.... negative words in love

Hi sanjana..how lovely you and your hubby are... Yes...the same things happened to me if we cast away the negative words that we often speak...and the results are happiness and see our love and life blooming just exactly you said.. Me and My husband have the same thought with you..that we have to start our day and our time with the positive aura or positive thingking...cause believe or not it's effects to our energy and turn into the good life. Need that good feeling..to make our life survive... Good luck with your fam..:)

You are right. It is always good to start your day right. A mere good morning to the people in your family makes a difference. It is always good to be positive. You always see life around you shinning bright and you see a brighter future. Let go of the negative around you. Stop cursing words for it may only bring bad luck to your life. START YOUR DAY RIGHT.

Hello my friend sanjana_aslam Ji, Positiveness has lot of ingrients, I wish to bring out in following manner, so that one gets even better results. [b]"WHY TO BE POSITIVE/THINK POSTIVE/DREAM POSITIVE. It has been established beyond doubts that, by way of living positive, it strengthens to face challenges in the life easily , but has any of us thought about each word meaning in its real senses, which are combination of ‘P O S I T I V E ‘ Let us define each word meaning and apply on-self. P------IS FOR PATIENCE , If one wants to make success in life, must have patience, people with patience do not think negatively and they find out some solution to their problems. They do not cry in adverse condition and come out in flying colors. O------IS FOR OPTEMESTIC means there is a always ray of hope in the life. So do not part away with hope. Do not blame fate and loose hope. Keep morale high full of expectations, and everyone is fed up with me. Under these circumstances, try to be hopeful. S------IS FOR SATISFACTION, people never get satisfied with lust in life. But they day one feels ‘satisfied’, thinking will automatically be converted into positive thinking. For this , on should look down, you will feel you are better and satisfied than those, who even do not get that much. Non-satisfaction leads to depression, so whatever, you have got and achieved , get satisfied with that. I------IS FOR INSPIRATION, one must get inspiration from their ‘Ideals/Examples/Gurus/Leaders etc’ . There are born living characters around, take their examples of living. How they come out from problems and live happily. Every body has something hidden/exposed goodness, follow them. Leave their bad aspects. One will become positive. T------IS FOR TARGET, if you keep your goal/aim clear in front of you in your life, you will never face defeat. What you want to do and how would you achieve your goal, keep and make it to yourself very clear. Once aim is clear, it can be easily obtained. Even, if it is not reached , keep something to replace the same. You will not feel guilty. I------IS FOR IDEALS, make your personality such that people around you should have blind belief and start following you, you should be ideal for them. By being positive, you can always remain balanced in your thinking, remain always happy, ready to help others, others will follow you. Once you make and foolow your ideals, why do’t you become ideal for others. V-----IS FOR VICTOR, one should always known for winning and not for loosing, for this one has to keep himself under high spirit. After you get and face defeat, you should re-start your aim once more with double your strength and capacity. One must agree real aspect in life that ‘Victory and defeat’ are two faces of same coin. Do’t loose heart after defeat, remember that dawn will come, success is sure to come and greet you. E-----IS FOR EASY, In easy life there is no room for negative thinking at all.. If you lead real life in real sense, you will never face any problems In professionalism, easiness must. "[/b] May God bless You an dhave a great time.

Hello Sanjana, what a nice day to start a day with an encouragement. And thinking postivie is better than to be feeling heavy, bad and negative. All of us needs encouragement from our loved ones and it is good to hear that your hubby tells you that before both of you start your day right. I will also do the same and think positively everyday as we wake up. It brightens a day even if the sky is dark and gloomy and rainy. It gives joy in our hearts and hope to go in our everyday life. That no matter how hard we struggle in life, we don't have to give up because we are always hoping for the best to come, and it will. People that can wait are lucky and perseverance pays off everything. But if we give up easily, there will never be a chance for us since we stopped believing. Happy Mylotting!

hi sanjana aslam. my first response to your discussions. hope u will take it easily. i am not married so i don't know how to treat a beloved even i am single living person. yes i know how to start a day by positive thinking. lets share. my best friend says---- keep a promise. find a time. forego a grudge. forgive an enemy. listen. apologize if u were wrong. try to understand. flout envy. examine your demands on others. think first of someone else. appreciate, be kind, be gentle, laugh a little more. and .....................cheers. take care.

Hi sanjana_aslam, I can't remember whether I read it or heard it some where but I really like it. Its said that when you get mad to someone you love just remember the nice thing he/she have done to you. Remember how many good thing he/she have done compare to one or just a little spoiled thing. Do it until you cool down. Its really work. I always do it when I remember my ex-girlfriend and made me sad sometimes. But thing have done and nothing can change it. May God bless her life.

Hi Sanjana! It is great to know that you and your partner start your day with a positive outlook and always wish that the happenings of the day should be positive. You are absolutely right, if we think positive, we can win many battles and negative feelings or negative thinking just makes us feel depressed and down and out. I also try to be positive, as much as I can. Deepak PS - I send you a PM, I'm waiting its response, I'm positive that you will send it soon.

I know just what you mean. I work to keep up a positive attitude....not always an easy thing at all. It is worth all the effort. I have found that when I've succeeded in feeling positive that I attract positive people in my life. Likewise...when I've not been so successful in being positive....I tend to not just attract negative people but also cause people who'd otherwise be helpful to react to me in a negative way. they say a smile is contagious...it is. A frown is just as contagious. We should all be aware of the energy we are putting out there.

i love the quote... :) you're so lucky to have a partner like him... i wish i would be marrying somebody who'll be as sweet as your husband. :) he sure is lucky of having you too... God bless your family!

We should notsay negative words in love .As it hurts some one with whom you are in love.Heart is sensitive it get hurt easily if say some negative words or blame about any thing.We should avoid negative things in our mind .Be optimistic person and the result will be also positive.It happens some time when you get angry you some negative when you also dont know that you are saying negative.We have to control our negative thougts.