what do u think pls be honest

Ok well honestly, i dont see the point in them being there at all if they are gonna join in and play as well, I saw the reply from your boyfriend and he said he isnt sure if he could join and not feel like it is cheating because he would be doing things to the other person, So does that mean he think you are cheating on him because you are doing things with another person? But then again if u like the best of most worlds why bother being in a relationship why not just be single and enjoy the time you have with the women and enjoy the time you have with a man, I class it has cheating no matter what apart from if you have permission from the other person to do it or if it is threesome! I say to your boyfriend come on mate just jump in and start playing i am sure you will really enjoy yourself

I don't mean to be offensive or anything but I would not like my wife or GF to be a Bi.

I think you need a new boyfriend.Anyone who is with me, is with me, they want anyone else, then they can go be alone with them on their own time, casue it won't be my time any longer.Open relationships,are an oxymoron.

I think that if you want a serious relationship with your bf then you should notice if he is disturbed or not by what you are doing. If he's okay with you doing that, then it's your call, if not, you are about to encounter a big decision of your life :)

I just have to ask why? Why is one not enough? This is why there is such an increase in diseases. I could not imagine allowing my significant other to please or be pleased by someone else. Frowning....

Sounds like my hubby, I am Bi also

Well this is of mature cont. and you should know now I give real answers. I think that if you and your bf have come to a legitimate and mature understanding of this then fine. But speaking for myself only, if my girl were bi, I would want the other girl living under our roof as part of our household and that you were her only partner. Mostly because of STD's. Also it is less like you are going outside of the household. Then there is the part of what do you do if he wants to cheat or be involved with your girl occassionally? After all I'm quite sure he's not interested in any men, so you guys need to discuss this if not already. You also need to pay attention to the situation w your ex. He may try to use this against you in the courts. I know as a parent that your daughter is more important. Anyway, back to your bf. You guys need to make/have these discussions especially if you guys feel your relationship is serious.

If you're going to be in a relationship with someone and want to add another person, they should get some say in it. However, it really comes down to how comfortable you are. And, if you don't want him watching then you need to address that.

well, you certainly present and exciting and interesting option. But I do not see your relationship with you boyfriend being able to take this. You need to focus all of your energy on him.

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If you are take a vow of marriage, I believe that you should be monogamous. I believe only two people should be in that relationship. But if you are in an open relationship, without marriage, and you both agree, hey if it works for you go ahead. I do find it difficult to believe that you can have an ongoing relationship with one person and still sleep with other people, or allow your partner to. I believe that eventually something will give and the relationship will fail. Just my humble opinion.

I dont have an issue as long as my GF or wife palys along with another female. But as a male, i should be the only one. I dont have an issue with either watching or joining in.

yes i feel bad about it, it is not a topic for disussion,so i don't want to explain more.but i not ask to you bi-sexuality is bad its not concern with me. enjoy the life with d way you want.

I'm also bi, and in a relationship with a man. He knew from the get go about my lifestyle and just like any other man was all for it. But when it came time for me to actually practice my lifestyle and be with girls he became very jealous. He wanted to be involved. We've had several threesomes but it always ends up with us fighting down the road. So, we've cut it out all together. We believe that any other physical contact regardless of who it's with is cheating, so at this point we're not doing it. I would love to be able to have a lil more fun with it so hopefully the trust issues will eventually be out of the way

Dive in the middle become the meat in the sandwich

Can you say STD and HPV. What are your plans for the future?

im bi to and my boyfriend lets me play alone and we sometimes have theesomes as long as were open and honest about everything and there are no other guys besides him, its all good.

hum well honestly i think i wouldn't want him to watch or join or have anything to do with it....so i think i wouldnt tell him when i played lol

I do not have any problems if my partner is a bi but would prefer that she informs or does all the encounters in my presence

that would be awsome i wish my girlfriend was bi