Can you say I LOVE YOU easily?

@n30wing (4768)
Philippines
May 19, 2009 10:06am CST
Some people can't say it back because he/she thinks love is a word that really comes out when they are absolutely sure about their feelings.Well same thing with me I rather be honest with what I feel. And once I say I LOVE YOU, it really come from my heart, and I really mean it. How about you guys? Have a nice day to all of you!
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31 responses
@remurt (99)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Saying I love you is really hard to say, for me its around 2 year plus that i always just looking for the right time to say it to her. saying I love to a person whom i love is my weakness..the reason, for me is that i don't like to hurt her when time comes that it isn't love that i found to her but other maybe, because outside that i saw to her.. it's really hard to made mistakes it causes a lot of trouble.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi remurt, saying I love you can mean a lot when you really feel it, and honest about your feelings to her/him. But saying I love you and it's not real I better not cause I don't want her to expect. Love is not thay easy it takes you sometimes to know how it feels. It's full of meanings, emotions and feelings to express it to someone really precious to you. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@remurt (99)
• Philippines
23 May 09
but really goo to show it than saying i love you to a person you like. when you say i that you love that person its because you have felt something very special and only comes. saying i love you to the person i like and i love is very hard like my parents.I i can only count when did i say those words to them it's and i think it a selfish attitude.
@glesil_00 (1143)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
It is not easy for me to say i love to a significant other, and before i say it, i am sure that i really feel the word i am saying. It is a serious word for me that mean so much to me and it really comes from my heart like you too.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Hi glesil_00, I definitely agree with what you said. It's not easy to say this word, when it doesn't really comes from your heart. I can I like you when your just friend nothing more nothing less. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• China
22 May 09
I can say I Love You to my husband ,and i like to hear I Love You from my husband too.i think we should express our real feeling rather than putting it into our deep heart.if you don't speak out ,nobaby knows.it will make your heart smile when you heard he/she said I LOVE YOU to you.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi agnes, I say I love you only if I really love the person. Sometimes I do wonder how people could say I love you without feelings at all. But when I say I love you it really comes to my heart. I usually start the word I love you to my fiancee. She was telling me it's like she feels floating in the air. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@adoremay (2069)
• Philippines
20 May 09
If I say it I mean it. I rarely say it, but when I do, it means its true.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi adoremay, likewise! When I really love the person I say I love you. I am usually honest with what I feel and I also show it. Have a nice day to you!
@vickycity (155)
• China
20 May 09
yeah! I agree with you! It must be come from heart when you want to say I love you.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi vickycity, It's just comes out to me the words when I really feel that I love that girl. And it takes me time! I just don't want to lie about what I feel and don't pretend. Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
20 May 09
Love  - should not be taken for granted
I do make time and say "I Love You to my Family members and Female Friends. and most specially to my very sweet but quiet and naughty hubby. it get's really bored when you keep saying it almost often. it loosen's the essence and the feeling of true Love. am a girl and I love saying those feelings.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Hi Mikaels_taz25, well it does get monotonous when you say I love you a thousand times my friend, so I usually say I miss you to her. But usually our partner likes to hear this word often. As long it comes from your heart. Have a nice day to you!
• India
20 May 09
hmm ...if i luk in my past..there are no such words used.. but as i grown up and girls factor as well..so i initially become frank and n den time spend wid dem.. i was nervous only on first time my close one..coz i want to know d reaction how my frnd wud take it as my feelings are pure n i sed to say "i love u" to my female frndz..it just love for wat dey are..its not dat m attracting towards her..so i usualy say"i love u" but only wen my feeling aroused
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi nirmalsaurabh, anyway I could say I like you if I don't still feel love at all. I never lie with what I feel. Cause I don't want the girl to expect or misunderstood me at the end. I just don't complicate things, and don't wanna hurt anyone. It comes out to me when I really feel it, and that person is precious to me, and really love. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@asherem2 (257)
• Thailand
20 May 09
Yes i can.. and when i say it i mean it! Look my son, saying I love you is more than a feeling - you can say it in so many different ways. try thinking of one...then saying it is not so bad or hard at all.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi asherem2, For me saying I love you comes out when I really mean it and feel it. It really takes me time sometimes. Cause I just don't want to hurt or joke about it. If it's my parents or relatives it comes out voluntarily. Have a nice day to you!
• Malaysia
20 May 09
i cant say it out easily i had been falling in love to someone else long time already, but until now, i not even telling him what the special feeling i have to him. sometimes, i wonder how people can just easily say it out
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi xprincessx, likewise I can't say it easily unless I am sure about my feelings. Some people can easily say it, even it's not really love for them what they feel. Same here I am wondering how come they can say it, and hurt a person who loves them. I find it mean! Anyway have a nice day to you!
• United States
20 May 09
I'm the same way I think we should all be honest especial when it comes to peoples feelings. I have told lies in my life but little ones and I feel horrible because I know they are lies. But to say I LOVE YOU and not feel it I think it's wrong because not only are you lying to that person but to yourself. So if you have feelings for someone but not LOVE tell that person I LIKE YOU, YOUR SPECIAL or something similar. LOVE DON'T LIE
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi desteny114, you said that right. I don't say I love you when I don't still love at all, I could say I like you, but when it comes out to my mouth the word, I really mean it. I don't lie with my feelings. I usually tell the truth. It's not only expressing it but even saying it. Have a nice day to you!
@stahir45 (103)
• Pakistan
20 May 09
Hi n30wing! "I love you" is not a thing that has been said and done. It is a sort of feeling that has to be demonstrated overtime and the person to whom this feeling is addressed should also know that the words spoken and feelings demonstrated carry their weight both in letter and spirit. Frequent use of the words "I love you" may decrease its value and important and may give a feeling to those you are addressing that it is a sort of hypocrisy. In our culture these words are usually not spoken even between a husband and a wife for years but these are demonstrasted. For children however and for your elders you may use this word and it will have its meaning in the real sense.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi stahir45, well in my country, when we really feel love it's not only we do express it by our emotions it's full of feelings. Well we usually say this words with people who we love and close to us like our parents, sisters, brothers, and even relatives. Some people can tell this even with out any feelings and I am wondering. But for me with my fiancee definitely yes cause I really truly love her very much. Have a nice day to you!
@babyorchid (1737)
• China
20 May 09
i am not a guy,but a girl.hehe i dont think i can said these three words easily. bcz "i love you", once u speak out, the resposibliy and care of love starts..
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi babyorchid, same with me I will only say I love you when I really feel something to the girl. But when it comes out to me, I really mean it, and wont get tired telling her this words. Even I will shout it out to the whole world how much I love her. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• United States
20 May 09
I think when you feel it you are saying it because this feeling comes from heart not like other feeling..and this feeling comes without notification that I will loce this one or I will hate this one..
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi the_boss515, when you say this word it comes from your heart, not from the mouth only. Usually for me it takes me slow and to think first a thousand time, if I really can be sure about it. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• China
20 May 09
to me,if i real love he,i think i cant say that,because i will feel it's so shame to say it.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi fly1987119, when you love someone it comes from the heart, it's not shameful cause you really mean it. I could say I like you easily, but love it takes me slow. I have to be sure first if I really am in love. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@eweible (15)
• United States
20 May 09
I say i love you all the time to almost everything i know. i like to spread love. i think its the best thing you can do for someone. the only time i ever had a hard time about saying it was with guys i was dating, because it would freak them out. i really do love everyone, in every sense of the word.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi eweible,your response made me laugh! Well I don't say I love you to my male friends either. Well you could be nice ,and treating everyone nice, but saying I love you easily is I am wondering. I could only tell I love you to people who I am close with like my parents or relatives. But with a girl hmmmm it takes me slow, I rather make sure first with what I feel. Have a nice day to you!
@cainam (493)
• Philippines
20 May 09
i can't fake what i feel and it is hard to say that i love someone when i don't mean it..
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Hi cainam, that is harsh, I can't do that, that is kind a unfair. I just am not a heart breaker. I also believe in KARMA. Saying I love you for me is it comes from the heart! Have a nice day to you cainam!
• China
20 May 09
If i really love a girl ,sure i will say i love you to her,it doesn't matter she love me the same or not.Just let her know,maybe she loves you too.If you love her ,and she doen't even know it ,that would be a great pity.Maybe she is not so into you in the beginning,after she have heard the words you said to her ,she found that you are just the one she loves.lol.it is no harm to say i love you to anyone you care,so ,just express our feelings honestly,than we would be very happy,i think.Good luck to you ,my friend.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Hi my friend fishkingback, I agreed with what you said, but sometimes your scared to, especially when you just love her and your love is not returned to you or to be reciprocated by her. That is ouch dude really hurts. But nothing wrong to tell her, and express your feelings, as long as she knows you meant what you said and your not joking. It really come out, but at the right time, and right moment. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
20 May 09
I only say I love you to the person I love. I dont give it out easily to anyone even to my friends. The same as saying I miss u. Its not easy for me to say it if its not true.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Hi angeelbelle578, same here, I don't say I love you to my friends, or even say I miss you. It's only my Mom and my fiancee who I always say these words. Usually I just say this word when it really comes from my heart. Have nice day to you!
@ladybug565 (2217)
• United States
20 May 09
I only say I love you if I mean it. I tell my kids everytime I talk to them that I love them. My mother....I just started saying it to my boyfriend but it was hard the first time. (even though I really felt it)
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi lady bug565, same here I only say this words if I really mean it. Love for me is not a game two people play. I really made sure the right time. With my parents yes I usually say it and express it. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• United States
20 May 09
Not really. I mean its hard for me to put that out since its so over used kinda like saying everyone is your friend when truly you can only have a few real people who are really friends and most arent. So I am careful if I say it to mean it. I dont want to be abused by nonlove either. Had a guy friend say it to me many times and I thought he was the one turned out he didnt like me past friendship and got upset I thought I might of him and it recked us and he started saying it! I never felt comfortable saying back and rarely did!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Hi monkeywriter, I was wondering how some people can say this words, and not feeling this words. That is why their are a lot of people who expect, then in the end they get hurt. I only say this words when I do really feel it, and honest with what I really feel. It takes me time, and really think of it first. Anyway have a nice day to you!