where would you rather be? the one who get hurt or the one who gave hurt?
By madposas
@madposas (98)
Philippines
April 2, 2009 8:30am CST
when i get to the point that i hurt someone, i used to say that i wished it was me who's hurt. but when someone hurt my feelings, i used to say that i wished he would get hurt. confusing huh, my last experience about this situation was that i thought everything would be alright then suddenly things changed into something that's worth cursing for. he told almost all of his friends that at first he didn't liked me and that i lured and attract him which is not so true. and his friends told me that he was just playing and worst.. is going to be my biggest secret.. ever..
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3 responses
@Sreepu_d2009 (254)
• India
2 Apr 09
Well..for me i won't want to b in any of d options.I can't dream of hurting anyone innocent n good...n i don't want to get hurt by some completely insensible idiot.But neither can't b avoided.as for me..if i hurt someone unintentionally n later realize it i say sorry n try my best to to show dat im sincerely sorry.N if i get hurt..i also try my best to payback dat person...which maynot b possible.D best thing to do in such situations is to b cautious of any deceitful person n to remember.."Don't HURT d one who loves u/Don't love d one who HURTS u."
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
2 Apr 09
I would rather get hurt myself than having to hurt another person. It is painful to be the person who gets dumped, but even though it is hard and painful I find it easier to deal with that situation than a situation where I have to hurt someone else. Having to break up with someone who is still in love with me and who is very serious about the relationship is really painful, it breaks my heart having to hurt the person, and that why I would rather get dumped or hurt myself if I had to choose.
@minniemadz (499)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
When I hurt someone, it really bothers me. But when someone hurts me, I wished that he would experience the same thing...but not caused by me. As much as possible, I need to live with my conscience clear.
