how to move on?

@arneljb (224)
Philippines
June 13, 2009 12:09pm CST
my boy friend just told me that: once he had his painful brek-up he had this best cure. he just listened to mikaila's "the art of letting go" and everything went right. he tried emerging to the lyrics and he could totally move on. have you anything to share what's the best way to move on?
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
13 Jun 09
I find the best way to move on from an ended relationship is to make friends with yourself. Take time to discover your self again, and to think about what things the relationship was holding you back from. Maybe it is time to recconnect with old friends you hardly see any more, or finish that book you started writing 2 years ago, or take that class you have been wanting to take. Recoonnect with yourself and realize you have value as your own person, and not just part of that relationship.
@arneljb (224)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
i like your very way. i've done it myself and it is very effective.
@nchap36 (556)
• United States
13 Jun 09
Good question, how do you move on? It's been almost 5yrs. I'm trying hard to move on. He has gotten remarried, but the transition is difficult for me. I sit back and think about the good and our bad times together. People say the only way to really to get over is to fill the void in my life. Which at this point is very hard do to the degree of my situation. I guess it just for me to long with a broken heart. Happy Mylotting................
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
13 Jun 09
everything has a reason. What you did you pay for it, and what you didnt, just dont pay for it? got that?? no? okay lemme explain you like this if you did something that made u and your love break up, then pay for it sayin sorry repenting and showin u really care and love. okay now if you've not done anything and ur innocent, than u just dont need to PAY? that means u dont need to give a shyt.. okay now lets talk about getting involved and then moving on...so tats a bit difficult, Yes you heard it right BIT difficult. Its just that the world aint ended. and he/she wasnt the one in your life? no dont ever think that because you may find it the most common thing to move on and you cant move on with this feeling at all. Its difficult yet so simple to understand just one thing that "the person who left you should and IS so unlucky and fool to leave a person like YOU?... like tsk tsk it off and smile at you to welcome some one more exciting and new GURL or a GUY....like come on Its just not the end? its an end of a creepy gaga with your love and another chance to get hooked up with some one unknown more good or bad and more exciting BREAKUP- an opportunity to get hooked up with some one else ALL OVER AGAIN its like You are gonna fall in love al over again !!! WOW
• Malta
13 Jun 09
The best way to move on is by acknowledging your feelings and leting them off. If you still live or think about the past you can never take action to move forwards. By looking aqt the past and realise how you can learn from it, you'll have the key towards a bright future.