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It is really bad if any of your friend is doing like it. He is apparently misusing the PM facility. You can simply delete him from the list and else can report the matter to mylot (provided you are serious).

Does he live close to you? Do you know if Mylot has rules against this sort of thing.if not I would just ignore him. delete him from your friends list.Take care

Personally the first thing I would do if it was me, is report him to the owners of myLot and see if there is something they can do to STOP this, and keep it from happening to others, and I would also remove him from my friends list. If he continues to bother you in discussions you start, etc. keep on reporting him and eventually he will get banned. Wishing you the Best.

Hey why don't you elope with him? You won't get a chance like this! Seriously, what are you waiting for go and REPORT him. We can help you ban him if you give us the details.

Like the other responses says, riya, ignore him or report him and probably better to delete him on your friends list. And I think if you ignore his private message he'll stop eventually.

If this is beyond your comfort level and you told him to back off then I'd delete the person off your friends list so you don't have to deal with it anymore. Seriously, this is over the top. You don't like it and if you asked for it to stop; then just delete the person so they can't send you messages anymore. Honestly, if you said stop and they continue; report it to admin. This isn't a dating site and if this person doesn't respect you saying NO then they have a problem. You don't. Report and delete.

Heya Mable. Everyone's already covered the delete him as a friend/report him angles, but I just wanted to add that there is absolutely NO place for diplomacy at all in a situation like this. If this person is making you uncomfortable in ANY way, then nail his butt to the wall by informing mylot of the same. Harrassment is not on, EVER. You want me to personally deliver him a can of whoopass?

contact mylot admin and let them know he's "stalking" you and harassing you

Report him....no sense putting up with things like that.....just turn him in and they will take care of him!

is he own your friend's list. if he is delete. if not report him to mylot. i wouldn't like that either.

Just ignore him.. he will stop when you don't even say anything. If you will entertain his being bold, he will always bother you. He will stop if you don't care and don't even bother to answer him. Just tell yourseld As if he does not exist.. Lol..

Simple just remove that guy from your friends list. I am sure once he is out from your friends list then he will not be able to message you at all, isn't it? Or you are also started thining that he is destined to you?

Hello my friend riyasam Ji, 'Neglect, over-look, forget' are the best solution. You may delete person from your list. You may high-light openly in form of discussion like this. But you do not have to react. Sustaining would provide you lot of healing and strength. May God bless you and have a great time.

Lets hope that this person has learned their lesson. But if they keep it up and you keep denying it, then yes, i do agree with others and say report this person. I am sure that they can go through the history of the site and take action.

contact mylot, with the links to all the messages,

Oh my dear friend, you need to report him! Send a message to the legal department and give them his name and send them a copy of the messages that you have been getting from him. If that doesn't work, you should contact law enforcement. There are internet stalking laws that prevent this sort of thing! Please don't give him any personal information! This scares me and now, I'm worried about you!

I have also encountered people sending me frivolous pms but not as scary as the one you received and I take it with open heart. Knowing they have good intentions I do reply in good faith. They can be an advantage too as they sure response to my discussions when no one else would. It is funny but I have one person here who has been stalking me for months without me realizing it as I considered him to be a good responder not until the tone of his responses turned 'unusual'. Out of curiosity I asked and to my surprise he confessed that he was trying to attract my attention and waited for months to get me to notice it. It is not surprising that something like this can happen in mylot and I just take it within the confine of mylot.

Hi Riya, I am sorry to listen that somebody is trying to play with mylot reputation because I felt that mylot is the safest place of us (ladies). Dropping him from your list the first thing to do then he can't send PM. Hope you are feeling good now with your friend's support, don't worry we are here for you.

maybe you should ask mylot admin to block him for you?

Oh.. A secret admirer hehe. Kidding aside, you can delete the user from your friends list. In that way the user can never send you any private messages.