in a relationship vs being single

@orevro (715)
Philippines
April 9, 2009 5:32am CST
most of the time, people say you are fortunate if there is someone beside you, holding your hands, kissing you, hugging and loving you. But not all people in a relationship are happy. Behind those display of affection are tears and pain, blame and pretentions, lonliness and confusion. Singles are luckier. they have only themselves to worry about, less expense, less stress, less mess.. Any reactions?? feel free to comment :)
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@rsa101 (24858)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
That may be true to some but always remember that no man is an island. Somewhere along the way your heart may bring along somebody and you should not ignore that. If love comes knocking along the way never ignore it. Be not afraid to what the consequences there because you deserved to be love.
@orevro (715)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
thank you for your comment:)
@Informer (803)
• India
9 Apr 09
Hi Friend, You have given your views properly. In some example you are right. But I would say one can't spend his/her life alone for a long, at some point of time you need a person who take cares you, wait for you in the evening that someone will come and also talks you when you have pain or problem...
@orevro (715)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
thank you for commenting :)
@enciel (371)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
I am single too for the longest time you can never imagine and haven't had a chance to be in a relationship ever, i want to experience having someone to spend the rest of my life with someday. One of my friends just said that to me (recently broken up with a bf) that singles are luckier nothing to worry no problems etc. Bitterness I must say. But I said to her that we all have problems its just that it's different for everyone else. I hate it when people say singles have an easier life when it's not actually. We also have our own worries ourselves. I know not all relationships work out for the good but there's always a bad side to everything eventually you'll find someone that will be worth the wait and willing to spend the rest of their life with you
@ulqu1orra (307)
• Philippines
16 Apr 09
You're right about it, being in a relationship must be good because you have a support from someone you can really trust. And you're right about it too, being single must be lucky because you don't have anyone whom your always worry about or anyone who will worry about you.
@bluishrose (2291)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
It really depends on how you see the situation. Both situations has their advantages and disadvantages. Sometimes we are more happier being single becasue of our lifestyle like were always on the move,always occupied that having someone is additional stress. But if our lifestyle is on slow like were not busy or we have less friends then having someone is an advantage for us. Its just means meeting the right person.
@online_jon (1478)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
Hello orevro, good day to you my co-mylotter. There are good advatage and bad advantage of a single or in a relationship with your love ones. Well, first i will site the good advatage of single in your life. The good advatage of single in your life are no longer feel short in money because the only reason why you spend in money is for your self. If you are single you are free whatever you what to do and all in all you are the captain of your life to enjoy with your self, where you can also go to the place you want to go. And next is the disadvantage of single in your life. Well, first of all is there are time you will feel sad because of problem, the you can't share it with other people like your girlfriend and the disadvatage is if you have problem with money, it will be hard for you to hunt cash, but if you have a girl friend there is a great possibility that you may have a money. Well, in my own that is the advantage and disadvantage of being single. Then next i will give the advantage and disadvantage in a relationship. First in my own base opinion for me, the advantage when you are in a relationship is there always someone who give love with you, comfort and always besides you when you feel alone especially when you have a problem. For me i can say that it is really good to have a girl friend And last is the disadvantage of having girlfriend, well the only disadvantage of having a relationship is you were not able to do things that you like for the reason you are not free. Hehe... By the way me? I have a girlfriend and i really love her and i think i can do all things that i can as long as i can. I really love my girlfriend and i really want to thank her to all the things that she done with me. I will never leave my girlfriend because i really love her. My girlfriend is always concern with me and i can say that she really love me,like the way i love her. Well, that's the reason why i am go with for the relationship because with this i really feel happy and it makes me smile always! Well that's all the end of my response with this forum topic discussion entitled "in a relationship vs being a single". Thank you! Happy posting and happy earning here in this site mylot. Good day and God bless us always!