What is the role your mylot friend plays?

@hxstar (510)
China
April 13, 2009 11:54pm CST
Hi,mylotters I have many mylot friends now,and I am little confused about it.I am confused about the role my mylot friend plays to me.I add others as my friend and if they approve it I will be happy!I think some mylotters just view mylot friend as someone who will respond to your discussions,because they add me as their friend but when I pm them,they rarely respond.I view my mylot friend important because I like to make new friends and I can make friends from other countries on mylot.Some of my friends on mylot become my real friends!I add they to my MSN or YahooMessenger friend list and we talk more there.I think this helps me to know more people in other countries and let me know more about other countries.Do you agree with me?Then what is the role your mylot friend plays in your opinion?
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13 responses
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
i don't know what mylot friends really do aside from that they can view my discussions started so they can respond to it. but i don't think we earn by gaining friends. but anyway having friends here on mylot is fun too. they do sometimes help. and besides i loose nothing if i accept them. thats really nicer if you get them chatting with you. anyway happy mylotting!
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@hxstar (510)
• China
14 Apr 09
HI,angel_kaycee! Thanks for your responding.Hope you can make more friends.
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@GardenGerty (115758)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Angel you are quite right, you lose nothing by accepting them. If they turn out to be not quite desirable, you lose nothing by deleting them. You do not earn by gaining friend directly, that is true. However, if you have friends, then you do not have to worry that a discussion will not have any responses.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi Hxstar, I think you are a little overact on this matter. Because you add people as a friend, they approve you, that could be they really likes you and want to make friends of you, or maybe they are just being kind that they don't want to deny you. You are now kind of requesting them to repond everything you PM then, you have to understand there is a timezone between you and your friends. So, take it easy and put it in a normal way. Ask not what your friends can do for you, ask what you can do for your friends. After all, we all here to enjoy sharing our ideas and make money!
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@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi,vivianchen! Maybe you misunderstood me,I am not requesting my friends on mylot to respond everything I pm them.In fact,I only want to make friends with them,not boring them or something else.I understand that there is a timezone,and I am not mean that if they don't respond me,I will dislike them.I just want to know if people want to make friends with someone when they request to be someone's friends or for something else.Different people thinks differently,thanks for responding anyhow! Have a nice day.
• United States
15 Apr 09
I'm new to this so I'm not quite sure. I know some of the posts are interesting and thoughts that I've had or had and it's nice to know you're not alone most times. I've learned a lot from my short experience with mylot and if I can make a few friends while doing this, that's even better. Genuine people seek each other out, so just take it for what's its worth and make the best of it.
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@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi,MsBoomBoom! Thanks for responding! You will find that your mylot friends really helpful soon and you can make some friends here on mylot for sure.I like what you have said! Happy mylotting!
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@online_jon (1478)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hello hxtar, good day to you mylotter. Well, here in this site mylot, there is so many member that add other people to be their friend because of the reason. The people that they add to be their friends will also give them a help in times of having problem but now know. As i know when you add a friend to your buddy list and onces it is already approve, you can send a private message which with that particular features of system here in this site, you can talk by a message privately when times that you are having a trouble in matters and especially here in this site mylot. For the reason if the site is good the people who are registered here in this site are also good because [b]"the reflection of the site is the people who are registered there". So with that particular matter, you no longer need to worry about asking some question to other, which you think that will only be snob and do not mind with them. By the way when adding friends you will feel the good advantage of it, when you need help you can ask somebody to help you regarding your question. Well, when i was in the day that i really do not know this site very well, the thing that i do is to add a friend and try to send him/her a private message ask a reply about my question that please guide me in the earning program of this site, then because we are already friend to each other he explain all the things in me and i really appreciate it. With my particula message you will the good advantage of a friend here in this site especially if your friend is also come to your native land. As a sort of advise hxtar always add a friend in order for you to be help by the good people here in this site. Well, that's all my response my friend. I wish i give a very informative response and i'm hoping you find it interesting. Thank you! Happy posting and happy earning to us here in this site mylot.
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Aw! I forgot the closing tag of bold letters, i think i erased it. ='c i'm very sorry!
@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi,online_jon! Thanks for responding!Your response really helps!I can see that you got a lot of help from your mylot friends,I am glad for you!Wish you can make more friends here on mylot! Happy mylotting!
@GardenGerty (115758)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I have very little communication with MyLot friends outside of MyLot. One or two are also on my personal e mail list. If there is something important for us to share, we e mail. I do try to respond to at least some of the discussions my mylot friends start, although sometimes they are hard to understand and they start twenty or thirty discussions a day, all about the same thing. I try to find at least one to respond too.
@hxstar (510)
• China
17 Apr 09
Hi,GardenGerty! I am glad to know that you have extra communication outside of mylot,it is great,and I also have some communications with my friends on mylot.I think making friends is always interesting. Thanks for responding and have a nice day.
• China
15 Apr 09
well,you must know people in this modern times always guard for themselves,this is not difficult to understand,for there do have a lot of unpleasant things happened on net.so if you really want to make friends with mylotters,i think your speaking tone should be suitable,in order to avoid distortion. by the way,happy mylot;)
@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi,noquite0325! Thanks for responding! I understand what are you talking about,and I will try to make sure that my speaking tone is suitable.Thanks for your kind advice! Have a nice day!
@nishdan01 (3054)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Mylot friends play a very important role. So far many have helped me find other writing and earning venues and helped me know the truth. It is especially important to know the scam websites out there. Also I got a lot of friends from other countries that helped exchange our views. Mylot is the media to speak to our brothers and sisters worldwide. Just discussions alone and that helps us know what we want easily. Added to it, our referrals have boosted our earnings.
@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi,nishdan01! I agree with you that we can get a lot of useful information here on mylot,and they really help us greatly! Be happy everyday!
• India
14 Apr 09
hi hxstar, till now they have been just mylot friends, but hope they will be good friends atleast in future.i will be happy if we can be friends. have a nice day
@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi ahmeneaque! Of course thet can be your good friends,and I want to be your friends too! Thanks for responding!
@asianwind (365)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
Hi there! I am so glad that I am here in MyLOt. After merely 3 days, I have met a couple of wonderful, and beautiful people who have been very supportive. They never ran out of good words to say. If you could visit my discussions you would understand what I mean... its like finding a friend from a diffrent continent who could understand me. LOL
@hxstar (510)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi,asianwiand! I will visit your discussions of course!You will find more good friends here!Thanks for responding!
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
Hi there! I'm new in mylot and is still finding my way around here. That got me to thinking as I am in the process of adding friends. I think I have two friends right now and other pending friend request. As I am building my network of friends here in mylot, I find that it makes me happy in split-second every time someone responds to my discussions or react to my opinion in a polite manner or just simply adds me as their friend.
@hxstar (510)
• China
14 Apr 09
Thanks for responding! You will find more friends here! Happy mylotting
@annierose (18952)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
hi xing, Well,we became friends few days ago and I can say that I am thankful because you seems to be a very nice person.It is really exciting to meet different people across the globe.It feels so wonderful knowing you can say to your other friends in your hometown that you have a friend in certain country. And what is more beautiful is that even though that foreigner friend cannot meet you in person because of traveling issues, you know still that there is a person whom you can talk to, to share your life with. Before, adding and accepting friends here in mylot something I just do to increase the number of my friends.It is not clear to me what is the real reason having mylot friends.But as I stay longer here in mylot, I suddenly realize what are their roles why they are my friends in this site.For some of us, maybe the primary or basic reason why we have mylot friends is because we want our discussion to have many participants. Well, that is a good and practical reason because both the one who started the discussion and the one who participated will surely earn.What I learned about mylot friends role on us over a period of time, becomes deeper as of now. We have them not only for our discussion to gained so may response but for our own growth also. I proved to myself that most of mylotters are smart and intelligent. I had witnessed that thing by reading their started discussions and on their responses. And by that, I can say that I also learn something on them. Aside from that, they are very friendly and approachable which is a good sign that they can be true and good friend.I can say that mylot friends are treasures also.And with this, I am really thankful that mylot is created.
@hxstar (510)
• China
14 Apr 09
Hi,Ana! I always think you are a nice person as you are so helpful!Hope you can get more on mylot! Wish you good luck!
@rocketsky (1013)
• China
14 Apr 09
it is good to come here making friends and talk about certain topics . some friends come here to make a fun . others come here to learn something . different people have diffrent motivations .
@hxstar (510)
• China
14 Apr 09
Hi,rocketsky! Thanks for responding!
• China
14 Apr 09
I just have one mylot friend,as I am a green hand.I also have many friends in my QQ( chat software in China mainland),but rarely chat,because most of the time they hide themselves,maybe they are always busy, I think. As my foreign language,my English writting is not so good,so I cant't write more hehe.Enjoy mylot!
@hxstar (510)
• China
14 Apr 09
Hi,Yunlong9527 I think your English is really nice!You can write as many as you can! Thanks for responding.
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