What to do

you can never tell about people anymore. i know alot of times i want do things because i feel bad, i think u can get in a rut of staying home all the time. i know i have, alot of times i will go when i feel bad but it usually makes me feel better to get out once i do.

She just selfish, and not willing to help people at all. You don't have to put up with her like that, she can do the same to her, see how she gonna feel about it.

it might be her nature.maybe she behaves with everyone like that.i think you should give her back in the same coin.let her also feel how one feels hurt ,when she behaves like that.

I think that she is putting you off if this happens regularly. You could gently ask her why she is putting you off if she is the lkind of person that would not take offense. I suppose that it depends on how well you know her. Deep in your gut you will know the truth. You will have to decide whether to confront her or not. Sometimes we cannot deal with confrontation - I can't - so I let things slide moist of the time. Have a great day.

It does sound a bit one way.I am sure she does not mean it to be that way.The only thing you can do is turn her down a few times and see what happens.If you need her as a friend then be careful but if you feel she is having you on then she probably is.take care.xx