Understanding Family Members

Sometimes you just wonder what has gotten into people. That does not mean that you don't love your family. Alot of times family separates because they don't like the life the other family member has chosen.

Sukumar- Currently I'm dealing with a very difficult family issue involving my mother and brother. I cannot simply push the actions to the side and pretend that they do not exist, for this involves the breaking of the law, and morals of our country. So, for now, their ties are not tied, not bonded, and more than likely will not exist again in this life time. Though it is sad to admit that, it is the truth. I have chosen to focus on my immeadiate family of husband and children at this point in time. Perhaps the relationship with my mother will repair itself, but if it does not that is not for me to decide. Namaste-Anora

Life is very short and we should try to make it beautiful as much as we can. Trying to make the bonds more stronger and longer lasting, is not a big effort if you spend some time with your family and give each member of the family a minute of love and affection and some nice words to make their day !!!

Hi sukumar, I agree with you,family is very important and while there is sometimes conflict,it should be resolved quickly. Blessings.

it is wonderful to be close to your family & i envy people who are. there has always been friction in my family. it's very sad when their is friction among family memebers. it affects everyone when there is.

oh my god there should be good understanding among the family without any hasselsa nd problems mydear they are uyour best friends

I know that alot of familes are close but some of them are very distant also in this fast paced world. I think the internet helps to keep people in touch though.

I come from a large family and whilst in the past, there have been arguments and disagreements, we have always ended up supporting each other in the love that exists between us. We may not always say it, but each of us knows that the other is there for us. - Derek

Hello my dear sukumar794 Ji, You are absolutely right. If relations are bonded, understanding will ease out. Family will become exampalry. May god bless you and have a great time.