Are you a loving wife - no matter what?

By Amy
Abernathy, Texas
April 26, 2009 7:38pm CST
Are you a loving wife with an easy marraige, a loving wife with many challenges - a husband who goes out a lot, or stays in but never participates in household/family activities? Are you calm and patient no matter what happens - or doesn't happen?
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10 responses
@Ozarkgirl (774)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I have a great marriage and husband. He comes home everyday to me, we are best friends so we do everything together, we have other friends, but rarely do things seperate from each other. He always helps around the house with any and everything. He is sweet and loving, and is always surprising me with little gifts, flowers, etc. The flowers are usually ones he picked himself which mean more to me because he had to participate in getting them instead of buying them. I thank God everyday for bringing me my wonderful husband.
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• United States
27 Apr 09
My marriage is very easy. If me & my husband fight it is usually over something very stupid & the fight is over after like 5 mins. Our marriage doesnt really have challenges & i am very greatful for that.
• Abernathy, Texas
27 Apr 09
This is a good thing. An easy marraige goes a long way to having a stress filled life. I think I read somewhere that married couples live longer - most be the low stress thing.
• Abernathy, Texas
27 Apr 09
oops I meant less stress filled.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I'm a loving person so yes I'm a loving wife (and mother, friend, etc etc)....of course there are challenges in my life and relationships but nothing I can't handle all things considered...
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
29 Apr 09
ohhhhh dear. I .. am going to be honest.. we.. i.. he.. we.. usually get along fine.. but there are times when i just think that we are totally on different planets when it comes to ideals, goals, and morals. . . as well as parenting skills. . and what's to be expected.. I can usually get past it, and remain calm and collected.. but there are times when i just gotta FREAK THE HECK OUT because it just all gets too much.. If this seems familiar to you.. lemmie know so i dont feel so alone. :P
• Abernathy, Texas
14 May 09
That's me today and I just typed it all out but it got erased. I am so livid today. And I am known as a patient person. This marraige, uncommunicative, unintimate, unaffectionate is trying that.
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• United States
17 May 09
I am neither, I would ssume that a husband wouldn't help with household chores. He would stay out at night. He is a husband, what else do they do? If I were a wife, I wold expect it.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I think being aloving wife and being a good husband need both parties to take part in the marriage good. It can be balanced if both sides are doing their job of what they should do and care about each other. I want to be aloving wife, I want to have more love from him...
@Mamagee (392)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 09
I'm a loving wife with many challenges. My husband is a womenizer, so hard to see him at home and never participates in household. But I still be patient for what he have done. It is because I still have small children with me. I don't want them to grow up without their father beside them.
@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 09
My husband and I courted for 7 long years before we got married. We are now married for 3 years already. I can say that I am loving wife with an easy marriage. I am thankful that my husband is not a demanding man...especially in the area of food. He is not a picky eater but one who is simple. Both of us work from home currently so we see each other and spend time with each other a lot. But this doesn't mean we don't have our ups and downs as our marriage is not a bed of roses. (roses also have thorns). But we will quickly settle the problem or issue before the day ends. This is my husband's principle - the problem is the problem. We must solve the problem. the person is not the problem. My husband doesn't go out a lot..in fact he is just too lazy to go out until at times I just go window shopping by myself. My husband does help me with household chores such as washing the dishes, folding the laundry and sometimes hanging the laundry on the line to dry.
@mimiang (3760)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Ha!ha!ha!
@angelican (195)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I have a wonderful marriage. We have 6 kids and there is always something going on around here and it does creat stress but we never fight. We did a few times when we first got married but we havn't since. All of our kids tell people how much there parents love each other and that we never argue. My daughter came home the other day after staying at a friends house and told me her friends parents doen't sleep together and aren't happy with one another. She was very sad and confused about it. She doesn't understand that kind of life and I hope she never does. With a marriage I think you have to have patience, or at least with kids, and luckily I have a lot of that!