will you tell the truth to your boyfriend/gf that you slept with another person?
By acie_21
@acie_21 (5633)
Philippines
June 27, 2009 2:45am CST
hehehehe!maybe ill tell the truth.worst comes to worst,i don't care at least i never lied to him.we'll if it will end to break up you have no choice but to accept it.its your fault.we may never know maybe he'll come back to you for not lying.hehehehe.
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@Wink24 (167)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
actually i'm not that type of person,knowing that i already had a bf but if that accidentally happened, Yes. I'll tell him. And i'll accept whatever decision he'll made after knowing about it. It's better to know it from me first than from others.
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
the truth will set us free...so maybe i will tell it to him...but i think it requires so much courage! and upon saying this we must be ready for all the consequences...good if he accepts it...but if he does not...then maybe he's not the one for me...
if someone really loves us, they must love us for who we are and accept even our weakness and mistakes in the past...
but if that mistakes happens inside the marriage...then its a different story...
have a nice day friend!
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
that's why i said, upon telling this to your loved one be ready and prepared for whatever consequence it may bring...if he can't accept me anymore for that, then what's the purpose of staying with him if he don't like me anymore? if you really love him...let him go, let him think...and if he comes back...then you are meant to be...hehehe
of course it will be a natural reaction for a man to get mad if he knows something like this...we can't expect them to be happy with that...but again, let him think...and if he really loves you...he will surely comeback and accept you for who you are...
of course it will be a natural reaction for a man to get mad if he knows something like this...we can't expect them to be happy with that...but again, let him think...and if he really loves you...he will surely comeback and accept you for who you are...@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
hi friend! thanks for your comment.how about if you love him so much and he wants to break up with you for what you did.you'll set him free?even though it hurts?its like the world revolves in him only.will you risk of letting him go? and forget him even though its hard for you,to recover?
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@desteny114 (886)
• United States
27 Jun 09
I would tell him that is if I will eve do it. I can't lie because I feel bad about lying so I always end up telling everything. Also I can't sheat because I have always been faithful I don't know why but when it come to a guy getting near me for what ever reason I will get nervous and just leave. If a guy comes up to me and he asks me something about whatever I will get so nervous that I will just give him the aswer and tell him that I had to go because I was married and I did not want my husband to get mad. My husban is so jelous that he is always thinking that I'm doing something I think that it must be because he has a guilty conchence since his always going out and getting home late and I don't like to fight so most of the time I wont say a word.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
thanks for your answer.really?is it ok if ill say something?maybe all you need is faith and trust to each other.you know what me and my husband pray together at night and we talk most of the times if my husband is not busy.communication is a must to make relationship more stronger most of all trust and respect.hope to see more of your comments.thanks!
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