6 REASONS not to SAVE for kid's college!!!!

India
June 4, 2009 12:24pm CST
No, it won't make you bad parents. It's fiscally irresponsible to spend your retirement money on your children's education. Conventional wisdom tells us college is very, very expensive, and we'd better start saving if we want our kids to get an education and a good job. A year of undergraduate study at a private college can easily top $30,000, and even in-state public universities cost more than $12,000 per year. Few people can fork over that kind of money without planning ahead. But are we really in deep trouble if we don't have a college fund set up for our 5-year-old? How should we balance saving for college with other financial goals? Sometimes, putting money into education funds can be a mistake -- or at least not the best use of your money. Here's why:--- #You can't get a loan for retirement Other financial goals come first. It's heresy to some, but it's true: Your retirement plans are more important than your children's college funds. Your kids can get through college somehow, and you will probably find a way to help them, but it's more important to plan for your retirement. Remember, your kids can get student loans, but there's no such thing as a retirement loan. If you have to choose between putting money in the kids' college funds and buying a house, buy the house. You may be able to pay tuition with a home-equity loan when the time comes. #Education funds are not always the best way Typical education savings plans may have drawbacks, such as: * Limited investment options. Many education funds pay only interest; others let you invest in the stock market. You can't use the typical education fund to invest directly in real estate or start a small business, for example. Compare the rate of return you expect with what you could receive in alternate investments. * Difficulty predicting future tax benefits. Tax rules change, and it's hard to predict future income levels. Sometimes by the time kids reach college age, their parents' income level is too high for certain tax advantages they'd been counting on. * Financial aid considerations. Students are expected to contribute a higher percentage of their savings to their college education than their parents, so placing money in your child's name may hurt their chances of getting financial aid. You may be better off keeping the money in your name. #Students should invest in their own education Every year a number of freshmen trek off to college on their parents' hard-saved money, only to spend more time the first few semesters partying than studying. Would they crack the books more if they were paying the bill? Even the most responsible kids seem to do better in college when they help pay for it. Helping your kids through college is wonderful and demonstrates that you value their education. Give enough to help, though, not enough to lessen their investment in the outcome. #Education doesn't have to cost as much as we're told One college can easily cost twice as much as another, but is it worth it? Not necessarily, according to Kiplinger's annual college values report. The best education is not always the most expensive. Students can start at a community college at relatively low cost. In California, for example, the annual cost for tuition, books and supplies at a community college is slightly more than $2,000. After two years, students can transfer to a four-year college and graduate with the same degree as students who started there. Recent trends, such as taking courses online or getting college credit before graduating from high school, can also help cut the total cost of a degree. #You may find it easier to pay for college when the time comes It's great if you can start saving for your kids' college tuition 10 or 15 years before they need it. But the early years of raising children can be the most financially challenging. Parents' careers are not as far along, and one parent may stay home full or part time. You may be just getting into a home or starting to invest. There's a high probability the family will have more disposable income when the kids are older, especially if both parents plan to work full time then. # College is not the only route to success One of the biggest reasons not to put all of your investing efforts into your children's education funds is that your kids may choose not to go to college. Will it be OK with you if they decide to pursue a career that doesn't involve college, or if they drop out to start a business? Don't put so much emphasis on saving for college that you unintentionally create a conflict if your kids choose to do something else. A child who reaches age 18 without a college fund can get an education. Here are two examples: * Steve was the third of five children, and although his parents encouraged their kids to get an education, they couldn't afford to help pay for it. After Steve graduated from high school, he spent a year working in a furniture factory. If he hadn't wanted to go to college before, a year of mind-numbing labor would have persuaded him to sign up. He saved his money and then went to community college for two years while working part time. He transferred to a state university and graduated with a business degree. * Jan started college with her savings and some help from her parents. Halfway through, she got married and had her first child. She has never returned to school -- not because she can't, but because she is too busy running her own business. She educated herself about running a business and continues to keep up with industry trends and practices. Steve and Jan are successful, financially and otherwise. They didn't let the lack of an advance college fund stop them from reaching success. [i]If you decide to set up education funds for your children, ask your tax professional about the options that will give you the most flexibility and the best after-tax return for your situation. Remember to pay attention to your own overall financial picture first, however. It's a good idea to keep some investments accessible for projects such as paying college tuition, but designated college funds are not the only way to go. Whatever your family's needs may be in the future, the best way to be sure you can meet them is to make sure you are on the right track for all your financial goals.[/i]
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9 responses
• United States
5 Jun 09
Do you have kids?? The whole reason for parents to save for their children's college fund is that hopefully when they graduate and become successful they can return the favor and take care of their parents. ALSO!! As parents it is your responsiblity to take care of your children and if you love them you want to make it absolutely possible for them to succeed.
• United States
5 Jun 09
Blah. I do not concur. Sometimes the best way for a child to succeed is a little... breathing... room. And if I had kids, and if I was old enough to need them to take care of me, you better believe I'd be looking after myself then. They wouldn't need to. If I had kids they'd be too busy making revolution to look after ol pappy.
• India
7 Jun 09
Thats cool !!! but what if your kids dont do well , what if they dont take care of you when you grow old??
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I agree with you. You save for your children education for their bright future. Why don't you start with a small business instead with that money you intend to save. Maybe that business will grow big time. Then your children future is already secured. Just my opinion.
• India
8 Jun 09
I think ...parents should provide education to their children but NOT at the cost of there savings.... they should also save for their future right??
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
I agree with you. I used to be a working college student and I have funded my own studies. Besides your children will not be taking care of you when you grew up, so better get a retirement plan for yourself. Life is getting harder these days so we need to be wise and be able to think more ways on how to save our hard earned money for future use. Besides not all very successful persons in the world including Bill Gates have college education as you can read it as a fact here: http://finance.yahoo.com/career-work/article/107139/CEOs-Without-College-Degrees?mod=career-leadership
• India
7 Jun 09
the site was really useful, worth reading once!!!thnk you for spending time in my article..
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Wow! You have such a very nice idea. Thank you for giving this facts for us somehow I have been enlightened a little. Actually I have been thinking of getting educational plan for my son and I have no plan for retirement plan as of this time.
• India
7 Jun 09
thnk you mam...you are always welcome!!
• United States
5 Jun 09
Rather than going all aggressive on college funding, a more progressive approach would be to acknowledge parent contribution for student contribution. I.E. Student pays most, parent pays part. If the parents have the money, they should pay. A freaking huge retirement benefit is just peachy for parents, but if their lack of devotion to the education of their children might have expedited the children's failure, then the parents should realize it. But students also need autonomy. They need to learn how to work 40 hours a week to get through school, and more, and how to live with less. Because, in the foreseeable future there will be less of everything. And there will be no social security to couch those children later on. My wife's dad never paid a dime for her education. Heck, he told her she would fail. Parents need to do what it takes to support their kids through college. If that means urging the kids to get a job, great. If that means paying part of the way, great. Where is my wife's dad now, when both of us are teetering in our last semesters, unable to support ourselves on my meager salary?
• India
6 Jun 09
Children should study hard, so they can receive a full scholarship, that is what my parents told me. My parents also told me that a rich child can go to a college of his or her choice, with the money, but a smart and intelligent child will be ACCEPTED into any college, if he or her is that smart!
@BlueGoblin (1829)
• United States
4 Jun 09
Well, if your kid is not doing well in school then I don't see a reason why parents should save for college. They should instead try to find something their children are actually good at. High School counselors are terrible at placing kids in the right classes and pushing them into the right field. Unfortunately we don't live in a world where having a talent like woodworking is useful anymore. Now all our furniture is mass produced garbage made in a foreign land. So your kid probably does need to go to school because skilled laborer is not that useful without a degree. The other option is an apprenticeship and I think that is a better option all the way around. They might need to do some schooling but it's probably less than they'd do at college.
• India
6 Jun 09
Parents can easily set aside some money for their child's college fund without significantly hindering their retirement fund. There are all sorts of bargains children can make with their parents in order to earn a great 4 year degree without anyone breaking the bank. How about the child attends a community college and pays for it him/herself then transfers to a state public university and uses the college fund from his/her parents? It's true that not every child is cut out for college. If that is the case for your child then the money you had set aside for their education can easily wait until they need a downpayment for a home or even to start their own retirement fund.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
5 Jun 09
Great statement on this one. I had posted my reasons why parents should save money for their retirement first a couple days ago. I hope that you read that too. I have post similar reasons to advise other people not to. I had my reasons in shorter version, and hope you see it too.
• United States
5 Jun 09
I agree with those 6 reasons why, especially that they need to educate themselves... Children should study hard, so they can receive a full scholarship, that is what my parents told me. My parents also told me that a rich child can go to a college of his or her choice, with the money, but a smart and intelligent child will be ACCEPTED into any college, if he or her is that smart! Being poor doesnt have to do with education.. You can always be smarter than a rich kid, and afford to go to a nicer college then him or her!
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
6 Jun 09
My parents didn't save up for my college tuition - there wasn't such a thing when we were in the Philippines. However, they worked their butt offs when we moved here (emigrated)to make sure that I have a good education (granted I do well in all my classes and deserve to go to a 4-year university). And because of how I was raised - I appreciated every penny that my parents forked over to me for my college education. Because I was RAISED well knowing that not everyone is as fortunate as I am when it comes to parents - I worked my butt off to do well in school and finish engineering school in 4 years (that I did - my friends!). Please note that while I was in college, 2 of my other siblings are also in college. Now, I still have student loans because they couldn't pay for ALL of it (not a whole lot though - 8K). All of us have student loans of less than 10K- all us worked our butts off to get those scholarships and such. All of us got more than a leg up from mom and dad. And when I say "all of us" I mean me and my sibs. My parents did it for me - I'll do it for my kids. And hopefully my kids will do it for their kids - and so on. My parents didn't owe it to me - they did it for me because they love me and they want me to have a good life. In the process of putting me through college and raising me pre-college, they taught me how to be a responsible human being. I am now 24 years old - with a house that is mine, a great career, and with bigger dreams to fulfill. I'm proud of where I am but I wouldn't have gotten this far without my parents help, love, and support- THAT'S FORE SURE!