sassybratky

@sassybratky (872)

United States • Age 56

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Is it ok if the woman is older than a guy in a relationship?

insulin @insulin (2479) • Philippines 19 Nov 10

My fiancee's bestfriend is 30 and his girlfriend is 44,now it came to the point that they broked up since the woman explains the relationship is not working.The girl do have 3 kids,nearly all are grown man and woman too like...

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sassybratky I think so. My mom has been in a relationship with a younger guy since 2004. (after my father died) She is 63 and He is my age 42-43. He has no kids and She has 3 grown kids. We did not accept him at first since we were still missing our dad, but over the...

21 Nov 10

Do you prefer to eat spicy foods or not? Why?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 1 Nov 10

Spices that we put on food enhance our appetite. but for me it depends on what type of foods. Well if it's fried chicken, pizza or wanton soup I want spicy, but in spaghetti and pancit canton I don't prefer spicy. For the foods...

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sassybratky What a good topic, Seems like over the last few years my seasoning on foods have changed a lot. I have never liked salt on anything, if it comes salted fine, but i add a minimum amount of salt to anything i cook, but black pepper and hot sauce. I love to add A...

2 Nov 10

Is it possible to be inlove to a person whom you met over the net?

jharia20 @jharia20 (365) • Philippines 27 Oct 10

Here is the situation, you are just chatting and making some friends when a consistent chatter always chat with you everyday. You always miss him and you even cared for him, is it possible to fell in love with him? As for me...

life

love

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sassybratky Yes, it is very possible. Me and my husband just celebrated your 11th wedding anniversary Friday Oct. 29th. We met online, It has had it's ups and downs, but overall we have lived a nice comfortable happy life together. Online relationships develop faster on...

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Am I really a failure? How Does One 'Define S uccess?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 24 Oct 10

I got the idea for a new discussion from one I just read asking what movitvated one to do well in school. To me it was always that I admired writers and all that they accpmplished. I thought if I did well in school one day I...

a failure or a success

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sassybratky Yeah that is true, but as a mom, you along with the rest of us moms have always told our children, It does not matter what other people think of you. They were not the ones living your life, paying your bills, dealing with the hardships or joys your had in...

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Am I really a failure? How Does One 'Define S uccess?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 24 Oct 10

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sassybratky My opinion on success in life, is not a list of accomplishments, success is a personal journey for each of us, I suppose one could look at it as having the biggest house, the best car, the most chic clothes but riches can not bring happiness in life, they can...

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"HI did you miss something? " Me" NO everything I bought is here why?"

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 16 Oct 10

My best friend came by Gold Crest after work, and took me shopping to R ite Aide for some snack materials for low blood sugar prvention. I sat and talked to her for awhile then knowing she would be hungry and wanted to go home, I...

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sassybratky I hate to say it but I too am one of the women who have everything in a large shoulder bag, most of the items you listed as well as neosporin,orajel, bandaids, tums extra pills incase we decide to stay over somewhere on a whim (never happens but a woman can...

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"I am so unhappy, with life and my husband" " I cry myself to sleep "

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 11 Oct 10

this discussion was triggered by responses to another discussion. I was saddened to read how many women do cry themselves to sleep because they feel trapped and dependent on their husband. It shocked me to think in this modern age...

need to feel free

sel esteem

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sassybratky I can relate to these women, I used to be one myself, depend on asking my husband for every cent, and feeling worthless and like a ultimate failure at helping with anything. Until a few years ago when I began to work online, surveys, ptc, and any other way I...

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Will You Date Someone Whose Obese?

candyfairy21 @candyfairy21 (2039) • Philippines 9 Oct 10

Hi guys I need your honest opinion...would you ever date or consider going steady with someone whose obese? I know they say that physical appearance is not what matters but what's inside but let's face it in this judgmental world...

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sassybratky To say you would never date a person who is obese, would be saying in today's world that you would not date 63.1% of adults in the U.S. because that is how many were either overweight or obese in 2009. Personally I think love is following your heart & soul,...

10 Oct 10

People selling things door to door

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 2 Oct 10

There are lots of door to door sales people that are forever knocking on peoples doors and i am fed up of going to the door to answer it to people that craze me.I think that if i wanted a shopper cheque loan i am sure that i could...

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sassybratky I serious hate people selling things door to door also. I am like you, If I want something I know where to go and find it, If i want it discounted, I can find that myself too. I don't need hawkers trying to sell to me from a truck. To beat it all the same...

3 Oct 10

You ever try to repair your computer your self?

ravalarun @ravalarun (337) • India 11 Sep 10

Before 10 Years ago, my computer was full in ill, i asked to my boss for send my pc to technician, there were training season. no on want to come to us, i rested to days, altimetly i open the cabinet and clean all, believe m i got...

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sassybratky Oh yes, I have repaired my computer myself many times, I have learned slowly over the time I have been online how to do different things, starting with plain old errors, I have not went inside the computer but I can do all the cosmetic stuff myself. My mindset...

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What is wrong with people?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 9 Sep 10

On September 11, 2001 we all lost. Not just Americans. The attack or prejudice of every Muslim was a terrible thing. We cant blame all for the acts of one. We know that. That's not what I'm here for today. I have been reading and...

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sassybratky I too have been watching this unfold on TV. It is upsetting to me to see someone who believes in God preaching intolerance, and hate, and any persons. That is not the God I believe in.

10 Sep 10

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De-Stressing

Ruby_Dawn @Ruby_Dawn (617) • Spokane, Washington 10 Aug 10

I am dealing with a lot of stress and drama and was wondering what you all think is a better way to De-Stress... Sitting down and either watching sad movies or listening to sad music and have a cry fest? Going out dancing...

drama

stress

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sassybratky De-stressing for me is a number of things, I do love just watching a good movie and laughing or crying, but I love playing rpg games also, they let me get into a storyline that gives me something else to think about for a few minutes, My a lone time at night...

11 Aug 10

Do you forgive your friends who left you alone when you were in serious trouble?

yiyun_h @yiyun_h (183) • United States 6 Aug 10

I had a life time friend who I always put her needs above myself (which was wrong I realized now). I devoted too much to her. And recently years I was in all kinds of challenges: mentally and physically, career wise, financial,...

friendship

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sassybratky I like yourself have a lifelong friend of almost 25 yrs now, we are not very close now at all, because even though I did forgive her for not being there just to talk when I needed someone desperately, (when my father died, when my other best friend died, my...

7 Aug 10

Do you watch Reality Tv programs?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 5 Aug 10

I have to admit I'm just about addicted to Reality TV but my favorite was the Bachelorette with Ally and I'm so happy she chose Roberto. For a couple of minutes at the end when he was on his way to meet her for the last ceremony...

bachelorette

reality tv

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sassybratky I do not watch The Bachelotette, But I am a reality TV freak, I believe I watch almost every one I see Top Chef, Network Star, Hells Kitchen, MasterChef, Big Brother, Survivor, The Biggest Loser, The Apprentice, Project Runway, Can You Duet, Celebrity Fit...

6 Aug 10

What do you hate most about your partner/ lover/ spouse?

antilove @antilove (191) • Vietnam 29 Jul 10

Well, no one is perfect, even the one you love the most, right? So there must be something that you don't like about that person. Franky but also secretly saying ^^, my husband is really a nice man. However, I badly want him...

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sassybratky Where oh where to begin, I have been married almost 11 years, my husband is a very talkative man, with everyone except ME. I swear we could sit in the same room for 3 days and he will say 5 words the whole time. Someone calls he starts yaking his mouth off....

29 Jul 10

Nasty OLD Cancer

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 24 Jul 10

Many of u may recall that i had a good friend w/brain cancer.I had ask for prayer for her & written some discussions about her. About 2 weeks ago she lost her battle w/the horrible disease.She wasn't but 54 years old & had been my...

cancer

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sassybratky I am so very sorry to hear about your friend :( Yes I am sure almost everyone has lost someone close or they love to cancer, I have lost friends and my dad to the evil C word. That was my toughest battle with it, It has been 5 yrs now and it still feels like...

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