caught in the act

caught - caught in the act
United States
April 14, 2009 9:54am CST
my friend came back from work one afternoon and caught his wife with a man doing it in his bedroom and that prompted me to ask all this question. what would you do, how would you feel if you caught your man or woman doing it, i mean making love?
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13 responses
@freak369 (5123)
• United States
14 Apr 09
I think the better question to ask would be how many times had it happened before? Why bother getting married if you know there is still a chance that the other person is going to cheat? If you get busted once, chances are you've gotten away with it more than a few times. If you got busted on your first time you'll think twice about doing it again or at the very least be more careful about planning romps. I'm sure he was more than a little irked at it, what person in their right mind wouldn't be?
• United States
14 Apr 09
the problem is, if you busted the opposite, he/she will maintain it is the first time.that has always been the talk...
• United States
14 Apr 09
they would always say it is the first time because they have been busted... i would do something very nasty if i caught my gurl
• Israel
14 Apr 09
Wow if I just caught my girl cheating me, I will kill her and the guy with her. She will suffer badly just for thinking doing it to me. I hate cheating!
• United States
14 Apr 09
really? that would be a real drama you know and you will end up in jail lol.. its painful though
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• Israel
14 Apr 09
I didn't mean "kill her" in a physical way. I just will make her pay for what she did.
@Citychic (4071)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Caught in the act....... Initially I would probably feel just a tinge bit of hurt. But things happen in life and nothing that people do really surprises me anymore. So that's how come I wouldn't really be too shocked.
• United States
25 Apr 09
thank you for contributing and sharing views with us. i appreciate
• United States
24 Apr 09
I think I would walk out because I would be worried of what I would do. I take my kids and leave. I would go to a lawyer as soon as possible. I would also change all my bank accounts so he would not be able to access my pay. I would not be able to talk to him right away. I am also not a forgiving person either. I don't think my hubby would ever do something like this.
• United States
25 Apr 09
i guess that is what you would do.please try to be the forgiving type because i believe God loves us to forgive
@chiyosan (30194)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
i would most definitely feel bad about it. i think i wil ljust break up with him and forget i ever had met him.
• United States
23 Apr 09
lol... i guess you have your own opinion about the whole issue. thanks for contributing
@sid556 (30989)
• United States
19 Apr 09
Like most anyone, I'd be shocked and devastated. I doubt I could wipe that image out of my mind. The relationship would be instantly over.
• United States
22 Apr 09
you have the right to your actions..... thanks for contributing
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
17 Apr 09
If I caught my man in the act of cheating on me, then I would kick his butt out of the house as well as the woman he was caught with. I could never be with someone that would cheat on me, to me that is not loving me. If you honestly love me, then you wouldn't cheat on me.
• United States
22 Apr 09
you are very right.... thanks for sharing
@sisco100 (2344)
• United States
16 Apr 09
for one i would be very piss off about the whole thing. i really wouldnt blame it on the guy, because she might have told him that she was single and living with a friend or some thing along those lines. most likely i would own the place and at that point i would kick her out of the house along with all her things and tell her that she can move in with her new guy. i dont believe in doing bad things to another person, because karma can come back and kick me in the butt. most of the time when i just let things run their course some thing bad happens to that person so i dont have to do any thing. i wouldnt let what she did bother me, its not my lost its hers. there are other fishs in the sea that i could choose form.
• United States
16 Apr 09
your opinions and contributions are highly appreciated. thanks
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
I think you will never realize what will happen to them if you caught them. I guess it was a normal thing in the minds of man to get even and revenge if they caught a loved one cheating. It is really the worst scenario and i myself would not know what i can do. As most true to life stories happened in the lives of men and women caught cheating, and for me, it is really not a good picture, it will be bloody bad thing. I think you and I know what is happening in the world when peoples lives got ruined because of infidelity and murder is one case that you will expect about this, and this is really sad, awful but in reality.
• United States
15 Apr 09
thanks for the contributions... i really appreciate it
@born1989 (177)
• India
15 Apr 09
it's all over at that point of time. i would feel like i was a fool.many things will start going through my mind. i would start analyzing were did i went wrong. this would be such a terrible blow for sumone. this should never happen to anyone
• United States
15 Apr 09
it happens though and can you imagine that a lady actually forgave her husband and still talks with the other lady she caught her husband with?
@mira91 (986)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Gosh, it would be such a shock to me i can't even imagine how i might react i'd probably be too shocked to even say anything at all! I think i'll just walk off...Never to look back...Never to as even have a glimpse at his facial reaction as to being caught. I'll never have the same view that i have about him ever again... This kind of betrayal is probably the WORST there ever is...What more, they're like actually DOING IT in front of you... Talk about double OUCH...
• United States
15 Apr 09
thanks for the comments and contributions. i hope it never happens to you
@justszack (333)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 09
I'll kill him...
• United States
15 Apr 09
lol. just wait until that day or pray it never happens.
@dcaisj (41)
• China
15 Apr 09
That's a shocker!I hate it!I don't know what I will do!I hope it'll never happen