My Neighbour Use to Irritate me!!!

i tried not keeping it there but he comes to my room and asks for some shampoo and knowing i have one i feel very cheap to say no to him. i know he is using me but i don't know how to refuse people politely.

Let him borrow it one more time and tell him that you are sorry but not in a position to share. Tell him that it is hard for you to even provide these things for yourself and you really can't be providing them for others. Tell him that if you could you would. If he is any kind of neighbor worth being a friend with, he'll understand. If he doesn't understand, then he is not much of a friend or neighbor and you are better off without being friendly with him. From what you tell here, it sounds like a pretty one-sided friendship and it sounds as if he is just taking advantage of your kindness. I used to be like you and I've learned over time to speak up. I really don't mind helping anyone but when it reaches a point where it is bothering you, then it's not good. If you don't speak up, you'll bottle up your frustration and resentment toward him and and your anger will just grow. One day, you'll be in a bad mood and you'll just blow up at him and he won't understand what your problem is. After all, in his eyes, you've been fine with supplying him all along. He has no idea how much this is bothering you. It is better for both of you if you are honest and upfront.

i tried telling him but he use to make excuses and try to direct the talk to some other point. he is much stronger than me and i am afraid to stay with him. he will try to black mail me some how if i stopped giving things to him.

LOL! LOL! Ok, Here go my 2 cents worth, I thought she was a nuce person, I met her last summer, she lived across the street, our upstairs was empty, , We became friends, and I thought I knew her, Boy was she something, she lived across the Street, And haven't paid her rent for 3 months, little did I know. So she asked me who the Landlord was, I told her, I will ask him about the place for you. I did, and I wish I had'nt, told him about her. she was and still is a Drunk, she keeps us up all night sometimes, She like to argue with her Boyfriend, or whom ever he is. They have two Teenages, they are always brinigng there friends on the Porch making noise, but it's not that much, but i can't stand it when they do that. We got in a Fight, about a Month ago, she tried to burn up the Rental Car I had. she tried to set it on fire, she's Crazy, I have never in my life, seen a person like her, she is off her Rocker. She tried to Cut me with 2 Butcher Knives, you won't believe what kind of person she is, And I told my Landord about her, so when I strarted to complain about her, all he would say was , Well you told me to let her move in, all I can say now is I know I should of never told the Landlord about them, so basically it is my fault. they are getting put out because they can't seem to pay there rent. I am a very nice person, and don't bother anyone. I try to help people if I can, well I made the wrong desison that time telling the Landlord about her, We have never been able to get a long since she has moved in. Anyways we are Moving which I am Glad of that in a much nicer Neighboorhood. These people over here are Crazy. Neighood is noisey too. we are moving right now, we have to be out of our House May 21,st.She gets up like 2 or 3 o'clock washing Clothes singing in the Basement, when we are trying to sleep. Right now it is about 2:30am, and she is washing right now, She has a Drinking problem. She needs some help. I would never again in my life sugest that anyone move next to me, I learned my lesson well! Ok, I hope you can get away from your Neighbor. Have a nice day.

hi marcia, first of all i understand how much frustration you are undergoing due to your neighbor and its nice to hear that your neighbor is same as mine so let us do one thing. lets exchange the neighbors. send her to live at my place and i may come to your neighborhood. :-D we both will be happy then! is it okay? by the way you haven't told how she tortures you?

but i don't like these things personally. i love to share my lunch with friends. but this guy is not eating my lunch he is trying to eat me instead :-)

ha ha ha so funny! really telling smiley he is doing that, he is eating my soap. you tell me how can anyone use a brand new soap and it turns 1Dimensional in just 2 days. He doesn't buy anything. one day he found that my washing soap was missing and he washed his clothes with my Fiama Di willis soap which is very expansive. sometimes he wash hands with my dove soap. and i get so crazy when i find water mixed in that shampoo bottle. why Does he need to do so?

Then let him tell.. No matter what he does, he will still be at the losing end, because u wont be sharing anymore things with him ^_^

he is trying to blackmail me by saying that he will tell my parents about my girl friend if he stopped him from using my Deodrant and other stuff.

we share the room rent. so i can't kick him out. i am no blunt and i have never been rude to anybody before. he is taking advantage of my cute image. you know sometimes i really feel like boxing off his nose. but i haven't did it before so i lack some courage.