how do you tell a person that you liked him/her?

Philippines
May 8, 2009 7:34am CST
such a nagger. i don't know how to say this.. please, share your thoughts!and how did you do it.. please2..
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8 responses
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
8 May 09
Hello jingbautista, there has only been one I personally made it known he had an admirer.It is kind of silly but this was years ago. What I did with the help of a friend I left notes on his car. I wrote the notes and my friend delivered them to his car. I did that for a few months and I had told him in those notes I would one day reveal who his admirer was but I chicked out. I left a final note but I included my initials though I scrambled them up so there was 6 possible ways. He figured it out and he had his friend search out my friend to find my phone number. He had his friend call every one with the last name of my friend to look for her to find me.When he finally found her he called her and told her he wanted my phone number. I had an unlisted number so she told him she would give me his message and have me call him. I did call him and the first thing he asked was "what is your middle name?" I said I didnt have a middle name then he went into how he got notes from a secret admirer and he thought it was me. We spoke for about 10 minutes and when were about to hang up the phone call I confessed what my middle name is.From then we did date for awhile. He was the only one I ever made it known I liked him.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
8 May 09
I forgot to include, just be upfront and let the person know you are interested, that's the best way. What are they going to say, either yes or no.
• United States
9 May 09
I personally think that if you like someone and feel feelings for them, you should just sit down with them and tell them face to face. If they respond with mutual feelings, than that's great. If they don't feel the same, then atleast you won't have to wonder what they would say if they knew.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
8 May 09
ever since, i haven't told a guy that i like him. i'm kind of conservative in such a way, because it's not good to see like that. it's the job for the men, i know that this is unfair for all women, they just stare at their crushes without even have the guts to say they like them because of the culture that have been followed. i think guys should do that and don't be shy, go and tell her that you like her, or else she would be steal from somebody else.
• India
8 May 09
In my college days v used to play this game where my friends wud point out a guy and i had to get that guy to say i love u widout ever revealing to him that its a game and to get this done my friends wud give me a week etc etc etc....and i almost always won the bet....so u see....i never had to go to the guy that guy wud come to me....well thats when i was in college.... its been a couple of years since that...n even i have grown up....though it was fun at that point in time....n i enjoyed it....but i really dont think thats the right thing....too dangerous...high chances of sumone getting hurt....emotionally.... neways....now its all different....my friends no longer give me a period to get a guy to say i love u....well actually v r hardly in touch now....so no friends around....aint as crazy as i was then...but yet have many friends....n m not bragging trust me....if m friends with say 10 guys 9 out of those love me....and i do absolutely nothing....i mean i just b myself wid them.... so i guess m born with that attraction thing.....hehehehehehhe thats what happened wid my fiance as well....even v were frnds....n he is a kind of guy who rarely likes sumone....esp a gurl....and even he fell in love with me....proposed twice indirectly and i didnt even realize it but i didnt accept....the third time he proposed directly and i after a alot of convincing (on his part) i accepted...getting me to say yes took him 2-2 1/2years......and its wonderful....i love him like crazy and he does too...... so i found the ONE i want to b wid for the rest of my life...Hallelujah...Lucky me!!!
@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
8 May 09
I think this should be answered by a guy. Here in the Philippines, the tradition is the man will be the one who will court the woman. It should be the man who will tell a woman that he likes her. I am a woman. I have not tried telling a guy how much I like him. In friendship, if I am comfortable with the person and I am myself when I am with him/her even if it is our first meeting, I will tell straight on his/her eyes that I like him/her.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
8 May 09
you should have a courage to say what you fell coz never know what will happen to you in other day..
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
8 May 09
If you've been around this person,and they're available,They'll probably know by this stage that you're interested...Don't try too hard,just suggest going for a coffee or something sociable,and if they agree,take it from there..good luck!
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
8 May 09
It's pretty straight-forward walk straight up ( don't be a pudding) smile to her, seek eye contact, make jokes, show interest in her. And then you can see whether she is interested in you either in a friendship or a relationship... At least that's how I do it and it works...