PUSHYcat, PUSHYcat where have you been???

Oh, that is Pushycan not pu55ycat. Well, I have not got any messages like that, may be I am not as popular as you. Besides, you are a lady so, someone might want to impress you with his discussion.I have not asked via a PM but I did start a discussion on getting zero responses and that was like "Please respond to my discussion!" kind of thing but I don't belive in givng PM to make people annoy!

I haven't received anything like that yet. Most messages i've received from someone unexpected were referral links asking me...no...BEGGING me to join them. My hands are full here in myLot so really can't join another site. Well just in case, i think i'll be glad to go to his/her discussion to respond. I mean, why not? That's what i've been looking for especially since lately, myLot is becoming a little boring. I really need that push. lol! Just my 2 cents, literally.

I've only ever had one PM asking me to answer discussions before and this was ages ago. Personally I don't consider myself to be a pushy person at all and I certainly wouldn't ever send messages to people asking them to respond to me! People need to understand that it takes time to develop relationships on mylot and to me, sending PM's like this smacks of desperation! If any new member wishes to get responses to their discussions, then be patient and make the effort with others and in time, others will make the effort in return. It's a simnple formila if you ask me!

Oh! It's been along time since we were both here together! I can actually answer while you are here too - I like that! I have never recieved a PM begging me to answer I have friends who know that if they have an older discussion with no responses they can send that and if I can relate to the topic then I will help them out but... asking for reponses on a new discussion, no that has never happened (and I hope it doesn't). I'm not pushy in any walk of life. I start a discussion and if it appeals to some then great and if not that's fine. We are all so different and can't expect everyone to be or even want to respond to everything we do. Does this pushy person respond to you or is it only a one-way thing on their part?

They're out there on every site. Can't just be sociable, have to be the center of attention. When I get PM's like that they find themselves unfriended. If I have time, I go through all discussions started by my friends and respond to the ones that I have something to say. But just because someone's on my friends list doesn't mean my interests are exactly the same, and many times I'm not interested in or knowledgeable about their discussion. Someone who's here to be sociable and earn a few pennies doing it understands that. Someone who pushes and begs isn't making me want to respond to their discussions. I don't like people who get in my face and invade my space.

I don't like pushy so, NOOOO, I wouldn't be pushy...not on purpose anyway. If I noticed you were absent for a lengthy period of time, I might send a PM asking if everything is OK. I ONLY want people responding to my discussions who want to respond. I NEVER want to feel that I had to force somebody to respond to my thoughts. If we were making millions here, I could see it....but for only pennies, NO I wouldn't try & force someone to respond!!! Actually, with me, it would backfire. Not only would I NOT respond to the discussion in question, but I would NEVER respond to another of their discussions!!!

I have not had that particular request. I have had lots of people ask me to join something or another as their referral. I have had at least one person who asks for Best Response please with every post ( and they are not even good responses.)I would not be inclined to do anything for a pushy person. I am not pushy. My friends answer my posts if they can relate to them, otherwise they just pass them by. I do the same.

Well, never happened to me then again I am not as active on mylot as I should be...But I think its despo to push someone...atleast someone in particular to reply to my discussion. You post, someone answers...that's it you don't make someone reply to your discussions

I can't imagine begging someone to answer my discussions. I guess if I got no responses, I'd just try to find something a little more interesting to write about.

I have not gone to the point of begging someone to reply to my discussions. I always leave it to anyone to respond or not. Some people may find our discussion interesting and some may not. Obviously each of us have different opinions and interest. So the decision is all up to the members. I have not also received any pm asking me to respond. I do however respond if I find the discussion interesting.

hi theresaaiza well to go on with that pushy cat I do'think that person might as well go to London to visit the Queen since'most honest mylotters are not going to be very thrilled to have have some mylotter begging you to answer their discussions. I feel that my discussion has to rise or fall on its own merits and I would be utterly embarrassed to go begging anyone to respond to my discussions. That is simply not the way to go. If you have a good discussion people will come, if you dont' people will not come. I mylot for many reasons,money is only one and its the frosting on my cake, as I like to mylot for friendship and sharing, for caring, for being part of the' mylot community,not just for money. I would never beg anyone' for anything,that is not my style at all.

i don't mind if they will give me a private message asking me to reply on his discussions. there is nothing wrong with it. but it does not i will actually reply if i am not interested on his discussions. i will check it out first if i don't get interested i will just ignore his message. there is no bad feeling if they keep insisting on it. i will keep ignoring their message. it is easy ignore it. it will not in any way disturb or make my activities here hard.

i can be pushy without me knowing but i don't beg with the word "please". i explain why it has to be my way. teachers have to be quite adept with this . however, begging to answer my mylot discussions? no way!

sometimes im annoyed when i see that my lot so called friends didn't even tried to answer my discussions but i won't beg to them to did it for me and for my earning. i can understand too maybe they just don't like my discussions and hate it. lol. no really i dont beg but i do tell them them though specially those friends that are i think become a true friend here in mylot to me.

I'm not sure how I'd handle that. I respond to discussions that I find interesting or funny. There's no way possible to respond to some because they are about things I have no knowledge of or no opinion about. If the person begging told me why, such as they desperately needed a few extra dollars a month to make ends meet, I'd do what I could and respond to their discussions IF I had something to say. But, if they had just requested me on their friends list and send that PM, I dunno... I might take that as being awfully pushy. It hasn't happened to me so I honestly couldn't say how I'd react.

Hey Theresa! I think that your title is on the money! It is very cute! And as for someone begging you to answer their discussions? I have never heard of that before? I don't quite know what to say! Are they that badly in need of the earnings or do they just want your input? It sure isn't exactly within the mylot guidelines! But, I guess the decision is up to you!

I think if I start getting this type of pressure I'll bail out. Who needs it, I certainly don't for the little bit of money I earn here. I would rather just send them the amount of money that they think they can make from my response.

I haven't had this happen to me yet, hopefully I never will. The only thing that I have received was a request for a referral as soon as I accepted someones friendship. This might be the same person because around this time is when I started see others talking about someone asking them for a referral and friendship.

i never come across such thing before, i only respond to those i feel like responding, no matter who, i feel like responding their discussion, i will respond

I'm not going to ask or beg any one to respond to my discussion, and I never experience any one begging for me to respond to their discussoin, but even though if some begs me to respond to their discussions I will respond only if their discussions interest me. If their discussions are not interested I just won't respond but I won't make what they did a big issue.