Fail to plan, plan to fail?

Hi Ritz100, I find that planning never works with me, so I leave it to destiniy, but 10 years ago if you told me that I would be on a computer, I would have laughed at you because I hated the thing and its too complicated for me and look here I am 10 years later, you can't get me off it. I have learnt a lot of things in the last few years or so. Tamara

When i was in college i do have plans but it seems that it is not easy to make it happen now. I was also planning my studies before so i could graduate on time but it didnt happened as i planned. Things just get worst so now i dont want to plan my life anymore. But I would attain my goals and let where my life brings me.

I think the other one just leads to the other. I mean if one doesnt plan then what he's doing is bound to fail sooner or later, unless he's already an expert in whatever task he is doing at present. Planning to fail is also not good. Why should one plan to fail? Unless failing would lead to something good. Like failing work(as in quitting) would lead to freedom and focus on the self. We should all expect that we will fail sometimes despite our best efforts. Thats just a part of life. Im not really 'confident' with it. Im just glad that its going somewhere. I do have a plan for the next 18months but after that Im really not sure. I guess Id just go with the flow or wait until I get to the end of that 18th month and then try to plan for the next years. That is if I can. But right now I guess I just live for the present. Trying to get by day after day, working, waiting, and hoping something good comes out of all of this.

Hey ritz! I don't really plan ahead anymore! I just take life as it comes, one day at a time! I have learned that along time ago! It is too difficult to think past one day because life constantly throws you curve balls all the time and you always end up having to change your course of action. So I no longer make long range plans! Going with the flow is a much easier and more plausable way to take life!

I am where I want to be, luckily God has blessed me and my family and I hope and pray that my life is doing as good and we are still where we are at in the next 5-10 yrs.