Do you wanna love marriage or arranged marriage

@Tk5013 (311)
Liberia
April 4, 2009 11:14pm CST
Marriage is next step of life. Do you want to choose your partner on your own.i mean you want love marriage or arranged marriage
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7 responses
@Reyah23 (640)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
I wanted to marry a man whom i really love and also love me. I don't want an arrange marriage. I dont think that it going to be successfull.
• India
5 Apr 09
Dear Reyah, I repect your views but I think there are more instanes of arrange marriage being successful than love marriage. Look around and you will notice a greater number of divorce cases of couples who have chosen love marriage. Then, how can you say that arrange marriage being unsuccessful?
@celticeagle (158483)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Apr 09
I would have to chose my soulmate for myself. I would love my family and want to be respectful of them but I feel you only go through once and you want to be happy. Sometimes perhaps the family could probably make a better selection for me than I have made but this last one is not the case. He is the sweetest, kindest, most romantic man I have known. So my choices aren't too bad. Just took me half a life time is all.
• China
5 Apr 09
how to say that. marriage is surely the next step of life,and is the most important step. it can determine your rest of life. i think if i can't find the one i loved,i would choose arranged marriage.
5 Apr 09
I want a love marriage Why would i want to marry someone i dont love? And fake everything, nobody in there right mind wants one.
• India
5 Apr 09
I consider marriage as an institution which depends on the pillars of mutual understanding. Whether a person is going for love or arrange marriage it is gonna be successful only if both the partners are mutually understanding. If we go by history arrange marriage has always been successful but we have great examples of love marriage too. If I have to choose between love or arrange marriage I will certainly choose arrange marriage. As it is not just the question of two people rather it is a relationship between two families.
• India
5 Apr 09
Ya . love marriage is better these days. You would know the partner very well before marriage. Arranged marriages are not safer anymore. They lead to divorce.
@ag_sekar (112)
• India
5 Apr 09
it is for the person who is going to get married to decide. I would prefer love marriage over arranged one