both student--- different age...

@mz_Ira (1090)
Philippines
April 2, 2009 1:05am CST
I know age gap is not a big deal anymore but specially when it comes to older man and younger woman right? but what if it the woman is older with 2 kids already who goes to 2nd and 3rd grade already goes out with her classmate who is 18 year old. I dont have anything against with their relationship but I find it awkward really.. I see them sometimes in our library, then this woman would leave for a bit to pick-up his kids then come back with her lil men and let the bf( the 18 yr old guy) talk to them and help them with the homework or something.. Makes me think sometimes that if I just dont know nor see them I might say that theyre family well her sons..
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Apr 09
i think it strange myself. i think the man must be looking for a mama figure & a woman going out w/a guy that young doesn't want to face reality that's she getting older.
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
you got me laughing for a bit antiquelady.. well thats what I have in mind as well..
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Apr 09
we all need good laughs. glad u got one.
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 09
Personally I do not think you should worry about them. As long as they are happy and can resolve the major differences that may exist between them then it does not become a big issue. Furthermore I assume you are not directly involved in any way. Everyone has the right to choose his or her partner. It may look awkward but there have been successful marriages between young men and older women. One of my friends married someone who is ten years older than he is. In a case that was highlighted years back in a neighbouring country the bride can be the grandmother of the groom. I would let them live in peace. The same thing could happen to any of us. all the best, rosdimy
@Andi21 (85)
• Germany
2 Apr 09
Maybe this is no so unpossible. I think today it is normal that this occurs in our world.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
Well I wont mind it, maybe they just understand each other more, I know some people will react strange and shock. But it's none of my business, I'll just ignore it. Anyway you were telling that even the 2 sons were like close to this 18 year old. Well they just maybe honest with each other, there relationship is open, and they don't mind other people. Love doesn't have boundaries, as long as their feeling is concern for each other.Have a nice day to you!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Apr 09
Well, love is a strange and yet wonderful thing ^_^ AGe is not a barrier nor a problem when they love each other ^_^ Age does not matter if they are able to commit themselves to the relationship.. This is something whereby alot of us are not able to do ^_^ So, why should they be bothered about how others are gonna see them, when they themselves are so proud because they truly love each other ^_^ Maybe there will be others whom might say that guy is young and dun know what's right or wrong yet, but he's showing some responsibility by helping to take care of her kids too!! ^_^ So, in love, being a 3rd party stands for nothing because they are the ones involved in it and only they can feel the love, commitment, share the sense of security between them ^_^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
7 Apr 09
Thanks for the pencil ^_^
@snow8515 (169)
• China
3 Apr 09
I think love is the thing to be understanded most difficultly. What is love? There is no one could explain completely. So their relationship may be awkward others observe cause it doesn't accord with tradition. However, they are happy as long as there is love between them.
@vickycity (154)
• China
2 Apr 09
That's a little awkward.
@Informer (802)
• India
2 Apr 09
Hi Ira, Few things are never meant to be understand. So, that this relationship is. There are times when we don't know, what is good or what is bad? but we follow our heart. You can say it as selfishness but no one has control on emotions sometimes.. happY MyLotting
@vworld4u (143)
• India
2 Apr 09
There is nothing weird to feel in this relationship. Secondly, there is one thing in this world which can never be understood by everybody! That is this relationship. Outsiders can never understand about the feelings of that couple. So we make too many comments, but we forget to think even many of our relationships looks awkward to others. Feelings between two persons is one thing that can never be understood completely by outsiders! Please never feel awkward about it, simply let them live their life!!!!