Michael Jackson : Eccentric or Wacko?

@dloveli (4366)
United States
June 25, 2009 6:32pm CST
First off let me say that for one, I will truly miss Michael Jackson. I am truly heartbroken. My first celebrity crush has died. Since the time that he was making a name for himself with THRILLER, alot has changed. Some music was made. Nothing as good as thriller. Some horrible headlines became a daily occurence for Jackson. He was rumored to like children a little too much. THe first time it fell by the wayside because he paid a tremendous amount of money to make it go away. I didnt really agree with it but I understood it. THen in 2003 it happened again. THis time I couldnt chalk it up to people trying to hate on Michael. It seems that from the first incident when he was burnt making a Pepsi commercial that something wasnt right. I dont think I will ever believe in all that was said about Michael Jackson. I think something did happen and people ran with it. I dont think will ever know. WHat is your take on it? dl
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@Dorrdavy (275)
• Jamaica
26 Jun 09
he was a great singer, I'm just speechless when it comes to his music but, the problem is, i don't think he was satisfied with himself, he didn't love himself enough and was not at all appreciative of who he was. that i think was a great downfall for him.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
You said it all Mama! I think he didnt ever get over the fact that he didnt have a good childhood. His father was horrible and should feel guilty that his son had so many problems. Back in those days the way children were treated was very different and not talked about. I think that his career took a turn for the worst when he was burnt in the Pepsi commercial. When he became dependent on pills that was when things started to turn for the worst. I think that the people that really loved and followed Michael Jackson know what he was really capable of and I honestly think he doesnt see himself as a grown man. He thought as a child. WHen a grown man relates better to children you know people , Haters, will run with it. As they did. I think he was not mentally okay but he was a great musician. He deserves to be able to be in peace without everyone rehashing all this negative BS. You and I are definitely on the same page. dl
@Dorrdavy (275)
• Jamaica
26 Jun 09
thanks for the best response!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
yes, i do agree with you. i will also miss michael, when i was a kid i loved listening to his musics! like billie jean..thriller and the video of it was cool . lol. and yes he turned into a weirdo or wacko and it is sad that he turned into such..when he makes great music and he can sing, entertain! Maybe he just got caught up with the issues of races before..like white vs black..and maybe in so many ways it affected him and maybe that is why he did what he did to himself..like making his nose narrower or his skin white..and it is sad that he did that when in fact he was great for what he was. He has this voice that mesmerizes me even till now. i will always love his song, heal the world. and for me he is a legend no matter what people will say about him, no one if perfect.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Michael Jackson was the ONE! He truly was the King of Pop. I think that if people really look at his life and how he was treated they would understand why he was so eccentric. I did a report on him in high school and found that his father was very demanding. The father had a group that didnt do so well. When it became evident that his children were talented, he began living entirely thru his sons. It was said that they performed at strip clubs at all hours of the night. If they didnt practice it was said they were beaten. I dont know but I do think that something or someone hurt him terrible either mentally or physically. He hid it until he couldnt do it anymore. I think it was hard for him to read that people thought he was gay, slept in hyperbarric chambersetc. Whatever the real story is, he was incredible. RIP Michael
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
yes he is a great musician and an entertainer!
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@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
26 Jun 09
michael jackson is a legend....any bad he's ever done or any mistakes he may have made or how weird he may have acted is definitely over shadowed by his music and talent! he's the KING OF POP ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!!!
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
You got that right! I think that if his family had stepped in years ago and tried to help it could have helped. We'll never know. I only hope people will let him go in peace. RIP Michael Jackson dl
@AmbiePam (85528)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I don't want to make judgments; I would hate to accuse someone of something that wasn't true. While he certainly was eccentric (and aren't most eccentric people usually cool? lol), I do think he was a wacko. But with his childhood and the spotlight of fame, what can I say that would be accurate? I do wish he had not married Lisa Marie Presley. That took away a lot of his legitmacy. They never even slept together apparently. It just seems beyond odd and didn't help keep the rumors at bay. No matter what my opinion, I feel nothing but sadness for his children. That was their father, and I know they must have dearly loved him.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I am glad you're one of the few that didnt judge without all the facts. We must remember that its rumored that his father would beat them if they didnt rehearse. They didnt go to school as they should. His father was living thru his kids. I think that the marriages, were a way to say he wasnt gay. Remember the rumors were that he was gay. It hurts me when someone says something untrue. Imagine how it hurt him when tabloids were saying something outrageous every day. He didnt fit in. He tried to make himself as normal as possible by marrying. I think when it didnt work he felt safe with children. I honestlly believe that because he was in show business his entire life, he stopped growing mentally. At some point he developed as society thought he should kind of just for show. Really he wasnt maturing at all. He felt safe with kids because they're non judgmental and innocent. I will be very curious to see if the children inherit all his wordly possesions. I wonder if they will show themselves. We'll have to see. I think his mother loved him but I do blame her as well. She couldve stopped it or at least told someone who could. If you have a ton of children, you need to be able to handle it. Im sorry the parents didnt do a good job. Michael isnt the only one with issues. Remember Latoya stated her family kidnapped her. She isnt all there. Janet has had weight issues as well as secret husbands. Not Normal. Jermaine married just to get away from Joe Jackson. He has stated it publicly. I hope there thinking about their son and how much he's been thru both mentally, publically, legally, and emotionally. RIP Micheal
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Up to a point I liked Micheal Jackson's music...I think the last time I really listened to it was when Thriller came out. No doubt he had talent but I think he also had alot of problems and there was alot of signs pointing to the fact that he might have been a child molester. Ppl didn't want to think that b/c of how famous he was and surely he wouldn't do something like that but I honestly don't know any other grown men that have young boys sleep in their bedrooms with them with the door locked... Whether he did anything wrong or not, he put himself in the position, more than once, to be accused of it...that shows a serious lack of common sense. I remember when Thriller came out he was still pretty normal but then he seemed to start sliding down the slippery slope of weird and just never stopped. I can't say I blame his parents, afterall there are alot of ppl that face abuse as children and come through it fine. Not to mention that if he suffered serious mental problems he had more than enough money to seek help for it. I don't know...he was a very strange man and I hope he's where he should be now. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I think that we will never know the exact point that sent him over the edge. However, I think that his family was so busy basking in his success and trying to obtain their own success using his name, they should have noticed he needed intervention. Im not saying that Michael handled himself correctly I am just saying that it wasnt as if it wasnt noticeable. Every tabloid and talk show was talking about "WACKO JACKO". I hope his children are left alone to grieve as we would for our loved ones. I dont care what he did, he deserves to rest in peace. RIP MJ dl
• United States
26 Jun 09
I think he was a little bit of both.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Short and to the point. I think you said it well. I didnt know how someone with that much money could be that sad until now. I hope we all learn a lesson of how money cant make you happy. Michael Jackson wasnt happy on the inside. He kept doing all this crazy stuff because he was looking for what he was missing. Now he doesnt have to search anymore. RIP MJ dl
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
26 Jun 09
all I know is he had a very hard life specailly with his dad beating them all if they didnt doi good!
@venshida (4836)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I don't know if he was either. I am very devastated about his passing. I think he was awesome.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I'm not sure what to believe with all of the stories we have heard about him. It really did not concern me. I liked him too when I was growing up. I used to have a jacket like his and tried to do the moonwalk also LOL.
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I remember Michael when he was that cute little guy in the "Jackson Five" as he got older and made more money I think it got out of control. His life style, the surgeries and junk, he changed everything about himself and I lost all respect for him. I feel bad for what has happened and his family but I haven't seen him 'contribute' much for some time.
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• United States
27 Jun 09
i'm not gonna judge him,i have no right to. i guess i feel pity for him,he didn't have much of a childhood,and people seemed to take advantage of him.i will never forget the chubby cheeked lil' kid with the powerful voice.even when i was little i thought he had a strange amount of stage presence for one so young.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
26 Jun 09
When Michael Jackson started off in the music business he was a normal kid! Then he seem to grow up to be normal adult and still was a great singer! As the 1980's ended he started getting very weird and became a wacko! Jackson seems to have lost touch with reality! I don't know why but like the things you listed that isn't normal! The marriage to Lisa Marie Presely, the marriage to the nurse who had his first 2 kids,the 3rd child that was dangling off a balconey,all the kids weras masks or scarfs over their faces,the money problems and the plastic surgeriers he had! That made he look like freak! If it was just an act,a mental problem or he just weird, I just don't know! Now he is gone and we won't have to hear wierd stories about him,hopefully!
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I do agree that it started off well. I think it all started to go dowm hill after he was burnt during the making of the pepsi commercial. By this time he had reached all time star status. He was a SUPERSTAR. I think all the rumors, negative publicity, auto biographies, and lies by tabloids really hurt his feelings. I think he did all these things because he felt he didnt deserve the limelight. I think Michael Jackson is a prime example of where abuse stemming from your childhood, if not addressed, will come back and get you. He felt as if he was unworthy so he made himself ugly. Unfortunately he went overboard. He is resting and happy now. No worries. It's Over for him now! No more pain or innuendos Michael. You are with God now my friend.
• Spain
26 Jun 09
dep mj
• United States
26 Jun 09
Michael Jackson, was alright, then he became a WACKO. All of the things that he has been accused of doing with children and the proof, holding a child off of a ledge. At first he was a very good singer and popular, for good reason, in recent years he was still popular, but for the wrong reasons. He had A LOT of fan because just minutes after going on sale, his up coming concert tour tickets were sold out. Michael will be missed but he will still be remembered for the wrong reasons.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Its true people everywhere love Michael Jackson. The only thing was that because he was so famous he was kept under a microscope. Tabloids report things that are not true or exaggerated. For Michael, I think it was too much. Its public record that they werent as close as said to have been. It was almost impossible to get tickets. When I was 15, he planned a concert in Foxboro stadium. He then canceled it and never scheduled another. At least its all over. He can rest in peace.dl
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
25 Jun 09
This is a really good discussion because music is really important in everyday life because it can help change your moods,if you are sad,then music can help make you happy again,and some songs can even make you want to get up and sing and dance around the room like no one is watching,and when you are angry,some songs can help your anger flow away,and some songs can even make you sad when you listen to them even though not many people want to be sad,and I am sure that different people like different genres of music,and I am sure that everyone has heard of Michael Jackson, and I am sure there are people who liked Michael Jackson,and then I am sure there are a lot of people who did not like Michael Jackson,for one reason or another and I know that everyone is different,because no two people think the same since everyone has different ideas,different opinions,and different preferences,and when it comes to me I am not a fan of Michael Jackson because I have heard some terrible things about him,and I never liked his music,but it is sad that he has passed and I pray for his family,since it is always hard to lose a family member,have a great day,good luck with your life,and all of your mylotting goals,and Happy Posting.
@saki13 (95)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
he was both eccentric and fabulous, a legend in music history all over the world. He has touched many lives, and he proves that he is no better than us because he himself has many life issues.