Who's more mature in your relationship with your partner?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
May 31, 2009 8:18am CST
Who's more mature? I could certainly say that he's more mature than me most of the times, though I could not say ALL of the time because there are instances when he acts like a child per se. What makes me love him more is his ability to handle things more maturely most of the time than I do. Who's more mature in your relationship?
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@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
im still 21 years old my husband is 30..i admit that im not very mature in my age..i want to feel pampered by my husband.in our relationship we still dont have a baby..as for now im his baby...in a relationship both must not be the same..theirs positive and negative..if both are positive it will explode!lol,meanning both will think their right,both must understand give and take is a must in a relationship. im very happy in my married life and im thankful having him!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
Oh my gosh. I must admit I'm shocked, but not as shocked as learning about teen pregnancy. But hey, there's a benefit after all of having a husband who's older than you, right? hehee..
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
hi friend why shock?yap theirs a lot of benifits...i like being pampered..though im not mature,atleast i act mature...im not childish either...their still lots of things to experience and im still going there..ive experience pregnancy but it was a failure...the next time ill experience pregnancy i must be prepared and learn to deal with my life as a more matured person.have a nice day!
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
31 May 09
i can say that he's more mature than i am, he's 7 years older than i am and his field of work really requires a matured mind. but i can say that after 5 years of being with him i also matured with him. and now, we handle our situations smoothly and ok and in a mature way, but it doesn't mean that our relationship is boring...we still give ourselves a chance to be like a child sometimes, and most of the times he babies me especially now that we don't have a baby yet. and we enjoy the company of each other! :-) have a nice day! :-)
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hmm.. What type of work requires someone to be mature? I was guessing all types of job requires us to be mature at some point. :)
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
hello again... well i'll PM you on what's my husband's field of work or rather i say duty...:-)
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
31 May 09
i can say we are both mature. my wife is 38 and i am 36 so we have to be both mature. har har har. it will not look good on us if we are acting like kids. in some situations there are times that i am matured for she let me handle some things, and there are times that she handles some things so i can say that we are both matured to hanlde things. but when we are in our loving mode its cute to act childish at times.
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• India
31 May 09
In technical terms my boy friend is gonna be 30 years old this July...But his maturity levels surpass even an average 40 year old person.....I have actually learnt a lot from him on staying calm, handling situations in the last few years of our relationship....He is far more intelligent in things that I am not...and really stupid in things that am quite smart about....In a way our maturity levels are growing by the day...in varying angles...But yes he is the responsible and mature guy as far as our relationship is concerned...
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
31 May 09
My husband and I both act like children every once in while, and hopefully we will both get more mature in the future If I have to write my honest opinion I think that I am less immature than my husband. He is older than me, but he is very childish sometimes and we often joke about it. He usually says that he hopes to become more mature when he gets older. It is always easier to judge his behaviour than to look objectively at my own behaviour, so maybe he thinks the same way about me.
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@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
31 May 09
My hubby and I got married in our very young age so I can say that both of us are not yet mature. Both of us act in a childish manner that's why we're very compatible.
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• Philippines
31 May 09
I can say that still i am not a mature person nor him. With our quarrels and some activities we had. I look forward to that day, for now im getting tired of our childlike attitude.
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
well, i couldn't conclude about his one. because though we are in a right age of whatever this life has to offer each one of us. but still we are so far more different from each other. but as long as we could cope up with our daily problems in our relationship and still holding on and keeping up the heat. then maturity ain't an issue about all of this. thanks friend jhelai
7 Jun 09
I am the younger one but am actually more mature than him. I am the one to understand the money issues and debt, encourage him to learn to drive and to get a job. Sometimes he can act more mature than me but most of the time I would say I am the more mature one when it comes to life decisions and things that matter. I do have an inner child to me though!