on and off relationship.

@acie_21 (5640)
Philippines
July 15, 2009 5:51am CST
why do people break up then stay together again?whats their reasons?ive experience on and off relationship with my bf before. its because i realize that i still do love him and if we have aguments i always say i want to break up with you!lol.i dont know why...maybe their some stuff a couple need to discover to each other and end up breaking a relationship.how about you?what you think? happy posting..
3 responses
• India
16 Jul 09
Hello acie, Well, as they say with distance love increases,Maybe that is the reason why people break up and then come back together. It is a natural human tendency that when people are together, they just seem to take each other for granted!! only when they get seperated and stay away for sometime,if they are truly in love, do they realise how much they miss each other and long to be in each others company!! It happens in everybody's life and even though everyone knows it they just cannot keep this habit of taking the other person for granted!! On the other hand if two people were just having a basic attraction rather than true love between them,They will part there ways once they break up and look for other partners. Cheers and happy my lotting!
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@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
thanks!heheheh!thats true...it happened to me too..on and off relationship sometimes good for the both of us..i can recieve lots of gifts from my bf!heheheh.. the more our love gets stronger.. and i agree "distance love increases"!thanks for sharing!have a nice day...
• India
17 Jul 09
Hey pal, Dont forget to mark the best answers to your discussions and also rating the comments positive. Cheers and happy my lotting!
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
ok do i have too?all your answer are good!and positive...do you rate ?
@smartie0317 (1612)
• United States
17 Jul 09
For me, it's because being in a relationship is hard. You like, or love, the person, but you want what's best for you. You can't compromise and there's a problem. So, you break up. Then, the problem goes away, or some time passes, and you think "I miss so and so" and you get back together. It's a cycle and imo why some people end up divorcing.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
do you agree to those people who ends up divorcing?hopping for your reply.
@geniustiger (1696)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2005354.aspx acie_21 hi! I dont like to have on and off relationship. If there would be problem to both of us let us talk with it before morning comes. Listen to each other and discover what's the cause of your arguments and begin to ask sorry or repent from what you've said that made him hurt. It is very nice to have open minded to all our hurt aches from our love ones. Then this is the way that you can find someone to lean on and also ypou can discover his feelings back to you. Relationship can be longer if each of us respect to each other and trust one another too. Without the trust and confidence in him then that's the time that you can let go of him.