think it is normal. Too if you worry yourself about things like pregnancy then sometimes you will have those symptoms like cravings and stuff even if your not pregnant. It is just a mind thing. Anyway enjoy your icing and cake;-)
@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Mar 09
thanks for the response.i enjoyed my cake with a free mind as the test proved that i am not pregnant.