Cold And Heartless!
By Stormy
@Little_Stormy (6883)
United States
May 29, 2009 5:30pm CST
A few days ago a loved member of mylot passed away.. her nickname was Bella of Chaos.. Although I didn't get the chance to be close friends with this woman.. I am told she was an awesome and caring woman. she left behind 5 small children (she was only in her early 30's) It's a very sad situation...
And if that wasn't bad enough, a mylot troll who has something against a fellow mylotter, thought it would be a great thing to take the Identity of this woman who passed away only days ago! and TRY to get in with the friends of the mylotter that they carry a grudge for... they took their crusade over to face book and made an account.. their name is Bella Missy Bedford.. http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000017563664&ref=nf and this person tells everyone that they are a part of Bella's family BUT THEY ARE NOT! after Bella's REAL friends contacted the family the family of Bella say that they do not know this person NOR did they authorize anyone to take on the mission of contacting Bella's friends.
this is a heartless, low life troll!
If you have a face book account and you are contacted by this person.. do NOT add them as a friend.. this is NOT Bella NOR her family!
I never thought anyone could be so heartless as this..
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16 responses
@kelpie (190)
• United States
29 May 09
Though I am new here, there is one thing I have to say:
There will always be people who do that. It's not only a fact of the internet, but of life as well. It's very common on the internet to see the side of people that they do not show in person.
I do not know who Bella is, but I think it's horrible that someone would toy with something like that. However, I have seen a lot of it on the internet, and that's why I'm not as upset as I would be otherwise.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
29 May 09
I am well aware of how some people can be.. this is mainly a warning to friends who might add this fake to their friend's lists thinking it is Bella or a family member of hers.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
29 May 09
many of Bella's friends still haven't found out that she has passed away (it was rather sudden and only happened a few days ago).. so they wouldn't have otherwise known.
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
30 May 09
kelpie,
Maybe it's your youth that keeps you from feeling the impact of something like this atrocious situation. When you can't understand the pain of a tragic loss and then have someone barge into the grieving family and friends lives before the shock even has time to wear off and cause even more pain, I feel sad for you. I'm sorry, it's the pain of the loss of a friend talking.
leenie
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
30 May 09
Hi Stormy,
I have been contacted by this person. I went over last night to Facebook to send them a message to back off and that I was going to report them. Today I received an email claiming that they were family just trying to contact friends and that they were sorry if they offended anyone. I knew they were the imposters. I've read all the posts and know their MO. I am just blown away at the heartlessness. Thanks for the info so I can report them.
leenie
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
hopefully face block will block them soon.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
oooppps! I can't talk on the phone and type at the same time! lol!
hopefully FACE BOOK will block them soon!
sorry for the incoherent msg above! lol!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 May 09
Hi Sweetie
I can not believe either that someone can be so cold hearted and evil or should I say I did not know People with no heart survived, I am disgusted that someone can do this, the hurt not just to us our Friends but her Family, more so her Children, I know they are only young but they could over hear the Adults talking, I just can not understand how the mind of these Trolls work, how People can be like that, ok maybe someone does not like someone, but to steep that low and do this sort of thing is sick, very sick more then sick
So Troll if you are out there and reading this
Try finding a life in the meantime let the Family and Friends remember our Sweet Friend
I know that they will get payback one Day
Hugs to you Little_Stormy
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
awww Gabs! I have missed seeing you around! hope you are doing well these days :)
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
30 May 09
This is beyond disgusting. 
What could possibly be gained from acting in this way and taking on the identity of someone like this??? I unfortunately never took the opportunity to get to know Bella, but based on all of the support and comments to date about her, I sure wish I had of made more of an effort to get to know her. Anyone who conducts themselves in the way this identity thief has, is nothing more than pond scum. Maybe even THAT is too nice a word to describe them as well. Rest in peace Bella.
What could possibly be gained from acting in this way and taking on the identity of someone like this??? I unfortunately never took the opportunity to get to know Bella, but based on all of the support and comments to date about her, I sure wish I had of made more of an effort to get to know her. Anyone who conducts themselves in the way this identity thief has, is nothing more than pond scum. Maybe even THAT is too nice a word to describe them as well. Rest in peace Bella.2 people like this
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
Can you imagine how hurtful this is to her family?
it's so heartbreaking!
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
30 May 09
WTF!??
How could someone be so heartless? HOW?
This is just so totally unacceptable, unforgiveable.
What could they possibly be getting out of it?
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
makes ya wish you could reach through this screen.... doesn't it????
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
30 May 09
Definitely.
Don't think I am all prim and proper like, either, you 2. I can cuss like a truck driver. Like a biker. Hell, I have been both, lol. Got my bike license when I was 17, still have it. And I spent one whole summer driving dump truck, too.
In fact, my obscenities, often disturb sparks, cause she is kinda prim and proper. But I'm rubbing off on her. lol. Can ya tell?
I just refrain from swearing on here, cause I don't want my responses deleted. But if you were talking to me in person, whooaa, watch out. You would know then.
Just so ya know. I just love that tape from George Carlin or was it John....., shyte, the name eludes me. But I think you know who I mean. The one about how versatile the 'f' word is. Hilarious! I love it!
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
30 May 09
And they have just had sparks discussion about the troll deleted now, too.
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@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
29 May 09
why dont I ever get notifications of your discussions? GRRRR
this is by far the sickest thing I have ever witnessed
how cold and heartless can someone be?
that is totally messed up on so many levels
whoever it is has some serious psychological problems
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@craftcatcher (3699)
• United States
29 May 09
I don't get notifications either though I've made sure all my notifications are turned on. I have also asked myLot to check into this 3 times and never got a single answer back. It's been over a year now.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
29 May 09
I don't get notifications and I can't even change ANYTHING in my preferences.. I have asked about it 8 times now.. still nothing.
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
30 May 09
That is the most insensitive thing any one could do. Is there any way to contact the admin at Facebook and have this troll tracked and prosecuted for Identity Theft? What in the world would this troll hope to gain by doing such an act? Unbelieveable. Bella's family must be mortified.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
I have reported the scum! and I also provided information such as IP and other info of the person.. let's see what happens!
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
30 May 09
I didn't get the chance to get to know her when she was around. As for the lowly person or faker that did this, it is really shameful on him or her. What could be a better reason than to do that. I thought bad people only exist outside the net, but no. There are people like that too. Shame on the copycat, really.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 May 09
My discussion about this has been deleted, so I'm glad to see yours. And of course, being me, I've posted just now my feelings about the deletion!
Thanks for this Stormy.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
I just noticed your discussion missing... going to hunt down the new one!
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@madasp (563)
• United States
30 May 09
I've been off for a few days so I'm still going through the posts to catch up with this situation.
This is absolutly unbelievable. How could anyone possibly be so heartless and cold?
Is this person someone from here or from some other site and they found their way here after the fact? I apologize if you've already explained this, like I said I'm still trying to get caught up.
I didn't know bella well, just through reading her discussions, but my thoughts are with her family and friends right now. She was so young, I'll be praying for her kids.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
The person is from here.. they went to face book to harass people from there.
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
I believe they would have to be beyond hope! and the person that I'm thinking is doing this.. preaches that they are a part of a religion of peace and love...
isn't this a shining example of that???!
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
30 May 09
This is to the low life, heartless troll.
I started a discussion about an incident which left people’s morality with a lot to be desired and it I asked, "Have you seen anything lower than this?" Well now I have. I am guttered at the cruelty and insensitivity of certain individuals. I don’t know who you are but this much I know, you are scum!
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@thezone (9394)
• Ireland
29 May 09
Hi Stormy,
This was a very sad and tragic thing with the passing of this fellow mylotter. I did not know her but it is always sad when someone passes away so young and leaving behind a young family. I am sure everyone's thoughts are with her and her family right now.
All I will say that is a new low for someone to create an account like that, it is even a new low for the trolls. Some people just have no respect for anyone or anything.
I would agree that this is one of the most heartless things I have heard in the a while. I am a great believer in "what comes around goes around" and I am sure this troll with get what they deserve.
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@AngryKittyMSV (4317)
• United States
30 May 09
This brings depravity to a whole new level. Heartless scumbag.
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
30 May 09
YOU ROCK, ZU!
Ahhhh, to have high speed.......
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@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
30 May 09
thanks
and high speed isnt always that great
it has its issues too LOL
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@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
30 May 09
yeah its a whole new level of low
I just sent PMs to all the imposters friends warning them about their new "friend"
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@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
30 May 09
not all of em...... some of em just slightly suck then they are those who are HARD CORE SUCKERS!
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@carolscash (9492)
• United States
30 May 09
Thanks for the information and I will be sure that no one like this contacts me. I don't believe that I knew Bella,but it sounds as though she was very nice. Also, I am so sorry to hear that you have lost a dear friend and someone so young and with such a great future.I feel sorry for her kids and husband as this is a void that will never be replaced. Was she ill or was it an accident?
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
3 Jun 09
I was very, very sad to hear this news, LS ... and it was made far sadder by the fact someone has been so cruel and calculating. It beats me how people like this can sleep at night - and I hope the problem has been sorted out by now and the person's false representations removed. I didn't know Bella, but I extend my sympathy and love to all her friends and family.
