If some one is new on mylot how to make friend here suggest????????????

India
May 16, 2009 3:41am CST
hi..mylotting guys please what should i do to become friends of other..i send them friend request but they don't accpet friend request ,becoz they don't know me!!!! open hearted welcome ur precious suggestions...plzzzzzzzz suggest..
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@aikhong (661)
• Malaysia
16 May 09
Hi, first of all welcome to myLot. :) Actually i think it's quite common that people don't simply accept friends request from others who they think are strangers. I personally will just accept whenever there's people sending friend request. For me it's just simple and there's no hard knowing more people. It's just that most of the time those people are like sending it for fun. After accepting the resuest, there's nothing else and we didn't contact each other. I think this is of no difference than not accepting it also,haha.
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• India
16 May 09
okay..i'll try this from u...he he he he anyways thanx a million for your precious suggestion..
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
16 May 09
I would just suggest answering as many discussions as possible. Let people get to know you through your answers and then you should have no problem getting friends. Just be honest, kind and polite. Also, I do think it helps if you English is as proper as possible. People here seem to appreciate when you talk the time to write out nicely what you have to say.
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• India
16 May 09
thanx ..i guess hat would be the great way to make friends..u know i was keep sending friend requests but people don't accept..so, i thought i m good on orkut but here people don't accept my friend request.u know i m from last week on mylot and keep responding but have just 2 friends so, quite demoralizeing....any ways thanx a million for your percious advice....have gr8 day:-)
• Brisbane, Australia
16 May 09
Seems you are new here. Welcome to mylot. It is up to you whom you want to add and not. Here I have many friends in my profile. I found friendly while replying messages in threads. No matter adding people in list. Just enjoy mylotting.
• India
16 May 09
yupp, i am enjoying mylotting..but you know i am new..from last week i am here but only 2 mylot gals accept my friend request..i wanna have huge network here...so, that i can know othere people here...anyway thanx a million 4 ur precious advice...keep smiling:-) God Bless U!!!!
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
16 May 09
if you friendly to others. then others will as you as their friend. many persons also don't accept my friend request. but you should try your best friendly to answer others question.
• India
16 May 09
u know from last week, i am on mylot and keep sending reply to people, but people don't reply much to new person..i wanna have so,many friends here..so, keep on sending friend request but mylot guys/gals don't accept ma friend requst...u know i am good on orkut..but i don't know y bad here....:-):-)
@gcorp09 (940)
• Singapore
16 May 09
Well, I'm also quite new here in myLot. I had also joined the myLot community around 2 weeks back. I will say do not be rushed in trying to make a lot of friends. I will suggest that you explore the various discussions of your interest, and post your responses and comments to these discussion. Do contribute to those discussions where you are able to share your knowledge and experiences (not just 1 or 2 liners). As your posts increase, I'm sure that you will be able to make more friends along the road. Happy mylotting...
• India
16 May 09
thakx buddy..i guess ur suggestion is really good...no need to rush for friends, try to change urself so,that people follow u!!!!!! he he he he he anyways i'll do that..thankx a million for ur advice...:-) keep smiling:)
• India
16 May 09
dont worry , there are some mylotters who dont accept friend request easily , but there are many that can accept you as you were knew , but you want to remain active here , so that they can enjoy your posts. i had not suffered from any such problems when i was new , all of them accepted me as a friend , now i dont want to request anyone , becoz i am active , other mylotters send me the requests & i accept all of them , becoz i know the feeling if someone rejects your friend request. remain active , friend requests will start automatically , wish you to your success on mylot.
• India
17 May 09
ohhhh!!! so, nice of u dear....i will definatily act on ur advice... yup m enjoying mylotting...any way from ur name shreekrishna..ur seeming indain... great so, u dear belive in goddess krishana..anyways like the way u replyed me... thanx a million dear..
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• India
17 May 09
it's my pleasure that you liked it , you were one of the friendly person , i had seen on mylot.com
@riyasam (16556)
• India
16 May 09
i think you have to answer to many discussions,just be yourself and be friendly,then many peole(mylotters are bound to notice you and they will readily accept your freind request,due to many negative experiences,mylotters are wary of accepting friend requests from strangers