How would you react with people around you who are hypocrite?

I would just start writing down everything they said, they would ask you why but you don't have to tell. Soon they will stop talking to you and then you can sleep better at night.

I just like you friend feel bad having to come across with this kind of people. That they seem to do totally the opposite of what they say or do. I loss my respect with this people and feel bad for them for they live in pretenses. I am a person that what you see is what you get. though people may find me tactless and mean but I prefer that way than being seen as someone who is timid and nice that it is just a mask. As much as possible if I come across this kind of people I don't tend to be super nice at time. I act civil with them knowing who they really are.

OH dear, I usually steer clear of hypocrites. Can't bear to be in their company for a long time. :) Cheers and happy Mylotting

Sad to say that probably more people are hypocrites in one way or another than are not. But that being said I think that you are speaking of the extreme outright hyporcrite. I know the type. The guy that tells his children not to lie or worse yet accuses your child of lying and then sits in front of you and tells nothing but lies that you KNOW are not true. The extremely "Religious" person that faithfully attends church and preaches to any who will listen and then turns around and tells jokes not fit for mixed company in front of you. Yup I've met my share and I do my best to simply avoid their company as much as possible. Now I know you can't avoid them all nor all of the time. Those times when I must be in their presence I usually just live by my own values of letting people live their lives as long as it isn't hurting me. Which means biting my tongue and getting through my time with them quite often.

Well it happends; but honestly am not very much affected w/ people like this. I mean I can ride-on w/ their styles and I don't really care wether they are hypocrite or just being plastic as long as they don't pry on me. What really bothers me are those insecure ones who try to put you down in order to uplift themselves and gain popularity. Am really sick of these kinds.

If I could help it, I wouldn't want to be around those kind of people. But if I couldn't avoid them, I'd rather not say a word and just smile at them.

I hate hypocrisy, my experience is a great deal because this people are church goer. I was new and still learning people's behavior at church. Over the 2 years of time I have decided to cut myself and never go to church ever again. This is my experienced, at this particular church, people were very nice, they always had this wonderful smile like they don't have issues or problem. When Pastor start to preach that word of God all I have noticed 90 percent is "You have to give 10 percent tight of your gross income" and he does repeat it like we never heard him. This congregation has 200 members and guess what! One person I knew he gave $6000 a year to this church when he doesn't have anything. He could have use it to pay off his debt, and of course I was one of the member I gave total of $2000 out of $10,000 gross salary a year. That's 20%, here's my family is begging for a pound of rice I can't even give to them because the church was asking my left over money which I am supposed to help my poor family back home. I said that's it, done! This people are enriching themselves by asking this poor peoples money and who was going to rich the Pastor and the Family. They are driving this big nice car and trucks that normal people could not afford. They have a 3 to 4 story house that you would never see around. I mean their house worth a million bucks each. This pastor's family do not work. Where in the world they get all this money. ahaha of course from stupid people like me who got robbed yearly. Im not stupid anymore and im done giving them my hard earn money.

It does not bother me. I mean if it did, I would let these pretenders influence my life and tell me what to do. I cannot understand how someone will up and quit a church, not because the minister said that Lot's Wife turned into a pumpkin but because Mrs. Bigwigs starting gossiping about them? Or you quit the university because so and so said to your face, that you did a wonderful thing with your eyes and behind your back says, you are such a bore! etc. I also cannot read people's minds, but I know that sometimes people have bad days. I am a bit honest though, I tell everyone that I am really not that nice, so no one will consider me as a mean horrible hypocrite pretending to be nice and having a false smile on my face. I also do not expect people to be nice and kind, so when they are, it is a surprise and most of them are, unless they were having a particularly bad day.

Hi Bebs, I don't like to hang out with these type of people..It will stress me and I will developed negative thoughts which I don't like to happen... I meet some people here who are like that and I just stopped hanging out with them!

I have an aunt that is that way, she'll be nice and sweet to your face, but when you turn your back she changes and she'll tell ppl all kinds of things about you. She wants ppl to think she's a nice person, but deep down she isn't. I just try to stay away from her, and not talk to her too much, because she's nosey, she tries to get information from you so she'll have something to talk about. I can't stand ppl that are like that either, its sad because she's my aunt, but she's been like that all her life.

I don't like hypocrites. Even Jesus himself dislike them. So I always make sure I am dealing with sincere people. It's hard to interact with "plastic" people because you don't know which of the actions they are showing are true and which are not. When a person is hypocrite, he or she will not have a chance to gain good friends. Chances are that person will also have hypocrites as his/her companions.

Hi Bebs! Again, these are not people that you want to have as a part of your life! If you know that they are not what the seem then you don't need to have them as part of the people you associate with! I don't want to deal with people that say one thing and do another! They are hypocrites and to me that is a liar and a fake! You can't believe anything that they say! If you know this about them, then why bother with them at all?

Hello Bebs08! I had a room mate who is hypocrite too. She's saying something about this and that and the next time, she said different again. I mean she's not consistent. She always said, "you know what..I don't like..I am not..I am.." but the next thing you know she will say something that is totally different on what she said. I actually don't like to talk to her anymore but since we are room mate, I can't avoid her..hehehe.. My reaction to her is just "ah ok" but deep inside, I don't believe in what she said anymore.

Just wont be vocal on that. Since ive done it for the past years, turned out the me being the one having it. What i did was to pray for them so that can handle when able to encounter such type of people. That they turned on to be god fearing, in a such a way things will work out... for the better.

i am a Hypocrite as well, so seeing and hearing hypocrite people, i see myself to them. i can motivate, help others in their hard times,give words of encouragement to live life to the fullest and make the most out of everything but D***, i can't even help myself to recover from all my hard ships and my lost. i supposed that i am a great pretender indeed. my family thought that i had already moved on with my life after what happened but little do they know is that i am still sailing up to now and drifting myself to an endless road of wandering.

Hi Bebs. If given a choice, I simply won't interact with people like that. But if I have to socialize with them, I would probably just go with the flow. Just let them blow their horn for as long as they are not offending me and other people in any way. I'd just tell myself that this will all be over soon. Thanks. Have a great day!

in reality, i think every one is a kind of hypocrite in our life. we take different atittudes for different person. we just may not be seriously. if i know this kind of people i would also pretended to be good and kind with him. there is no choice. that's what i thouht.