Missing Friends... I'm Worried For A Friend Here!

@Darkwing (21586)
May 19, 2009 7:38pm CST
I'm putting this call out because I'm worried about one of our friends here... BellasmamaTiff hasn't logged on for three days and I'm very concerned about her, as her last discussion indicated three months of severe headaches which have spread to her neck, shoulders, lower back, legs and feet. She hasn't acknowledged any of her responses, nor logged in since she posted the discussion. I am REALLY concerned about her. Please tell me... has anybody heard from Tiff in the past three days, by some other means? Does anybody know how she is, or whether she got to see a specialist about her problem? I don't like this at all... I'm extremely upset and worried. Can anybody help?
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7 responses
• United States
20 May 09
She maybe in the hospital what she had di not sound good,and has no pc for her,i am petty sure si seeking medical help.I am sure we will hear something from her or someone else soon.
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@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
I agree... I didn't like the sound of what she was relating to us. I didn't come out and say what I thought it might be for the sake of not upsetting her too much, but I'm really worried. I hope she is in the hospital because I feel that's where she needs to be, under a specialist's care. I just wondered if anybody knew her well enough offline to be in touch with her or her family, who could shed some light on the current state of her health. I do so loathe it when friends go missing in these sort of circumstances. It was driving her crazy, and I'm not at all confident that all is well. Thank you for lending your support. I hope you're right, but I guess all that remains is to wait and see if anybody knows anything. Brightest Blessings.
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• United States
20 May 09
I agree with you i did not say what i thought.
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@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
How can we? It would only stress her out and make matters worse, I feel.
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@marcyyyy (519)
• United States
20 May 09
That is so kind of you to be so concerned about a friend here on this site...I also wish I had answers for you, but I don't. It does sound like she's probably in a hospital...I hope she is, and I hope she's getting better there. I can only pray for her. LOL and take care...
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@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
Thank you so much, Marcyyyy for your prayers. We all look out for each other on this site, and I've made a fair few friends here. She worried me with her last discussion which she posted three days ago, and hasn't acknowledged any responses. In fact, she hasn't logged into Mylot at all in the past three days. I so hope you're right that she's in the hospital, because we'll know she's in the best hands then, and hopefully, recovering from her pain and loss of sleep. I'm sending my energies too, and hope we can reach her, in order that she might recover from all this. Brightest Blessings and thank you for your concern.
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@Lakota12 (42678)
• United States
20 May 09
am so sorry but I dont know her. I really do hope she is ok and will let you know soon hugs
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@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
No worries, my friend. Thank you for looking in anyway. It's nice to know that so many friends are here in one's time of need, even if they can't offer an explanation. I was hoping that somebody might be in touch with her personally, and know what the situation is because I really am quite concerned after her last discussion. I'm going to pop in to her profile again shortly to see if she's logged in over the past twenty four hours. Thank you for your concern my dear friend, and Brightest Blessings. Stay well, and have a great day! xx
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@Lakota12 (42678)
• United States
20 May 09
your most welcome and hope you find something out today hugs
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@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
I have checked and she hasn't logged in yet.
• United States
20 May 09
I wish I could, I hope its not serious. I guess the best thing to do is send her an e-mail and hope she gets back with you.
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@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
So do I, but I'm not at all sure! I don't have her e-mail address which is why I put out this discussion. I was hoping somebody might be in touch with her outside the internet. Thank you for your suggestion though. I appreciate your help. Brightest Blessings.
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
20 May 09
Hi Sweet Friend, I tried to do some research before I responded to you you but had no luck. This is the very reason that we need a help line or someway that a close friend or family member can alert us as to what is happening. We meet each other and form a bond and then suddenly they are MIA. We need some sort of information center. I certainly hope that Bella is getting the treatment she's been looking for. If you hear anything, please let us know. I don't even know her but after reading about her difficulties trying to find answers to her medical problems, I really feel for her. Hugsss leenie
@Darkwing (21586)
21 May 09
I agree with you, my friend. It's so scary when you read a discussion like this and then the person goes missing for ages. We imagine all sorts of things, and if there was some central helpline, it would be of great benefit to us. The only problem there is that several might opt out of using the facility and not enter their details or enter false ones, as happens so often on these sites. I suppose you can't blame people from wanting to keep their personal identity secure. I had hoped, however, that Tiff might have a close friend or family member on here who would know what the situation is. As you say, her situation wasn't good, and she may be in the hospital, which I sincerely hope is the case, but it's the "not knowing". My mind would be at rest if we just knew she was being cared for in the hospital. I'll certainly come back and let you know if I hear anything, and in the meantime, I'm sending energies her way, and praying that somebody, somewhere, will see this discussion and come give us some information as to whether our friend is ok. Brightest Blessings, and thank you so much for caring enough to research for me. Have a great day, my friend!
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@Darkwing (21586)
21 May 09
UPDATE... Good News, I think... 1300 hrs Thursday, 21st May - GMT (London, England) I just checked Tiff's profile out and she logged on ten hours ago. I've sent her a PM, and now, I'm going to check whether she came back to that discussion and acknowledged her responses. Will keep you all up to date. 1310 hrs Thursday, 21st May - GMT (London, England I checked back. No activity, but the good thing is, she managed to log on to Mylot ten hours ago, or somebody did. I'll hang on and see if I get a response to my PM. I'm not happy still... I think maybe she was checking advice given to her in her discussion, but at least she logged on to Mylot, which is one small indication that she's reasonably ok, but I fear she may still be suffering. Will keep you all up to date. Leenie... I used your space to write this as you're the most recent response, and hopefully, others will read through to you. Thank you for caring. xx
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
21 May 09
Sweetie, You can use my space anytime. If you hear more, then put it here and hopefully others will check in here. Her logging in helps a little, but a little message would really help. Thanks Dark, you're a sweetie and good friend. Hugsssssss leenie
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@marciascott (25550)
• United States
15 Jun 09
Did you hear from your friend yet? Darkwing, I am just worried because your worried. Please let me know if you hear of anything about yor friend. If she did log it that means they are ok.
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@Darkwing (21586)
15 Jun 09
I didn't hear personally my friend, but she's logged on a few times since then and started discussions, so thankfully, she's ok.
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@marciascott (25550)
• United States
15 Jun 09
Ok, hw is your day going/ I hope good, I am waiting on my car to be fxed.
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@Darkwing (21586)
26 Jun 09
I guess your car's probably fixed by now... I certainly hope so my friend. I'm just catching up from my computer downtime and problems... lol.
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@GardenGerty (126922)
• United States
20 May 09
I responded to that discussion, but have not heard back. I hope someone can answer your concern.
@Darkwing (21586)
20 May 09
Yes, it was a bit of a scare! I was behind with my discussions because I'd been busy of late, but just tonight, I caught up and happened upon her discussion. I didn't like the sound of what she's been enduring at all, but I chose not to air my real views. Then, for some reason, perhaps because I noticed she hadn't gone back into the discussion, I went to her profile to see if she'd logged on to read her responses, only to find that she's not been in for three days. That concerns me greatly. Even if she'd gone to the hospital, I feel she might have posted a quick note, but then again, when you have headaches like she was having, the glare of the screen probably wouldn't have helped in the slightest. I hoped somebody might be in touch with her personally, and able to let us know what the current situation is. I'm really concerned about Tiff. Brightest Blessings, my friend, and thank you for your concern.
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