keeping a picture of their ex-bf's/gf's.

@acie_21 (5640)
Philippines
July 1, 2009 7:17am CST
is it ok with you girls that your husband is still keeping their ex gf's pictures?does it insults you?or you just dont mind at all?is it a big deal?or will you tell your husband to keep away those photos?or burn it!?are you hurt if he still doesnt want to throw those away? hope to see your comments.
5 responses
• United States
7 Jul 09
Omg!!!! are you serious?? yeah i DO mind why does he still have that picture..insulting! i even told my husband u better throw that pictures or letters or else ill do it myself.my husband got this boxes and boxes of pictures and letters from his ex. i make sure that he threw that thing away..what's the purpose of keeping it? It hurt a bit when i saw that pictures...seems that he still thinking bout her or what? guys guys guys.....gives me a headache. hahaha
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
nop it was just before when we were still bf and gf.now that were married those pictures?i never saw it anymore.why do guys always do that?whats their purpose of keeping those pictures?how about you,do you still keep pictures of your ex?thanks for the comment!happy mylotting!
• United States
9 Jul 09
Hell nah!!! If I broke up with my bf...tsk tsk everything must GO! i mean EVERY single thing that would remind me of him. why would I keep his pictures?to cry on? or maybe i'll put it on under the refrigerator for a bait for mouse, hahaha nah, i dont usually keep em.. i would burn it or just rip it off completely
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
WHAT??? i think this calls for a war! hahahaha you know, when we are still bf/gf i saw the pictures of her ex in his dresser(somebody show it to me) and i feel very very mad about it! i am a jealous type before and you know what i do with that picture? i tear it into piecse and throw in the flood! hahaha...that's what it deserves! that's when we are still not yet married...so now, imagine if that happens when we are still married? for me i think its something that a married man/woman should not do...coz it will definitely hurt their partners...hello! we are not stones! we have a feeling...and besides, what's the meaning or reason in keeping those trash (i mean pictures of their ex) this topic makes me hehehe
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
what do you think of those husband's keeping their pictures ex?
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
i don't know what to say...hehehe i'm worried to get the wrong words, but for me, as far as i am concern...they are bullsh*t! and no respect for the feelings of their wife...its just for me okay?
@silverglint (2001)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
I think my husband or any guy should be considerate enough not to keep anymore pictures of the Ex-GFs if they already have a wife or a new GF. I would definitely question my husband why he is keeping a picture with him and explain to him what message it sends to me and how it makes me feel. Some guys just have no idea, they are not very sensitive with these kind of things. Even if he didn't mean anything by keeping the picture, knowing how it affects me should make him understand why he had to dispose of it.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
thanks friend but how about if he still doesnt listen to you and keeps on repeating it even though you have discused this topic to him many times?
@kmaram (2534)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
I am very jealous person and if i saw a picture of his ex that would be a big foul. I dont think its proper to keep a picture of an ex, what for? Before i saw a pic of a girl with his laptop actually this girl was not a girlfriend before just a friend but i told him why you have pic of her but actually its a pic with ym so he said thats part of ym in profile .. then i said to him you have to delete it .. and what he do was delete the contact of the girl to his account. Now we are together for many years and thanks God our relationship was doing good. Keep on posting good discussion & happy mylotting =)
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
thanks for your comment.do you think that those people still likes the person that they have been keeping in their albums?
@smartie0317 (1612)
• United States
1 Jul 09
I can be a very jealous person and this would p*ss me off. I would tell him to get rid of it if I were married and if he didn't, I would take it and rip it in front of his face. Why do you need pictures of your exs for?
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
yap!i also agree it insults me too!why do they do that to their wife's or husband's?what you think?is it still important to them?is that what they are thinking?