lovers and or friends....

Well both situations could happen. I've seen friends turn into lovers and lovers ended up being the best of friends while being lovers too...Personally, i love the whole lovers becoming best friends. And to the second discussion point (tee hee) i'd rather have loved and lost and actually FEEL emotions i thought i never had rather than never to have loved AT ALL...I think that's pitiful..The person would be in a pitiful state too...I just know it..^_^

Hey jordan! I have had friends that have turned into lovers before. I think that sometimes it works and sometimes it will ruin a friendship. It all depends. I have had that situation where we were still able to remain friends, but the friendship was never quite the same again. It was always a bit strained. Whether it was me who changed the terms or them it still was awkward. My bf who I am with now was my friend first. I told him if we split up I can't remain friends with him and he just doesn't undersand. That is a chance that you take when you change the rules!

i think its all in the mind and lovers can never become friends,as they crossed friendship and one level of intimacy and to turn back and become friends again is very difficult,atleast for women who are quite emotional.

Me and my boyfriend were friends and now we are lovers. And we are more open in our relationship.

i feel friends turn into lovers. lovers are already friends ..soo no ways lovers turn into friends !!hehe. it has happened to me before. i was a good friend to a girl. and then simply i took it as love . it happens!!