Never cry for anyone who will never cry for you

@ajithlal (14716)
India
May 12, 2009 11:56am CST
There are lots of nice people in the world. I think when someone breaks your heart, you should never spend your time for them or cry for them and make someone happy who loves you a lot. What do you think?
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6 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
12 May 09
Hi, ajithlal! You are right! If this person does not deserve my tears, I will not cry over them. Although, I have done so many of times. I have realized that they are not worth my tears. Mary J. Blige, "I'm Not Gonna Cry".
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
13 May 09
I also think we should not cry for someone who are not worth our tears.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Feb 13
There is saying give food according to the plate. It means we need to love and care only people who deserve it.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Apr 13
I think most probably it is good to spend time with people who love and care us.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 May 09
we cant say to people not to cry when they really felt like crying. crying is the best way specially for us girls to let our heart aches out. a way where we could just let it all out and ease that feeling of pain and aches. when thats finish then we could laugh it all out and be happy again. though other people cant really be that faster to eliminate the aches they are feeling. then let it be. whats important as their friends, we are always there to accompany, to hear them out and simply just be a friend who are always their to be with them.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Sep 12
I mean we should not simply cry for not being loved by people who does not love us. In other words do not spend time for people who does not care for us in our lives.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Nov 12
I think there are lots of people who love us and care for us in our lives and we should try to spend time with them.
@Darkwing (21583)
18 May 09
I agree... there's no point spending precious time grieving over something which was never yours. It's best to put that person behind you and to move on. Brightest Blessings.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
20 Jun 12
I also think that there is no point spending time for that was not ours and to move forward in our lives. Thanks friend.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
13 May 09
You are right. If someone hurts you and doesn't care at all that they hurt you, I think the best thing you can do is summon up all your self respect, and walk away with your head held high, not looking back at all or giving that person the satisfaction of you pain. However, that can sometimes be easier said than done, but we can all try.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 May 12
I also think that we should not feel sad for someone who does not love us and should try to spend time with people whom we like.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
14 Nov 12
I think we should try to spend time with people who love us and care for us.
@Bloggership (1104)
• Indonesia
16 May 09
Yes you right ajithlal... When someone breaks our heard or make us so deep down in sad, we should not let our sadness buried our life much deeper. There is still many things we can do to make us happy.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 Mar 12
Yes especially in love we should always look for other things and other people who can make us happy rather than people who can make us sad.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
12 May 09
i think when im in pain i really dont care if they crying for me to but to tell the truth i cry all the time of broken..so i cry even they dont cry,.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
16 Sep 10
I think you should try to enjoy the good things in the life and try to be happy yourself rather than being sad.