lovers and or friends....

United States
April 16, 2009 5:12am CST
Do friends turn into lovers or do lovers turn into friends? Age old question? Yes...What do you think? Has this happened to you? Better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all. Is that another decussion? Oh, well. mY HUSBAND IS BOTH AND MORE. hOW ABOUT YOU?? yOUR INPUT. tHANKS AND GOOD NITE....HUGS TO YOU...OOPS...
5 responses
@mira91 (987)
• Singapore
17 Apr 09
Well both situations could happen. I've seen friends turn into lovers and lovers ended up being the best of friends while being lovers too...Personally, i love the whole lovers becoming best friends. And to the second discussion point (tee hee) i'd rather have loved and lost and actually FEEL emotions i thought i never had rather than never to have loved AT ALL...I think that's pitiful..The person would be in a pitiful state too...I just know it..^_^
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
16 Apr 09
Hey jordan! I have had friends that have turned into lovers before. I think that sometimes it works and sometimes it will ruin a friendship. It all depends. I have had that situation where we were still able to remain friends, but the friendship was never quite the same again. It was always a bit strained. Whether it was me who changed the terms or them it still was awkward. My bf who I am with now was my friend first. I told him if we split up I can't remain friends with him and he just doesn't undersand. That is a chance that you take when you change the rules!
@riyasam (16571)
• India
16 Apr 09
i think its all in the mind and lovers can never become friends,as they crossed friendship and one level of intimacy and to turn back and become friends again is very difficult,atleast for women who are quite emotional.
@med889 (5954)
16 Apr 09
Me and my boyfriend were friends and now we are lovers. And we are more open in our relationship.
@born1989 (177)
• India
16 Apr 09
i feel friends turn into lovers. lovers are already friends ..soo no ways lovers turn into friends !!hehe. it has happened to me before. i was a good friend to a girl. and then simply i took it as love . it happens!!