Who do you cook more in your home? you or your partner?

@freerr (666)
China
March 28, 2009 8:38pm CST
Through life more and more better, people is becoming more and more busy and lazy at the same time, and start to have dinner in a restaurant more often. But I think sometimes we also cook dinner by ourselves. For me, we will cook in home around 4--6 times every week. I admit that my wife make dinner more, and I wash more. I must make dinner for us whenever she is angry , so I must make her happy usually. What about your family?
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@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
since i can afford to pay a helper now, so in the house shes the one incharge all the house chores in the house. LOL
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
yeah but not cooking please. LOL id rather do the cleaning in the living room, my room and re-arranging things inside the house. hahahaha
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Really nice, but sometimes we also like to do our things by ourselves . I think that is also a good process.
• United States
29 Mar 09
I do the majority of the cooking on in our home, but my husband cooks from time to time. My husband makes a wonderful spaghetti though. Namaste-Anora
• United States
30 Mar 09
Hey, nothing wrong with good fried eggs lol. I love omlettes myself, and my husband doesn't do such a bad job on that either! He does have his specialities. He makes really good drinks too! But, I guess that's not food lol. Namaste-Anora
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
I have my skillful cooking, it is frying eggs. lol
@inkyuboz (1392)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
29 Mar 09
First of all, I took a double take on the title of this discussion. "Who do you cook more---" really made me go: "Whaaat?" And then I read the description below and I understood... Anyhow, on the context of the discussion, I have to say it is I who cooks more. Why? Because I don't have a partner. That's all.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
I am sorry giving a confused discussion since my english is not very good.
• Singapore
29 Mar 09
OK my hubby don't even know how to break a egg ,so everything i cook. so i use to cook what he like when I'm free at home, per week 3 to 4 day . 2meal a day. i love to cook when he said delicious,i will cook more often what he like, that day i try to cook bbq chicken ,i got no other food left ,and i did not know he love it so much , yesterday i told him i cook bbq chicken he tent to say yahooooooo i love it!
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
I believe your hubby must be happiness very much. Best wishes to you two.
• Singapore
29 Mar 09
as long he treat me good i will be very happy...
• United States
29 Mar 09
Both of us cook equal times. But I am always cleaning the kitchen. We seldom eat out. Maybe once a month??? If that, sometimes less.
• United States
29 Mar 09
My husband is an excellent cook. I also serve him breakfast in bed at least 2 x's a week just to make him feel special & loved.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
I know why don't you go out to eat. haha. And I believe he has felt your special love because many people have felt.
• Indonesia
29 Mar 09
Generally I do all the cooking but my husband will go and fix himself something if he sees that I am occupied. He doesn't cook for me though unless I am sick. I am a sort of traditional wife I think I should cook for my husband. He will do things like unclog drains and go out late at night for me and we keep things pretty harmonious that way.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Good idea, I appreciate your harmonious.
@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 09
At this time of the economic gloom, cooking at home is not something to be taken lightly. I do eat more at home nowadays as it helps reduces budget spendings. Besides, cooking at home tends to give us healthier food. Cost is also reduced compared to eating out. The family that eats together also stays together.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
I agree with you, eatting in home actual is good than out.
• China
29 Mar 09
I've not married yet, so I have to cook for myself every day. I seldom go out to dinner in restaurants. That's too expensive. Besides, I have more appetite if the dinner is cooked by myself. It's also a kind of pleasure to cook. When I start cooking every day, I can't help thinking of its delicious tastes as if I'm eating it.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
How wonderful, I understand you. For a cooking lover, makeing dinner is good the same as eatting.
@madhu_yl (116)
• India
29 Mar 09
Hi freerr, I love cooking,my husband also like my dishes.sometimes he helps me and he also cooking.weekends me and my husband try to new dishes.on that time i feel very happy to spend time with his.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Really a good thing, sometimes my wife also try to new dishes such as tomato boil with beef ... I always have a positive comment with that, she will very happy.
@my1341 (456)
• China
29 Mar 09
Hi, friend. Your story sounds very interesting. I do most of the cooking stuff when I have to. My wife is not good at cooking. If we are both lazy sometimes, we just eat out or go to my parents to enjoy dinner together. My parents always cook rice and food on time. I really appreciate my parents' who provide us much convenience when we are busy with our work. Have a nice day and good luck!
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Of cource, I think all the parents will happy when children go to have a dinner with them even though cooking work on them.
@100385 (17)
• South Korea
29 Mar 09
I used to cook more than my husband,My husband cook at least twice a week and he wash dishes to...We love to eat in a restaurant but not so often because its more cheaper if we eat at home and its safe...
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Yes, it is so safe and cheap eatting in home. But we always go back to home very late. Every friday night is my game time with my colleagues and sometimes my wife must overtime, we always go back together. So, if late we will eat out for convenience.
@talithe (38)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I cook less than a handful of times a month. My boyfriend cooks maybe 2-3 times a week. He loves to cook and is very extravagant about it. I'm more of a microwave - 15minute meal kind of girl. I cook "gamer food". Something fast so I can get back to playing my video games. ;)
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
I like video games too. The most annoying thing for me is that my wife call me to do something when I am playing pc games.
• China
29 Mar 09
I do most of housework in my family.I love my boyfriend and he is busy.So I do most of work.Sometimes I will ask my boyfriend to do dinner.We cooking by ourselves everyday as it is clearly and cheaper.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Thank you for your response, best wishes.
@thina12 (94)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
well in my home,my husband cook breakfast before he leaves in the morning for work, the table was ready...i cook more often at lunch time and dinner during weekdays,i always text my husband if he will come home to take lunch so that i will prepare his favorite food..i do the cooking and he is in washing the dishes..every weekend we spend our time to the mall..that's our routine,well its about sharing responsibilities..
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Good hubby, paradigmatic hubby. Congratulation to you.
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
29 Mar 09
We hardly ever eat out. Once in a great while we will order pizza. My boyfriend does all the cooking in my house. I can cook but he loves to cook. My job is clean up and boy is he messy.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
That is so good for you. cleaning up can be done in anytime,but cooking must timely.
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
When me and my bf used to live together, he cooks for me. I live alone now and he is in Belgium. I have plans of living together with him in Belgium within this year. I love to cook but not for myself only. I eat out most of the time but when I used to live with my family, I am the cook in our kitchen
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Right, I think many people have the same opinion with you . Just cook for myself is boring, I agree with you.
• United States
29 Mar 09
my wife does most of the cooking in our home shes the better chef but however there are a few things i cook better than her but for the most part its her
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
Also like you . I just frying egg better than my wife. LoL
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Mar 09
In fact my mom often cooks dinner for us because we have to go to work. When we don't have to work, usually I like to cook for my family because I like cooking. I enjoy doing it and it's quite happy to see my family enjoys eating my dishes. I love China
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
You must a kindly women since you always enjoy the pleasure which you make for your family even others.
• United States
29 Mar 09
I do the majority of the cooking. In fact my husband would only cook if I was sick. Now that I am pregnant he is spoiling me a bit. The first 2 months I was so nauseous and weak, so he did all the cooking for me. Since then I have gotten better and he helps out about 50/50. He is not a bad cook...but I tend to like my food better .
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
He love you so much. If my wife is pregnant, I will ask my mother or her mother to live with us. And so, the cooking work will not be on me too.lol
@prowaynie (139)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 09
I agree on what you said, people is becoming more and more buzy and lazy at the time,For my family , i will cook during weekend when there is no work and relax at home, while during working we are tried after work, rush back to home is about 8pm plus minus, we just take away or walk in to restaurant enjoy our dinner,we have no times to cook after work due to tracffic jam and after work back home late.
@freerr (666)
• China
29 Mar 09
As you, my wife and me both work in company, so we always feel tired and don't want to cook by ourselves.