why is that my 8task pendling for a month still pending??

Well that's something unusual.......i usually get the notification within a week whether they have approved it or rejected my tasks.......maybe you should try to send a PM to the creator of the task to see if it can be of any help......

I have no idea. I think that is way too long for it to be in pending though. I would contact Mylot about it.

The tasks FAQ specifies this: What should I do if my task is still pending? * That depends on how long it has been pending. We recommend you wait at least a week before contacting a Task Creator about a pending task. I did have one task that was pending for more than two weeks so I sent in a question. It was subsequently approved. Since SharonBucks was recently added to all of our profiles as a friend, perhaps you could send in a message that way to inquire (if you didn't delete that name). Personally, I used the Contact area for my question because I didn't have anyone friended at the time that could answer. Good luck! I hope you get approval