Do you love the way you are?

@med889 (5954)
April 10, 2009 4:32am CST
I saw that many people complain about the way they are. Some says they would like to be more beautiful or more sexy and so on. But I just love the way I am though there are some things I wanted to make better but now i love being myself. What about you?
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@clorissa123 (4930)
• United States
10 Apr 09
I don't like the way I am, because it is never acceptable in my environment I guess. I tried to change, but I don't see how would I change myself. Be myself just what I am doing right now.
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@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Never try to change yourself. You are what "you are" and I prefer you just the way you are and there will be many more to love you the way you are. Changing for someone means accepting to bow infront of them. One can improve bad qualities to good one but we cannot neglect good qualities to something else. And yeah to improve perfection is a bit difficult also. Good day clorissa ;-)
@suveer35 (98)
• India
10 Apr 09
Hi there,some people keep cribbing about themselves because they are very much frustrated with themselves.they compare themselves with others who are better than them and start cribbing,But they fail to understand their own good qualities which are present within themselves.I am very happy the way I am because first of all I am UNIQUE,there is nobody in this world who is exactly like me,I have those qualities which very few people have.I do have many shortcommimgs but I still feel that I am the best.Thats called as a positive attitude towards life.
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@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
I agree with you suveer35!
• India
10 Apr 09
me myself - Ilove myself.
Hello freind yes "i love my self,i love the way iam,but that doesnt mean that iam perfect,i still have many things in me that should be changed.The first thing i want to change in myself is my shorttempered nature,and there are many more in the list,but still iam my favourite.hahahaha.
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Hello shiwangipeswani, thank you for sharing. Good day!;-)
@Shula101 (268)
• New Zealand
10 Apr 09
I love me :) Im different to other people and some people hate it(jealous prats) while alot of people love it when i dont act like a Jock(I play rugby and Martial arts) or act like a Jerk PArty guy. They love it when im different to other people and more like a person they can recognize and relate too :).
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@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Everyone is unique Shula101. And im happy for you too.;-)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
yeah..i love the way i am ....i love the way i brought up myself even that i'm not that beautiful and sexy..but sometimes if guys thought tease i feel hurt sometimes much but i always think that why should i regret the way i am specially my physically outlook..sometimes i'm insecure with those beautiful and sexy..but i always think that God the almighty is the giver of life and should not act this way..i should be proud of the gift i have.
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@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
I am very happy to read your comment. Everyone should have such thoughts.
@Informer (803)
• India
10 Apr 09
Hi Med, I just love the way I am. I think, I am normal person whom you can relate with any boy next door. I am down to earth and think all should be. I now I can't be as smart as a scientist but I know I can resolve my and my family's problem..That is what I need and that is what I am... Happy MyLotting
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@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Hello Informer, I am glad to know that. People should have such confidence to stay ae they are. Good day ;-)
@tammytwo (4302)
• United States
22 Apr 09
I think we have to learn to love ourselves before we can ever love anyone else or life itself. I know there are things that I can change about my looks but I try desperately to be a good person to everyone so that I will know there is no room for change in that area. If I am genuine and make every effort to be the best person I can be on the inside I will look as beautiful as possible to others on the outside.
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Yes exactly we have to accept the way we are instead of complaining everytime about everything we are not.
@aileen18 (170)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
yeah, i love the way I am even though i'm too skinny and people are keep telling me that. i know that i'm not the only skinny person in this world...haha! accepting the whole you will make your life better, for me physical appearances doesn't matter anymore, what matters most is how you live your life. i accepted the fact that we cannot change the way we look no matter how hard we try. :)
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Hello aileen18, thank you for sharing. I agree with you. No matter what others say you should feel comfortable with yourself instead of always blaming yourself for the things you don't have.
• United States
18 Apr 09
Yeap, I like who I am and how I am. I'm me and that's how I was supposed to be. You have to love yourself first and whole heartedly. People who haven't come around to do so, are missing a lot in their life.
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Yes i agree with you. Everyone is unique also.
@guzhao (25)
• China
13 Apr 09
I only become myself.
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
And you should never change for someone else.Because you are "you"
@fan2009 (122)
• China
13 Apr 09
Everyone likes to be cute.but I like being myself.I often take things as they are.I am content with present myself.I am unique.I came to this world to do something for others.I am glad to be living in this world.So I like the way I am.
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Thank you for sharing fan2009 ;-)
@sameta (6)
• India
12 Apr 09
yes i love the way i am because everyone is dufferent from each other so we all love the way we are
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
exactly sameta everyone is unique.
@sawatzky (69)
• Canada
11 Apr 09
Hard question to answer... I always wished I was rich and talented but with my current personality. But "The way I am" made me who I am. If I was any way else, I wouldn't be who I am. I have always suffered from migraine headaches so sports took a back seat in my life. I was always a super skinny kid, so my self image was never positive. So, not being non-athletic-super-skinny-kid turned me into a computer geek, and everyone knows that the future belongs to the geeks. I like where I'm at but I'm always looking to where I wish I could be. I've seen the world, but I'm stuck in one place. I have interests I have no hopes of mastering. I'm average in a world that celebrates genius. My psych-nurse mother always tells me that it's good to be average... that genius often leads to misery, so yeah... I love the way I are (am) :) .
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Thank you for sharing sawatzky!
@se7enthbird (8324)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
yes i do love the way i am, and that is what makes us special for we differ to one another. thats makes us find a good partner when a trait of mine jives to a trait that the said partner has. i appreciate my looks and what i am so people can appreciate me as myself as well. my wife appreciates everything about me then i appreciate her as well. my wife just said i need to exercise a little for my tummy is getting big har har har
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Hi se7enthbird, thank you for sharing! And everyone is just so unique that we tend to always find things we don't have in someone else but the most important is being yourself.;-) Good day!
• United States
10 Apr 09
I love who I am. I love people and smile and like to make people smile also. I like the way I look. I accepted long ago I am not going to be one of these thin people. I have big bones and that is never going to happen. I am who I am and if a person doesn't like me the way I am that is there problem not mine.
@med889 (5954)
22 Apr 09
Hello sunshinelady, I agree with you. Good day!;-)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I love myself and I love the way I am. When I was a kid, I think that I am the ugliest girl on earth but I was wrong. I will never change anything on my face or body even if I am not perfect. I see myself as a beautiful person inside and out... that has gained me confidence and thats what guys like about me.
@carrine (2748)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
iam like before, i keep on complaining about my physical appearance, why im not tall, why im not skinny. yes iam pretty LOL but for now, no more, iam very happy of what iam and i should be thankful of who and what do i look because its a gift from HIM. i should take care of what he created