Should I apply a visa to go to see my virtual boyfriend?
By 333tangtang
@333tangtang (404)
China
July 9, 2009 10:58pm CST
aiya.sometimes i really feel like i am confusing.because I have a virtual boyfriend.he comes from the UK,and I am from China.we got to know each other more than 4 years now.but both of us have never seen each other in real life.that is sad isn't it? so i made a decision to go and get me a visa to go to uk to see him.
but all my friends say,oh..pls dont do that.it might hurt you.
but still if you have not try,you'll never know what's going on in future.
hmmm really i think i should go and see if both of us have future.if not,i want to give up the internet lover which is my virtual boyfriend.
how you think i should go to apply a visa to go to uk to see him, or i just stay here and give him up?
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2 responses
@smartie0317 (1610)
• United States
10 Jul 09
I don't know. I wouldn't go. You have a lot of hard work in front of you in case this does not work out. Also a lot of time and money lost. Can you afford to fly out there. Also, do you know he really wants you there? I hate to be negative, but you never know with this type of thing. He could be married or just crazy. If you want to see him, have him help with some of the work and cost.
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@333tangtang (404)
• China
15 Jul 09
well
50% agree yet!!!I DONT KNOW if i really sure my descion.
but all confuseing me about,i need to see him as a real person.so...i realy want to go,but you are right,if i go,it will cost me a lot of money,
I know he really wants me there as well...because before i get there,he has to help me for some documetns.ect.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
10 Jul 09
My husband and I met on line. I am Canadian, and he is American. I lived in Canada, and he lived in the USA. We met, fell in love all over again, and got married in the USa. We came up to Canada for a visit, and decided that we liked it better up here, than down there, so we stayed here in Canada.
@333tangtang (404)
• China
15 Jul 09
the point is...Canada and the US are similar country i guess.
but UK and China are big differents.such culture as i m a farmer as well...hmmm
thanks for your reply anyway
