@talithe on myLot

dansazz @dansazz (1058) • United States 12 Jun 12

If I am writing on paper, I like to keep a baby names book near by, as well as any notes or ideas I may have scribbled. I like to keep a drink near by as well. If I'm on a computer I like to have my software open of course, and I...

writing tools and tips

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talithe I like having a variety of writing utensils nearby. Different colored pens, unique pens, etc. Colors get me creative because I enjoy seeing them. I love being outdoors too. A nice quiet park or somewhere near a lake. I write more efficiently on a computer but...

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stacilyn8812 @stacilyn8812 (61) • United States 30 May 12

So I talk to a few men on the computer and I am planing on meeting one Saturday and I was wondering what do you think about age difference in people how many years is to many to you? He is much much older then I am but I think I...

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talithe If you have to ask about the age difference, I'd say it concerns you. You'll have to figure out why it concerns you and if you handle that. A few years back I dated a guy seven years older than myself. I was 22 at the time. I liked the idea of an older man...

12 Jun 12

talithe @talithe (38) • United States 15 Jul 10

I recently talked with a friend about trust issues in relationships. I've been battling trust issues ever since my first boyfriend, back in 2004. He's a great guy in his own right, but in the first year we were together he did so...

trust relationship

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talithe Skade, I really hope so. My first long relationship, I thought he was the one. We talked about our wedding date, children's names, etc. When I found out he lied to me about his ex-girlfriend (he said they stopped talking years ago, but they were still hanging...

25 Sep 10

talithe @talithe (38) • United States 15 Jul 10

I recently talked with a friend about trust issues in relationships. I've been battling trust issues ever since my first boyfriend, back in 2004. He's a great guy in his own right, but in the first year we were together he did so...

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talithe I feel like a marriage is a big commitment, and one that a couple would not take lightly. But almost all of my friends and family have been there or witnessed a failed marriage due to trust. But I've also seen friends in 8+ year relationships, never married,...

25 Sep 10

talithe @talithe (38) • United States 15 Jul 10

I recently talked with a friend about trust issues in relationships. I've been battling trust issues ever since my first boyfriend, back in 2004. He's a great guy in his own right, but in the first year we were together he did so...

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talithe I know there are words and actions you can never take back, so I make sure when I say something (especially accusing) that I am in the right to say so. I'm working hard on my relationship right now (with the same guy I wrote about) because we've been having...

25 Sep 10

talithe @talithe (38) • United States 15 Jul 10

I recently talked with a friend about trust issues in relationships. I've been battling trust issues ever since my first boyfriend, back in 2004. He's a great guy in his own right, but in the first year we were together he did so...

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talithe Thank you for your wonderful and supportive comment. (It's been a while since I've visited this website, so I apologize for the delayed response.) I live by your approach as well - to trust someone until I am shown a reason not to. The trouble I find though is...

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talithe @talithe (38) • United States 15 Jul 10

I recently talked with a friend about trust issues in relationships. I've been battling trust issues ever since my first boyfriend, back in 2004. He's a great guy in his own right, but in the first year we were together he did so...

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iwrite @iwrite (5034) • Singapore 7 Jul 10

For those who had listened to me vent my frustration about my web designer. Well after this entire episode with this rouge manager, I am beginning to lose focus on my goals. My website have been delay and all the wonderful plans...

frustration

life

punishment

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talithe That's good that you're taking action, standing up for yourself. Companies like that probably walk over their clients all the time because most people keep quiet. I say write a review about the service you've received in as many places as you can find - better...

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jessa @jesbellaine (4139) • Philippines 10 Jul 10

I just ended up with a 3 year relationship. I thought I won't be able to get over him but I did. I promised to myself that I will never ever let anyone hurt me that much.... too much of a promise... Here's our story: We met...

breakup

fight

love

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talithe I am sorry to hear your pain. Back in September 2009 my boyfriend of 17 months broke up with me. In the end, he said we were more like friends. It took me 9 months of crying, insomnia, depression, self-destructive thoughts and acts.. but I found the support I...

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Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 25 May 10

As most of you know I was bitten badly by a Dog on Saturday, I love Dogs, I have had Dogs all my Life, never feared Dogs Well today, I was on the Field with Gissi, Jean was with with Roxy and Buster Next thing this great big...

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talithe In time, you certainly will. Though I cannot say that I've ever been bitten, I had two childhood experiences of being terrified of dogs. The first experience, at that age (4-5?), a dog came up to me snarling and barking. I fell down and sat with my back...

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larish @larish (2191) • Philippines 28 Mar 09

I have a friend who brushes her teeth every time she eats regardless if it is just a snack or a complete meal. She felt uncomfortable if she don't brush. For worst scenario, wherein she can't brush, she would have at least has to...

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talithe Colgate makes a disposable toothbrush called "Wisp". It's relatively cheap for the convenience it provides. I just started getting these for work after lunch. I brush at least two times a day (morning and night), but most times I'll also brush during lunch (if...

29 Mar 09

freerr @freerr (666) • China 28 Mar 09

Through life more and more better, people is becoming more and more busy and lazy at the same time, and start to have dinner in a restaurant more often. But I think sometimes we also cook dinner by ourselves. For me, we will cook...

cook

make dinner

restaurant

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talithe I cook less than a handful of times a month. My boyfriend cooks maybe 2-3 times a week. He loves to cook and is very extravagant about it. I'm more of a microwave - 15minute meal kind of girl. I cook "gamer food". Something fast so I can get back to playing my...

29 Mar 09

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Feanlinua @Feanlinua (35) • Poland 20 Dec 07

Hey there HIM lovers! What do You think about "Gone With The Sin"? What about its lyrics, their meaning - do You think it could earn the title of the greatest HIM song? Personally, I find it emotional and beautiful - what's...

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talithe This was the very first song I ever heard of HIM. I got hooked and listened to mostly them for years. It's a very dark, romantic, absolutely poetically sung song. I adore it. I adore Ville's voice and the emotion he puts into every word. As far as best...

29 Mar 09

Tinna_He @Tinna_He (300) • China 26 Mar 09

Because i am fat,i always heard someone said to me "you are so fat and you should lose your weight".Maybe they are making a joke.But i always feel hurt.i will be fat even i only drink water.so it is difficult for me to lose...

fat

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talithe I can't say I've ever been in that situation. The only person who ever said I needed to lose weight was myself.. I'd be hurt all the same if someone did say I was fat. I hear it as a joke but no one ever says it seriously to me. I've had friends say I need to...

29 Mar 09

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 27 Mar 09

I am a woman and I can say that I love to collect bags, mostly handbags. I love bags a lot as much as I love shoes. Now, I am wondering if the ladies out there also loves to collect bags as much as I do. Usually what type of bags...

bags

collection

women

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talithe I have one purse. I don't like spending a lot of money on "accessories" and I don't need to color coordinate with my purse. I guess everyone needs a hobby, but "collecting" accessories never became one of mine.

28 Mar 09

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nagasubbarao @nagasubbarao (215) • India 27 Mar 09

Hi guys, i have a girl friend , she says all the girls like to wear lingerie in bedroom to seduce their partner. is it rite?

dressing

lingerie

sex

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talithe That's like asking if all men like to wear briefs. Some wear boxers because it's more comfortable. Lingerie has the potential to make a lady feel sexy and beautiful. The look on her partner's face is generally pretty rewarding and makes her feel good about...

27 Mar 09

suspenseful @suspenseful (40193) • Canada 26 Mar 09

I am a Christian, believe in the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost, and believe that that is the true way and no one comes to the Father except through HIS son Jesus Christ. I also believe that all other ways are wrong. Yet some people...

if one accuses someone of forcing their beliefs on

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talithe “God has no religion.” -Mahatma Gandhi I tend to find religious people ignorant and self-righteous. They believe their way is the way of God and others are wrong. If that's not close-minded I don't know what is. I've participated in different religions. I...

27 Mar 09

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oldmanhorrorfan @oldmanhorrorfan (497) • United States 27 Mar 09

How many of you mylotters have a special movie that means something to you? I'm talking about that movie that's not really that great, but more goes on the memory. Like it didn't matter what was going on on the big screen, or the...

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talithe Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I was watching it with a guy I liked, and after the movie he kissed me. We dated for two years after that and it was a good, fun relationship. We are best friends now but that movie will always be good memories for me. It...

27 Mar 09

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carrine @carrine (2743) • Philippines 24 Mar 09

for me, id rather have my own business or find a job which is iam the boss, yes there is, like what iam doing right now, im into networking, direct selling and a broker at the same time, i earn bigger than being an employee, grrrr...

employment

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talithe I'd rather be my own boss. I want a flexible schedule and to have the option of working at my pace. If work stresses me out, I'll take a break. I don't have to worry about someone telling me to get back to work. I've always aspired to be a freelance artist....

25 Mar 09

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